How to refuse the ambiguity of married men and how to refuse the pursuit of married men

Many married men may steal food after marriage, some are stubborn, and some are caused by unhappy marriage. So, as a girl, how should we refuse the ambiguity of married men?

How to reject the ambiguity of married men

1. Take a clear-cut attitude and stand firm.

When a married man likes you, what he fears most is the ambiguity of a woman's attitude, which is easy for a married man to misunderstand that he still has a chance. If you don't like him and want to reject him, you should reject him decisively and directly, with a clear attitude, and don't give him any possibility of misunderstanding.

Don't hesitate, don't be soft-hearted

Sometimes, in the face of the pursuit of a married man, a woman is too soft-hearted to pull her face down and embarrassed to refuse him. As everyone knows, your weakness will only make the other party think that you are playing with him. Therefore, when a woman rejects a married man, she must make a decisive decision and not give him an ambiguous opportunity.

Don't joke with him, don't respond to him.

Women should remember that a married man has a family and a wife, so no matter how good he is to you and how he pursues you, you can't give him any response. You should learn to reject him, and from the moment he jokes with you, you should learn to reject him flatly. Don't play an ambiguous game with him. If you don't respond to him, it is the best refusal.

Tell him you have someone you like.

If a married man still pesters you after you refuse him, or insists on having an affair with you and pursuing you, then a woman can tell him that you have a crush. If it is really difficult to get rid of it, you can also find friends of the opposite sex to cover for yourself and let married men retreat. In short, when a woman is pestered by a married man, don't bear it silently. You can ask people around you for help.

How to refuse the pursuit of married men

For many married men who like to pick up girls, sometimes it may not be because of their dirty ideas or bad conduct, but more often they just want to find a little excitement or a coquetry. If he finds that the people flirting with him are unmoved, then they won't keep pestering him. Therefore, once you are harassed by married men in your life, never accept any benefits from them. Even if it's just a small bag of snacks sometimes, they may push their luck because they think you don't dislike them.

Generally, married men will test each other before picking up girls, because he wants to make sure whether they will take the bait and how successful they are. So, you need to remember, but when a married man is playing some jokes on you, you must not take over easily.

Many married men usually look for opportunities to get close to you when they want to pick up girls. Maybe sometimes, you will feel that it is a bit bad to ignore each other all the time, or you don't want to give others the feeling that you have been cold. So sometimes, when someone plays a joke on you, you will cooperate appropriately, or just smile. At this time, the other person may think that you don't dislike him, and then he may push his luck to tease you, so don't make fun of them at will. When they tell you dirty jokes, they must refuse you with words.

What should I do in the face of the pursuit of married men?

First, explicitly reject married men.

When he confesses to you or wants to have such a relationship with you, all you have to do is to reject him for the first time, don't give him any ideas, don't hesitate, and don't tell him directly that you don't want to. It's okay to be friends and brothers and sisters, but you will never have any ambiguous or love-related relationship with married men.

Second, don't hesitate.

Many girls suffer because they don't know how to refuse the love of married men, but they are embarrassed to say no when they know that it is absolutely forbidden to pursue married men. Facing the pursuit of married men, it's not that I think about it, it's that we are not suitable, and so on. In the eyes of a married man, it's just that you're embarrassed, or you're implying that he still has a chance. Girls must remember this.

Third, don't have too much contact with married men.

If you feel his pursuit of you, or obviously feel that married men like you, then you must remember to avoid too much contact with him as much as possible, because it is not terrible for married men to pursue you. What you are afraid of is that you will be moved by a married man and fall in love with him in long-term contact, then your only reason will collapse in an instant, and you can't leave him without being pursued by him, so you must remember that when a married man likes you and pursues something,

Fourth, don't be alone with married men.

Since married men like you and may pursue you, it means that you must know each other, even very well. Maybe you will eat together on weekdays, but when he expresses his pursuit for you, don't continue to be alone with him, including eating, going out and walking. Don't give him any chance to get close to you, let him completely dispel that idea and avoid others gossiping, which is good for both of you.

5. Don't have internet contact with married men.

It is best to deliberately set the phone number of a married man, don't answer his phone casually, and don't reply to any of his short messages, even QQ WeChat on social media. Because married men who like you will definitely contact you in various ways. In reality, it is inevitable that this married man will meet or contact. If the connection between colleagues is completely inevitable, it can be completely ignored in social networks. Never mind what he thinks, and don't try to find out how he feels about you from social media. Even if a married man likes you, he won't give you a future. As long as you are sure that you don't want to accept the pursuit of a married man, remember not to contact him on any social media.

6. Look straight at the constant entanglement of married men.

It is completely irresponsible for a married man to pursue another woman. He is sorry for his wife and the girl he pursues. Because a married man can't give a girl any promises and promises, he also wants to keep that girl for himself. I'm not embarrassed to face his pursuit. If you continue to pester you after refusing him righteously, please look directly at the love of a married man and solemnly refuse again.

7. Leave evidence that all married men are haunting you.

For others, it takes two hands to make a sound. If you didn't seduce him or anything else, how could he harass you and so on. Many married men may put all the responsibility on girls after their wives find out that they have made new progress. So in order to avoid this situation, you must leave all the evidence that married men are haunting you, that is, to avoid being bitten back and unable to say it.

How not to have an affair with a married man

1. Don't be greedy or arrogant.

For most married men in "Picking up Girls", it is actually not bad conduct and dirty thoughts. Sometimes, they just play or are excited, or have the mentality of seeking love. But if the woman he flirts with is nice, he will accept it when she is too nice.

So women should not complain about men's coquetry. If you accept the advantages of a married man teasing you, even if he packs snacks, he will still think that you don't dislike him and are interested in him. If you heckle or joke with him, then you are a good couple.

Don't answer him.

Before a married man wants to pick up girls, he should take a test, because he wants to make sure that the girl opposite can accept his own provocation and will hit a wall when picking up girls. Then you should remember that when a married man plays jokes on you or starts to seduce girls, you must ignore him.

Don't joke with him.

Maybe you feel embarrassed to ignore him, or you think you can't give others a cold image, so when he plays jokes on you, such as some dirty jokes, you will laugh with him and so on. Then, he will definitely think that you accept that he is flirting, and then he will only flirt with you more and more.

4. Don't have too much contact with married men.

If you feel his pursuit of you, or obviously different from yours, then you must remember to avoid too much contact with him, because it is not terrible for him to pursue you. What you are afraid of is that you will be moved by him and fall in love with him in a long contact, so your reason will collapse in an instant. If you don't need him to pursue you, it is estimated that you will fall into a situation of loving him. Therefore, you must remember that it is absolutely impossible for a married man to pursue you.