People who like to blame others when things happen

No wonder since I was a child, living in this land, I have always felt that I am wrong. And because my own interpretation is somewhat biased, every time something happens, I dig it out from myself first. Many times, no matter how hard I dig, I can't find what's wrong. Then I fell into a deeper and melancholy self-doubt. I couldn't even figure out what I had done wrong. I couldn't do such a simple thing. I really couldn't compare to ordinary people. Is it really as abnormal as they say?

Now that I am 3, the situation still has not improved much. But I gradually discovered that I met a lot of people who blame others when something goes wrong. You should do whatever you want. Omitting the second half of the sentence is also the purpose, that is, to meet my needs.

The strange thing is that there are passers-by who have only met once, or people who are not in the circle of acquaintances, such as colleagues/clerks. They are all in this role. This raises a huge question mark, why?

I am often immersed in it and very distressed, why do I always encounter such people, and how can I identify them early and avoid them as early as possible. That's because I never said a word for myself. I accepted all their criticisms and obediently looked for fault in myself. Fuck you, this is none of my business.

Later I attributed this to, they think I am easy to bully, so how can I make them think I am not easy to bully? Then I learned a lot of crooked ways, put on pretense, acted rudely, and used material blessings, but it was useless...

Yes, you shouldn't let them feel that they can be bullied. In fact, it is very simple, just say one sentence, then Just to reveal their motives, motives that they are not even aware of. You are satisfying yourself, why should you want me to hook up with you? For example, should you talk like this/how do you talk like this? Actually, I don't like hearing this. But what I received from my straightforward thinking was, can you still care about what I say? Big joke. I never understood the pronunciation of that sentence. In fact, he didn't like to hear such words, but what he said was annoying and unpredictable, "What are you doing?" In the past, I would always fight aggressively, yes, what can I do, what can you do, can you control it? You are too lenient, who are you? As a result, we fall into an endless loop with no solution.

The fact is that I have always known how to speak, and I care about the listener's feelings. When I use words to hurt others, I do it on purpose. Because you didn't make it easy for me, and I responded to you and you continued, then I will sting you and let you feel it. I happened to encounter people who were ignorant and incompetent and didn't hesitate to fight with their lives. The ground was full of smoke, no one won, they were just dragged endlessly into the black hole. I didn’t want to fall in, so I was always the one leaving.

Actually, stop, think about it, and say, do you want me to say what you want to hear? I guess he suddenly felt ashamed.

Add a scene, hee hee. Then beg me, turn the situation around instantly and become the overlord, haha. Whether you beg me or not, you are at a disadvantage and I win. The troublemakers came, and they were surrounded by no blind spots, and they retreated in frustration. I like to see the troublemaker leave in anger, and I like this piece of thinking.

There is a very strange (interesting) phenomenon. The more you chase after something, the less likely you are to get it. On the contrary

Here is another personal experience that seems to have been mentioned before. Once when I was walking on the road, I suddenly remembered that I was going the wrong way, so I suddenly stopped in the middle of the sidewalk and turned around. When I turned around, a foreigner man came to my side and said, sorry. We didn't bump into each other, we just suddenly asked each other to change lanes. When I heard sorry, I didn't react. Are you telling me? for? Varied? What? Even if it is, I should be the one to say it, right? Although I didn't react at the time, after a few seconds, I realized it was my fault. What I want to say is that if you are wrong, you are wrong. Even if you say sorry to me, I will soon realize that I am the one at fault. But you pointed the finger at me first, whether justified or not. In addition to suppressing my confidence, I didn't realize what was wrong from beginning to end. However, you got what you wanted. It doesn't make sense, but you still get what you need. Sacrifice one person to fulfill another person. National Characteristics

It wasn’t until recently that I read an explanation about the cultural customs of various countries that I realized that British people would say sorry when they are bumped into. I vaguely remember that this seemed to be a chapter explaining modesty and politeness. Years of confusion were solved, and it turned out that this was the situation I encountered at that time.