How to judge whether a woman is really angry or pretending to be angry? How to coax a girl?

We all know that when girls pretend to be angry, they just want the other person to comfort them, just to see how you react, but sometimes they are really angry. If they are really angry, they can’t let it go. Why is the girl angry? Sincerely apologize to her.

How to judge whether a woman is really angry or pretending to be angry

1. The way before getting angry

Boy: I encountered a particularly funny thing when I got off work , do you want to know?

Girl: Okay, tell me quickly.

Boy: On the bus, there was a dog...

Girl: Stop talking, I don’t want to hear it.

Boy: What’s wrong with you?

Girl: Don’t mention dogs to me, I hate dogs.

When girls pretend to be angry, they are often angry for some very nonsensical reasons, without any warning, leaving you without any precautions. Just like the girl above, the boy wanted to share an interesting story with her, and the girl wanted to hear it at first, but when the boy shared an interesting story with a dog in it, the girl suddenly said she didn't want to hear it. In fact, when girls are unhappy and angry at this time, they are not really angry, they are just pretending. The purpose is to make boys notice why they hate dogs. As a boy, you should pay more attention to these hidden information points so that you can tell whether a girl is really angry or pretending to be angry.

Boy: I encountered something very funny when I got off work. Do you want to know?

Girl: No.

Boy: Let me tell you, it’s really funny.

Girls: No need.

Boy: What’s wrong with you?

Girl: It’s okay.

When you hear that it’s okay, in fact, it’s a big deal. There must be some signs before you get really angry, such as a girl starting to become impatient when communicating with you. During the conversation, no matter what the boy said, the girl responded very coldly, which means that the boy did something that made the girl very angry, so the girl would answer him with such an attitude.

2. Behavior in anger

Boy: Why do you keep a straight face?

Girl: Humph, because I am angry.

Boy:...

Girl: If you don’t coax me quickly, you will be finished.

Just like the conversation above, if a girl is pretending to be angry, she will keep telling you verbally, I am angry, please come and coax me quickly. If you don’t coax me, the consequences will be serious. Generally, It is also accompanied by some physical contact. To put it bluntly, he is acting coquettishly towards you and needs your attention.

Boy: Why do you keep a straight face?

Girl:...

Boy: Honey?

Girl: ...

It can be seen that if a girl is really angry, she will not want to talk to you, don’t want to see you, will not tell you that she is angry at all, or even leave directly. You go and break out the door. In this case, the consequences are really serious.

3. Behavior after getting angry

Girl: Please calm me down.

Boy: Okay, I’ll coax you.

Girl: That’s right.

A girl who pretends to be angry will usually pester you to coax her. The angry behavior is only between you and her and will not be noticed by outsiders.

Boy: Let me comfort you, don’t be angry.

Girls: No need.

Boy: Don’t be angry. I apologize. It’s my fault.

Girl: You don’t have to wait for me to eat tonight. I made an appointment with my best friend to go shopping with me.

When girls are really angry, they tend to go to their friends to talk or post on WeChat Moments to tell everyone that you made her angry. In a word, it is to let everyone know that you have made her angry and that you are not good enough to her. Regardless of whether you are really angry or fake, you need to coax the girl well, or in other words, the girl's purpose is to hope that you will coax her.

Girls who are fake-angry are easier to coax, because girls don’t really want to be angry with you. Just say a few words that girls like to hear and you’ll probably be able to coax them. But what should you do if you’re really angry? Don’t do this to girls who are really angry. Ask: "Are you angry? Why are you angry?" It is obvious that the girl is already angry. Asking this question will only make the girl feel more annoyed, and it is impossible to answer you, because no matter how rational a girl is, she will be unreasonable about emotions. . If you are really angry, you should put down your posture and admit your mistake immediately the first moment she gets angry.

You also need to be careful when admitting mistakes and never give too many explanations. For some words, just explaining them once is enough. No matter how many explanations you have, it is not as practical as admitting your mistakes. Repeated explanations may make your girlfriend who already believes you think you are lying to her. Therefore, when your girlfriend is angry, it is enough to apologize first and then explain it sincerely, so that your girlfriend will be willing to believe you. It should be noted that you have to explain it. Failure to explain will only make girls think that your apology is hypocritical. It is absolutely undesirable to have such a mentality that there is no need to explain some things.

