Why is the father more sad than the mother when his daughter gets married?

As the old saying goes, when a daughter gets married, she has a home.

When her daughter got married, she entered a new life journey, which was the biggest turning point in her life. Since then, I have had multiple identities such as wife, daughter-in-law and mother, and I have to take care of each other, educate my parents-in-law, and get married! The hardships along the way, parents have tasted for a long time, how can they not worry and care?

From falling in love to getting married, a woman is immersed in incomparable happiness, longing for a beautiful new life every day, eager to grow wings and fly to a man who loves her.

Watching her daughter go to find another man with joy, the man who couldn't wait to take off the moon and give it to you, only to let you rub the stubble, gave you the best love in the world. However, "little cotton-padded jacket" grew up to be a woman. He forced a smile to send you to get married, but swallowed his tears in his stomach.

As a father, I'm not afraid of anything. I'm afraid my daughter will get married.

The moment my daughter got married may be the most chaotic moment in so many years. All kinds of emotions are intertwined, and the emotions are the most complex, the deepest, the most lost and the most silent. The moment I held my daughter, I was even more reluctant to part with it, but I knew from the bottom of my heart that letting go was also the deepest love, and the love that cried with joy was as deep as the ocean.

There are many tear-jerking videos on the internet, about the tears of my father when my daughter got married, and many speeches made by my father at the wedding scene. It's not emotional, it's emotional. Because there is a kind of love that a father loves like a mountain, in fact, you don't know how many times he cried in his heart that day when he married a woman.

A few months ago, a video was circulated on the Internet. A father in Qianjiang province of Vietnam sent his daughter to get married. He was so sad that he cried on the spot with his daughter in his arms.

The father stroked his daughter's head and burst into tears. Emotional contagion, his daughter and many people present were sobbing.

But the father did not forget to pat his son-in-law on the shoulder and told him to be extremely good to his daughter. The wedding photographer recorded this touching moment, but it attracted millions of netizens at home and abroad.

Many fathers are more sad than their mothers when their daughters get married. The reason may be that he is a man, and his disappointment is because men know men better.

Father understands the hardships along the way and his wife's hardships, and works hard and pays for the family. He knows more about men's inertia and persistence, and knows that men only grasp the direction of life, and all trivial housework and raising children need women to do it themselves.

He never gave up his wife's marriage and worked hard, repeating his wife's life day after day.

There is an inexplicable resistance in my father's subconscious. All son-in-law are "enemies" in his heart, and no one is worthy of his daughter. This is just like many mothers who are mothers-in-law, subconsciously regard their daughter-in-law as an "enemy" and think that no woman is worthy of her son.

The birth of a daughter triggered the father's hidden flexibility and love. In addition to patriarchal families, in many families, daughters can be doubly loved and cherished.

As a father, he looks forward to your growth, but your growth is also his aging. How can he accept giving his son-in-law the treasure that God has given him? He is worried about the life of his daughter and the opposite sex, that he can't protect his daughter, and that his daughter is wronged, so he really resists her falling in love and getting married.