Naked resignation has rested for a year and still doesn't want to go to work.

On June 28th, 20021,I left my company after two years' service. I decided to stop and rest for half a year because I was a little abnormal. Unexpectedly, a year passed unconsciously.

I did almost nothing this year, just simply relaxing and taking care of the baby.

July-August arrangement and relaxation+travel release

The first two months were very relaxing. It's relaxing to read unfinished books and catch up with plays.

At the end of July, my husband and I went to the dream northwest, took the Great Northwest Tour Loop, enjoyed the wind on the Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, watched the sunset by the desert and felt the grand history of mankind for thousands of years.

September-65438+February looking for a job+taking care of the baby.

In September, arrange the doll to go to kindergarten to help him adapt to his new identity and life.

At this time, I also started looking for a job and got a good offer, but I was stood up the day before I joined the job and told me that I didn't meet the requirements for changing jobs.

The days that followed revolved around various problems of dolls and kindergartens. I observed the baby's lack of sports ability, took him to the children's hospital for testing, and then reported the corresponding course improvement.

Although I wanted to find a job in the middle, I just brushed my resume and didn't take the initiative to interview.

2022.1-Chinese new year in February+learning psychology

The Spring Festival in the Year of the Tiger came very early, and it was almost the Spring Festival, so it was even more difficult to find a job. I simply put it down and lay flat. Just rest at home.

Of course, the focus of this stage is to pay attention to the baby, buy a lot of psychological books, read a lot of related professional books, and adjust from the aspects of oneself, family and parenting style. Finally, the child's state became better with the naked eye.

Looking for a job in March-May+bringing a baby.

The first thing after the Spring Festival is actually to find a job.

I have met several places one after another, and I have several intentions, but I still feel in a bad state, and the thought of working pressure is particularly great.

So I haven't looked for a job since the end of March, and I'm still lying at home.

Of course, at this stage, because the child's body is always cold and coughing, all kinds of small problems continue, and there is no mind to think about his own affairs.

Since May, I have been working in the media, and there is no improvement.

In mid-May, the child's body was finally better and he could go to kindergarten normally.

At this time, I finally realized what I should do. After thinking for a long time, I decided to be a self-media.

My husband laughed at me and reminded me last July. I don't have to go to work, but I have to do something to get myself moving. If I started last year, you must be living well now.

Well, I seem to have missed the best time to adjust myself. Fortunately, the best time to plant a tree was ten years ago, followed by now. It's better to act now than not to act.

So the unprofitable career of making numbers began.

The experience of this year is outlined in front, as if nothing special. I think the biggest gain for me this year is that I can know myself more clearly and accept myself more peacefully.

And acceptance is the first step of self-growth.