Admitting a mistake means expressing one's attitude. Regardless of whether you are wrong or not, a girl wants to see your correct attitude when she is angry. What is a correct attitude is that you have the courage to admit your mistakes. This will make girls think that you are a boy who dares to take on responsibilities, which will increase girls' favorable impression of you and naturally make them less angry. After correcting your attitude, take action. For the vast majority of girls, no amount of sweet talk is worth the food and shopping. Take her to the places she likes to go, eat the food she likes to eat, play the things she likes to play, and do everything according to her, this is really coaxing. An angry girl is in a bad mood. If you take her to do something she likes, you can relieve her bad mood and forget the things that made her angry. In addition, you can also buy some small gifts for girls. For example, flowers, plush toys, cosmetics, etc. Of course, the specific choices must be based on the girls’ preferences. Doing this can make a girl feel that you still care about her. When a gift is delivered, generally speaking, girls will not refuse it. When you have a good attitude and behavior, girls who are really angry will not be angry anymore.

How to coax a girl?

1. Speak more sweet words! On the surface, girls may call you glib or even angry. However, those are all pretense. What girl doesn’t want to be praised by others, let alone her boyfriend...

2. A girl’s heart actually hopes that you can bring her some sense of security, and she must know how to understand it at all times. Show your love for her. Like some hugs and kisses. Don't always be shy about expressing yourself. In many cases, she won't reject you if you hold her in your arms. Instead, it will snuggle into your arms like a kitten.

3. Remember some dates that you think are very important. Of course, they are important days when you are with her. Whenever you want to create some touching atmosphere, you must add these days. That year, month, or even every second, let her know that you care about her. At this time, she will not only be moved, but also very happy.

4. It is also essential to learn to create some small romance. In fact, whether a man or a woman is romantic, they all have their own romantic plots in their hearts, so we must learn to create romance and seize the opportunity to release it. We create romance so that she will be happy!

5. Don’t always focus on yourself playing games, but chat with her more. When she is sad and wronged, stay with her. Even if you don't know how to comfort her, you must be by her side to make her feel at ease.

6. Remember not to show impatience when she is angry. If you still want your relationship to continue, you must keep a smiling face no matter what. And you must show that no matter what she does to you, no matter how much she dislikes you, you will stick to it. You must let her know that you will always be her strongest support. No matter what choice she makes, you Everyone will still love her. Girls are soft-hearted, and the tenderness trap is not only a hell for men, but also a hell for women.

What is a woman thinking when she pretends to be angry

1. She wants you to coax her and prove that she is important to you

When a woman is There is always no sense of security in love, and one cannot be sure of one's position in a man's heart, so one always tests the man by having a temper tantrum to see how important one is in his heart. It is normal for couples to have conflicts, and a woman will not lose her temper for no reason. In fact, many times she pretends to be angry, just hoping that the man can comfort her. Men should not always complain that a woman has a bad temper. It may be that you have neglected her in some aspects and made her doubt your love, so she will get your attention by having a bad temper.

2. I want you to create some small surprises for her to make her happy

Life is dull most of the time, but it also requires a certain sense of ritual to make her happy. Always maintain your passion for life. A woman's requirements are actually very easy to meet. Creating more small surprises for her in life can make her happy. In the circle of friends, you can always see some women showing off the gifts their lovers bought for themselves. They may not be very expensive, but they make people feel like they have eaten a mouth full of "dog food". A woman pretends to be angry, just hoping that you can coax her and create some little surprises for her. Only a woman who gets angry with you shows that she loves you and dares to be willful in front of you. If a man really loves his woman, he should prepare more surprises for her.

3. I want you to bow your head in front of her and be submissive

In love, there should be no distinction between high and low, and lovers should be considerate and tolerant of each other. But men often have machismo and feel that women should obey them, and are often unwilling to bow their heads in front of women. When two lovers quarrel, both parties may be unwilling to bow their heads and admit their mistakes, and are waiting for the other party to take the initiative to admit their mistakes. When women pretend to be angry in front of men, they just hope that men can bow their heads and admit their mistakes first, and be more patient with themselves. If a man loves a woman, he must learn to put away his arrogance. It is not a shameful thing to lower his head for the woman he loves.

Why do girls pretend to be angry

1. Girls lack a sense of security in love, and sometimes hope to get boys’ attention and concern through some unreasonable troubles. When boys come When you comfort and care for yourself, you will feel very safe.

2. Test whether you care about her. Sometimes girls will have conflicts with you because of some small things. At this time, she does not necessarily want to figure out who is right and who is wrong, but she cares more about the boy's attitude. When the boy shows that he cares about her and values ??her, they will Very happy.

3. Act like a baby. Pretending to be angry sometimes feels more like being coquettish. When a girl says: Humph, I’m angry and will ignore you. At this time, in fact, if you just give her a few words of coaxing, a kiss, and a hug, she won't be angry anymore.

Sometimes it is also a kind of coquettishness. When girls pretend to be angry, they actually want to get more attention and care from boys. This is also a way of expressing coquettishness. When a girl pretends to be angry, a boy must coax her more, comfort her, and let her know that you care about her. On the other hand, if you show impatience, you may end up pretending to be angry.