What kind of experience is it to have a parent who keeps telling their children about money?

I believe many people know that money is a good thing with great significance, not only representing self-worth. But also represents status, rights and even directly related to a person's ability to survive in society. But in fact, money has always been a taboo topic even more than sex in some aspects. A research survey in the United States shows that one third of people think that "money" is the most difficult topic to talk about. Psychologists' research shows that money will become a topic that no one wants to talk about, precisely because money is "the main motivation of many people in our society" and the most indispensable part of life.

Although money is not everything, it has something to do with everything in life. These include children's basic needs and higher expectations. ? When I was young, almost all children would hear their parents say, "I bought you this game machine, and you will get 100 in this exam" or "You go to cram school, and I will take you to the amusement park on weekends". In fact, before children understand the meaning of "money", parents have long been familiar with how to use their children's direct desires to achieve the goal of forcing their children to complete. When children grow up and understand the meaning of money, money may become a tool for parents to directly control their children.

Parents give money to their children, the meaning is not to manipulate their children's lives, but to tell them that it is hard to make money. I just used the wrong method. But this method is mostly passed down from generation to generation, and parents don't even know how to talk to their children about establishing a correct view of money. Money information is a sentence that children can usually hear, such as "how can you spend so much money just to buy a game" and "at least one million yuan was spent at home to pay for your education".

Many parents also lack the concept of money, so in middle age, they often pass on their experiences about money to their children, leaving room for their own judgment. Information can cause shame, fear and guilt, while experience can cultivate children's financial quotient. In fact, like many parenting education and family education, parents need to have a good understanding of this problem if they want to teach their children a certain skill.