To old friends-sometimes I can't express it, but I'm really happy to have you in my life.

Some time ago, it may be because I sat for a long time and got a sore on my ass. I didn't pay attention to commuting by bike every day. My body finally collapsed and the wound was infected. I dare not move for a week. Fortunately, I survived under the care of caring people. I remember sending a circle of friends, saying that I had never been sick, and finally I got sick. Maybe I want to seek some comfort. Then, there is an old friend's comment that I haven't contacted for a long time: Take care of yourself. This comment was a friend who had been separated for many years, but it was a good friend at that time. My first impression was that you finally showed up. I thought you disappeared. But when I thought about it, I felt that I hadn't spoken for a long time, so I quickly deleted it. I replied, "Thank you for your concern. You still remember my friend." After thinking about it, I think I'd better forget it, and finally I just replied, "Thank you." In this process, we didn't suspect each other, betray each other and make bad friends because of unpleasant things, but because we didn't live together, we slowly dug up the daily WeChat chat record, and the circle of friends kept praising it, and then pretended not to see it. I realized that when we talked about forever, it was only those years. It turns out that our friendship can last for a long time, and finally it can only end in vain. Then I remembered that sentence: from saying nothing to saying nothing, this is also a sign that friends become strangers. Then, do we still need to save those friendships that have promised never to leave and are getting farther and farther away?

I don't think it is necessary. ...

We should understand that the busyness and triviality of life make us flinch again. When we grow up, we gradually find that our best friends are not around, but in our hearts! All good things must come to an end. In fact, time is not long, but we have all changed, lost our initial heart and are all moving towards our own future. Time is real, and it will constantly refresh people around you, but those who stay are worth cherishing. More and more people will understand that "there are fewer and fewer important people, and the rest are more and more important." In other words, at a certain age, everyone's ups and downs have been hidden in their hearts. ......

It's normal for people to leave. How can you and I be an exception?

Because of my work last year, I have to travel a lot. Every time I go back to Chengdu on business, I sit in the car and look out the window. Suddenly I felt a little sorry and thought about it carefully. It seems that I don't have any friends and no one loves me. My heart suddenly became empty. It turned out that I was so lonely, and there was only myself in the vast sea of people. I once chatted with my friend Kan Kan, but I don't know when it suddenly disappeared from my life, leaving only myself who is basically lonely now. I still vaguely remember that during my college years, I loved to participate in a series of activities, from small classes to large campus community competitions, and I could see myself. I have also made many friends who I think I can keep in touch with all the time. We both think that if one of us develops in the future, we should help each other. Now maybe our former friends don't even know what each other is doing. Even if one day I want to chat and contact, I really don't know where to start, only to know that I haven't contacted for so many years. I finally know that friendship can only be youthful, not vicissitudes. I also know that the world is really big, and some people really won't see each other again without deliberate arrangements.

Many people are interested in you, but no one is crazy about you.

People are always a little nostalgic.

There is a saying in the Bible: "Don't disturb the person I love until he wants to." Yes, how can a friend judge whether the relationship is weak? In fact, it is very simple, and there is no sharing between them, which is the embodiment of this friendship. Think about it, that is, a year ago, my friends who accompanied each other asked me if we would be separated one day, and I said definitely not. Then it wasn't long before he said he would move out, and we had little contact since then. It may be because of our own career planning, or it may be because we have different views. It may also be that our lives took a turn for the worse during that time, and we all had different ideas. Some people want to persist, while others choose to give up. In fact, there is no distinction between high and low, including three views, and there will be no distinction between who is right and who is wrong. It is nothing more than a similar concept that brings two people together, and the drifting value orientation will mercilessly separate them. Time will not leave the same mark on everyone. One day, you will find that there are new friends around you who are consistent with your three views, while old friends are only suitable for nostalgia.

Some things are only suitable for collection.

One friend at a time, deliberately maintaining friendship is really tired.

You will meet all kinds of people along the way. The book says that all things must come to an end, but it also says that life is somewhere tomorrow. There will be fewer and fewer friends because they walk in different directions. Think about elementary school, junior high school, high school and college. Some of them became office white-collar workers, some started their own small companies, some stayed in their hometown to accompany their parents, and some chose to go far away and struggle alone. None of us is wrong, but we have taken different paths. Naturally, it is difficult to be brothers as usual and go hand in hand. Friendship is not that high, so everyone will choose a partner to join hands. It is more a symbol of the beautiful things that a stage brings to us. So, just bless you, because we don't have the same topic, and we are all moving towards different lives. I just hope you get better and better. We are gathered by righteousness and scattered by wealth. In the future, as long as you are busy and can remember when you are lost, it is already the best ending.

Poetic? life

I have given up.

But I've been waiting for you.

When we meet, there is nothing to say goodbye. We will always remember you.

Your old friends are scattered in different cities. They have news from afar, ups and downs, full of life. Why don't you take some time to see your old friend whom you haven't seen for a long time? If we don't meet again, we may forget each other's faces.

Finally, for my old friends, sometimes I can't express myself, but I'm really glad to have your company during that time. A beautiful memory, a witness of youth, this may be an eternal gift left by those good friends who are drifting away.

Poetic? life

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