What is the biggest dream in life?

Einstein once said: Don't try to be a successful person, try to be a valuable person. ?

A good ideal should be valuable to the world, that is, when you leave this world, you will leave something valuable for the world to be remembered by others.

Once, in the chat room of Sina. A netizen asked me: What is your goal in life?

I remember, I replied at that time: there is only one life, and I think the most important thing is to have the greatest impact. In other words, I hope to help myself, my family, my country, the world and future generations better, make their lives more efficient and bring them happiness. ?

When I answered this question, I blurted it out without any thinking. Because since my sophomore year, I've put? Influence? As your goal in life.

If it is more detailed, it is:

I will try my best to exert my positive influence to the greatest extent, whether for software users in the field of science and technology or for young students in China in the field of education.

What is it? Influence? And then what? In my sophomore year, a philosophy teacher used three simple English words when discussing the meaning of life. Make a difference? . To me, these three English words just correspond to those three inspiring Chinese characters in hit floor? Influence? .

Some students mistakenly think? Influence? Represents personal power or power. Actually, I said that? Influence? Nothing to do with power or power. In my opinion, as long as a person's life makes a little contribution to the world, whether teachers educate students, doctors and nurses help patients, or cleaners beautify the urban environment, they are all imposed on the world by individuals? Influence? ; As long as you have sincerely helped others, did this help save a person's life or bring laughter or happiness to others, which was imposed on the world by individuals? Influence? .

Life in the world, such as passing clouds, is fleeting. Everyone doesn't want to waste his life. If you look back on the past when you are about to leave this world, can you have a heart? The world is better because of me? Happiness and pride, life is enough? Influence? Once? Different? . As long as he creates value for the world, he is a valuable person.

It is both challenging and not divorced from reality, clear and specific.

Life goals that are too simple and easy to achieve are meaningless. Since it is the goal of life, it should be challenging enough. We should try our best to open our minds, stand at a higher starting point and set a challenging goal for ourselves. Only in this way can we work hard and have a broad development prospect. Do we still have to do it? Frog in the well? Don't want to compete in the wider world.

Of course, challenging goals also mean that there are risks that cannot be achieved, but as long as you work hard for them, you will have no regrets. Einstein didn't find out? Unified field theory? He didn't finally realize his ideal, but he still made remarkable achievements on the road of ideal, and discovered special relativity and general relativity, which inspired future generations to continue his great work. In this sense, although Einstein's ideal has not been realized, it still deserves everyone's admiration and admiration.

Bill? When Gates visited the experimental middle school affiliated to Beijing Normal University, a high school student asked him: What is your ideal? Bill? Gates said: My childhood dream is to make the computer a perfect tool, which is also my lifelong pursuit. Now, I have covered half the distance. I hope I can fully realize this dream when I finally finish my work. ?

Bill? It took Gates 30 years to pursue his ideal? Half? Journey. At this time, in the remaining years of his career, it doesn't matter whether he can successfully accomplish his goal, because now there are thousands of people in the world who are following and sharing his ideals. Bill? Gates' ideal road is equally admirable.

When choosing a goal in life, try to choose a long-term goal. The immediate goal is not the best choice. For example, for students, entering a good school can really increase their chances of finding a good job, but this is only a short-term goal. What you should be more concerned about is not which school you graduated from, but whether you have learned real knowledge.

For most people, being admitted to a famous university? Or? Enter a well-known company? Not the right goal in life. So? Can't pass the exam? Or? Didn't go in? It's no big deal, as long as you find your own interests and direction, know how to cherish time and learning opportunities, you will have the same chance of success. While trying to do things well, we should keep a clear head and always realize where the end of life is. Only in this way can we succeed under the guidance of ideals and life goals.

When making my own life goals, I have to answer two fundamental questions: What kind of person do I want to be? what would i like to do ?

Life goals must be clear and specific, not just slogans or empty words. Define a goal as a clear direction. For example, if you want to be a writer, do you want to write novels, become a columnist or become a freelance writer? Only a clear goal in life can guide you forward more effectively.

We should also adjust our goals in time. If the result of the struggle exceeds your expectations, you can raise your expectations appropriately; If not, you can lower your expectations. After reaching a goal, you can set more challenging goals; When you fail, you should accept it frankly and sum up your experience and lessons carefully.

Life is short and time is limited, so don't waste time living in other people's lives, and don't be confused by creed, which is to live in other people's thinking results. Don't let other people's opinions drown out your inner voice. Most importantly, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition, because your heart and intuition know what kind of person you want to be most. Any other judgment is secondary.

Dumas said: Living without an aim is like sailing without a compass. ? The ocean of life is broad and deep. With a goal, you won't get lost in the stormy waves. A clear goal in life is to guide life? Compass? The initiative is in our own hands.

? Whatever you can do, or what you dream of doing, just do it! Courage includes talent, talent and charm. ? Let Goethe's famous words inspire everyone to pursue their ideals and succeed!