How do girls react when they chase girls to show that you are finished?

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I received a private message from a fan: "Lemon, when I chased a girl, how did she react to represent that I was hopeless?"

In order to answer this fan's doubts, and to make all the boys chasing girls take fewer detours, I summed up the following performance that girls don't like you:

1.？ Give you a cold shoulder

If a girl's attitude towards you is cold, you can always feel that she doesn't understand and care when chatting, then she is probably not interested in you; Because no matter how introverted and shy a girl is, she can't control her words in front of the person she likes. She will be eager to get to know each other and share each other's daily life without pretending to be cold.

2.？ Often refuse your invitation.

If you invite a girl you like to eat, go to the movies, go out to play, etc. She always refuses for various reasons, so she is probably not interested in you and simply doesn't want to waste time on you.

Of course, some girls are embarrassed to accept your invitation because of social fear or introversion. You can try asking her out several times to see her reaction and don't give up easily. If she finally agrees to your invitation, it means you still have a chance.

3.？ Keep your distance.

If a girl doesn't like you, she will keep a certain distance from you and try to reduce the time alone with you.

For example, if you ask her to meet, although she agrees to your invitation, she brings a friend. Or the expenses when meeting, she always asks for AA, and she doesn't want to owe you a favor.

It's like, she built a barrier between you, and you are isolated from each other, and you can never really get close to her.

4.？ You are forbidden to intrude into her life.

If a girl likes you, she will generously let you into her life, and even introduce you to her best friend or take your photos in a circle of friends.

But if this girl is always evasive, unwilling to let you into her daily life and unwilling to let her relatives and friends know that you exist, then she is probably not interested in you, or regards you as a spare tire.

Gradually, you will find that your chat is always superficial, and you can't communicate with her at all, let alone really enter her heart.

5.？ The body refuses your contact.

A person's body is the most honest and can directly convey his preferences. When a girl doesn't like you, she will subconsciously refuse your contact.

For example, when walking with you, she will unconsciously block the bag or umbrella between you; If you give her something, she will hold it carefully and try not to touch you; When you try to hold hands or hug with her, her first reaction is to push you away.

As long as you pay attention to these little moves in your relationship, you can quickly see whether the other person likes you or not. In short, people who like you will not resist your contact, while people who don't like you will unconsciously distance themselves from you.

6.？ Lack of identity with you

In the process of getting along, if a girl always finds fault with you and holds a negative attitude towards your clothes, hobbies, ideas or lifestyle, then she probably doesn't like you.

Imagine that in front of the person you like, you want to praise him and appreciate him, but it's too late. How can you belittle him? Therefore, if a girl likes you, even if your salary is not high now, she will think you are a potential stock; Even if you are short, she will think that concentration is the essence; Even if you are not handsome, she will think you are handsome.

It can be said that the most obvious feature of liking a person is to identify with him and appreciate him.

May you cherish the people you love, learn to love, give love and reap love.