A 14-year-old child said, "I don't want to wash the dishes. It's a very low-level thing." How should I deal with it?

A 14-year-old still thinks washing dishes is a very low-level thing! As a parent, you should let your children fully realize the concept of the word humble, what is humble! Is it cheap to wash a bowl? Of course not! How can such a thing as washing dishes be low? This kind of housework is basically done every day. How can it be low?

First, let's explain why we should wash the dishes. As a container for eating, it should be cleaned after eating so that it can be used next time, otherwise it is a disposable bowl (of course, it is impossible to use a disposable bowl for family eating). Is there any reason not to wash it? If washing dishes is low, then eating is the root of washing dishes, so is eating lower? Then why are you eating? Eating is inferior to washing dishes. Do not eat!

14-year-old children have such a wrong understanding, which is really a big mistake! If you don't want to do housework, just say so Why do you say washing dishes is cheap? Parents must correct their children's ideas at this point, otherwise it will really be the princess and prince's temper in the future, and they can't afford to serve! Laziness is easy to correct, but if the concept is not corrected in time, the impact may be lifelong!

I still hope that parents can educate their children well, so that washing dishes is not cheap, so that children can help with housework at home and feel the charm and glory brought by labor. How can they be cheap?

In fact, most children in China now have this common problem, which is also a place that parents have not taken care of and thought of. Before the child is seven or eight years old, maybe watching you wash dishes and mop the floor, he or she will be curious, want to learn, and want to help, but he or she will always be answered by parents! Honey, be good. Go and play. Over time, if he (she) is older or older without proper guidance, it will be difficult to wash dishes and do housework.

But you can guide me like this: Baby, when you grow up, you will be a sensible child. Helping parents wash dishes and sweep the floor is a sign that you are grown up and sensible, and it is everyone's responsibility. If we don't cook, we'll save it for the next meal. Do you agree? Or nobody cleaned it up. If you bring your classmates or teachers to visit and see the mess, you will be laughed at at at school or at work, and you and your parents at home will be regarded as jokes after dinner. However, some children will say, I order takeout and I go out to eat. Anyway, according to the child's movements, make the best use of the situation. Children know that money is hard to find, and they can't afford to be crazy for a few days! In short, except for my son Wang Sun (who has excellent conditions and is a handyman), everyone else will understand the truth of helping adults do housework at home.