"Because of the scars and stretch marks on my stomach, I was divorced by my husband just after I got married." What should I do?

I think this lady (Ms. Wang) should tell her husband truthfully and see if she can get his forgiveness. At first, he was angry that his wife cheated him and didn't tell him the truth. At the same time, he was angry at his previous pregnancy and childbirth.

If not, he still asks you for a divorce, which shows that it is difficult for him to accept this reality. It's hard to break a mirror, so let's get a divorce. My husband already has bad feelings in his heart, and this scar on his stomach has become a rift between husband and wife.

Let's talk about this first. Ms Wang met her husband through a friend's introduction. Before getting married, her husband also saw that there seemed to be a scar on her lower abdomen. When she asked this question, Ms. Wang didn't tell the truth, but changed the topic.

After the marriage, the husband found that Ms. Wang had scars and stretch marks on her lower abdomen. When I asked Ms. Wang again, Ms. Wang meant to say, "Since we are all married, why should we care about our past?" "

Ms. Wang's husband was very angry: "I asked before I got married. I asked your mother about this." I said no at the time, and I don't want to say why now. "

Before getting married, Ms. Wang didn't tell her husband the truth, which was very wrong. This is a kind of deception. In fact, Ms. Wang is also sincerely afraid that her husband can't accept him and dare not tell him the truth. Her husband will choose to leave him and eventually get married, so he chooses to hide it again, but this kind of thing can't be hidden for a while, and it will be discovered sooner or later. ?

If this kind of thing is not told in advance before marriage, people who are kept in the dark will feel very uncomfortable, and anyone will be angry and it will be difficult to accept this fact. If Ms. Wang tells her husband about this before getting married, and if he really loves you, I believe he can still accept Ms. Wang after a struggle in his heart. If you can't accept it, let's split up early and don't waste each other's time.

There was a special emotional dispute in 20 years, because the husband found a scar on his wife's stomach and her wife hid it from him before marriage. His wife's mother also told the man that it was because of appendicitis surgery. At that time, the man gave the woman a bride price of280,000, and the other party returned a bride price of20,000. The man filed for divorce, but the woman admitted that she was pregnant before marriage, but she was not born. This was a mistake she made when she was young. The man is going to divorce and ask for the bride price back.

Since two people are going to get married, they should be honest with each other and believe that if someone really loves you, they can accept you.

Many people will become crazy and desperate because of love when they are young, make mistakes and pay the corresponding price. All this is not unforgivable, and women are also victims.

Many men can accept that women have boyfriends before, but they can't accept that women are pregnant. They think it's all women's fault that they don't love themselves, and they put the blame on women. But how many people will forget the initiator love rat?

This Ms. Wang was pregnant because of the mistakes she made when she was young, but she didn't expect that when she was six or seven months old, her ex-boyfriend suddenly regretted it and left a letter and ran away, but her stomach was already very big and she had to give birth to a child, but she didn't stay because the child was malnourished.

These things are not a kind of harm to Ms. Wang, and she doesn't want to expose her scars or talk about these sad past events. But in any case, be honest with each other before you get married.

Women should know how to love themselves, learn to protect themselves and take safety measures. For fear of losing love, many women easily lose themselves in love and forget that love should be equal and respectful.

Be sure to keep your eyes open when looking for someone, and don't be confused by those surfaces. You have to feel each other with your heart, whether it is worth your effort.

Many women always believe other people's sweet words in love, can't keep their bottom line, devote themselves wholeheartedly, and even do not hesitate to wronged themselves. They think that love should be a moth to the fire. Sometimes it is easy for the other person to look down on you by sacrificing too much and paying too much.

Love someone again and don't be wronged. A person who really likes you will not choose to leave you because of your rejection.

What women should learn most is to be kind to themselves and love themselves, which is very important. Only by loving yourself can others love you.