What should I do if I have a boyfriend who often belittles myself?

In fact, when you ask such a question, you already have the answer in your heart. I suggest you calm down and think about it, respect your heart, find your real answer and make a decision according to your heart. After all, I didn't write down the details of this problem, and I don't know how degraded it is. Just because I was joking, I really belittled and insulted you from the bottom of my heart.

First, if you are just joking, you can remind him that you don't like this kind of joke. There are always people in life who want to adjust an emotion in life through this way of teasing, but this way is not acceptable to everyone. Everyone's personality is different, and everyone's experience is different. Some people like this kind of ridicule, others don't.

Second, if you are belittling and disrespecting you and controlling you in this way, you must think it over. If the object looks down on each other from the bottom of my heart, then it is not true love, but strength, and I want to control you in this way, so I need to think calmly and think about which component accounts for more in this love. In fact, it is very tiring to associate with such a boyfriend. When you encounter some problems, you start to belittle each other. Always be a good teacher, every little thing and trifle should be on the line, and show how advanced you are by belittling others. ?

Third, we should know whether the other party is teasing or really belittling. If it doesn't respect you and insult you, it should be another matter. How does the degree of this ratio affect you? Love should help each other and grow up with each other. If there are many such men in life, they will raise themselves by belittling others. In fact, most of such men are arrogant and ignorant. In fact, they feel inferior in their hearts, but they always want to show that they are very advanced, so they will raise themselves by constantly belittling others to control each other. Make others feel worthless by belittling them. They are a very useless person and can only rely on each other.