Wang Yingxia Yu Dafu's Complex Emotional Entanglement

Wang Yingxia has a nickname "water chestnut white" to describe her beauty. Her father Jin Bingxun died early, and she and her mother lived in the home of her grandfather and Hangzhou celebrity Wang Ernan. Learn poetry from grandpa and lay a solid foundation for Chinese studies. The emotional entanglement between her and Yu Dafu is complicated because it involves Li. Wang Yingxia married Yu Dafu at the age of twenty. Yu Dafu is twelve years older than her. She buried the root of the contradiction from the beginning. Yu Dafu wrote a courtship letter to Wang Yingxia, which wrote: "Do as I say, it's hard to say. There is only gratitude and pleasure for you. If there is any change, the man of God will strike. " However, after the engagement, Yu Dafu did not deal with his original wife Sun Quan and his children. At that time, Wang Yingxia didn't care about these, but took a fancy to Yu Dafu, a middle-aged romantic scholar. After marriage, Wang Yingxia showed his wife's gentleness. In addition to making every effort to build a love nest with Yu Dafu, she also prepares chicken juice, soft-shelled turtle and stewed old duck with astragalus every day to nourish her husband's tuberculosis. Yu Dafu also published his love for Wang Yingxia in newspapers and periodicals in the form of nine diaries to let people know that he has a virtuous, intelligent and beautiful wife. At this time, their first son was born, and the couple became more loving. Life after five years is sweet. 1933, their family moved from Shanghai to Hangzhou, where they built a "humble hut" to live. Yu Dafu's move this time is to avoid Dai Li's pursuit of Wang Yingxia. Yu Dafu, the boss of the military system, is not to be taunted. When he was in Shanghai, he tried to restrain Wang Yingxia and told her to take less part in social activities. After arriving in Hangzhou, Yu Dafu lived in seclusion, reading and walking every day. After a quiet life, I soon went to work in Fuzhou. Hangzhou is the hometown of Wang Yingxia, and Wang Yingxia has quickly become the red star of social occasions in Hangzhou. Women are all made of water, and women have strong vanity, especially beautiful women. If several people attend for her, she will get carried away and lose her mind. Wang Yingxia gradually felt that it was a mistake for her and Yu Dafu to have four children in the past eight years. She was bound by them and didn't enjoy a happy life. The third son died, and she left the remaining three sons in the care of her mother, Wang, and asked two aunts for help. I dress up all the time, socialize all the time, or entertain guests in a stormy cabin. Don't avoid men and women after meals, don't want to talk nonsense, and tell jokes without abuse. The stormy hut has become a favorite place for men to go. The wind and rain of the thatched cottage attracted the charm of bees and butterflies, which was overwhelming, but Yu Dafu, who was far away in Fuzhou, had no clue. Yu Dafu didn't realize this until Wang Yingxia threw himself into the arms of others. He repeatedly urged Wang Yingxia to live with him in Fuzhou. Although Wang Yingxia came to the south as instructed, he only lived for three months and then returned to Hangzhou on the grounds of acclimatization. At this time, Japan's full-scale invasion of China began, and on August 1937, it launched a large-scale attack on Shanghai, and Hangzhou was in danger. Wang Yingxia took refuge with his family in Lishui, a mountainous area in western Zhejiang, and lived next door to his lover, which caused a lot of gossip. This lover is Dai Li. Yuda found a beautiful woman in Lishui and went to Wuhan with her family. I thought I could cut them off, but I intercepted three disgusting love letters between them. Yu Dafu was very angry. He photographed these three love letters and spread them widely among his friends, hoping that Wang Yingxia would retreat. Wang Yingxia didn't care, just left without saying goodbye. Yu Dafu stayed up all night. Wang Yingxia's washed and dried tulle shirts are still hanging outside the window. Yu Dafu became more and more angry, but there was nothing he could do. He picked up a pen, dipped it in thick ink, and wrote on the gauze shirt: "the legacy of remarriage"! And write a poem: Feng goes to Taiwan, the night is getting longer and longer, and when he picks up the lamp, he shows his wedding clothes; Teach you to wear gold thread in the morning, so embroider and protect the jade hall. There are stars in the blue sky, and there is no dream of crossing the pool at night; Wuchang is always sad, and it is even sadder to look at Houmen. When the "back door" refers to Dai Li Mansion, Yu Dafu can only "heartbroken" it. but

So Dai Li did Yu Dafu's work through an intermediary, Yu Dafu published an apology notice in the newspaper, and Wang Yingxia wrote a "repentance book", so the two sides made up. At this time, the situation in Wuhan was tight, and Yu Dafu led his family to flee to Hanshou, Hunan on the south bank of Dongting Lake. In the cool autumn, Yuda went to work in Fuzhou alone. More than a month later, Hanshou was facing war, and Wang Yingxia took his family by train eastbound, and then went to Jiangshan in western Zhejiang. Yu Dafu even prepared a letter and a telegram urging Wang Yingxia to leave his mother-in-law and two children temporarily, while Wang Yingxia and his eldest son hurried to Fuzhou. After arriving in Fuzhou, Yu Dafu told Wang Yingxia, "I have agreed to be employed by Sin Chew Daily and will take your mother and son to Nanyang soon." Wang Yingxia said in surprise, "What about the mothers and children in western Zhejiang?" Yu Dafu replied categorically: "I have asked my friends to take good care of me! Things are urgent and it is difficult to cover everything! " Yu Dafu's idea is obvious. War-torn China, his wife always wants to wander in the mountains of western Zhejiang, which is nothing more than old love. In order to escape the war, and to completely cut off Wang Yingxia's contact with his old lover, he agreed to the engagement of Sin Chew Daily and took Wang Yingxia to Nanyang. Out of sight, out of mind, everything starts from scratch. Looking for the second spring of marriage. Wang Yingxia had no choice but to follow Yu Dafu to Nanyang, which was at the end of 1938. Wang Yingxia always felt that he had fallen into an elaborate trap. In Singapore, he still thinks about her in the mountains of western Zhejiang every day and quarrels with Yu Dafu every day. Yu Dafu couldn't bear it, so he sent the poem "Destroying Home" to Hong Kong for publication. The content includes the dribs and drabs of Yu and Wang's life after their marriage for two years. 19 poetry, a word, all details are recorded and annotated, and the words are sharp and there is no room for manoeuvre. Be furious with Wang Yingxia's character. He wrote several letters and sent them to Feng Fengxun magazine, denouncing Yu Dafu as a "rogue scholar", "beast who deceives women in human skin" and "crazy pervert". So they exposed each other's scars and broke up in the cold war. Finally, Wang Yingxia went to Riau Island to carry out the news that he ran away from home for the second time. 1in mid-August, 940, Wang Yingxia returned to China alone. After Hong Kong flew to Chongqing, the wartime capital, Yu and Wang issued divorce notices in Singapore, Hong Kong and Chongqing respectively. After Wang Yingxia left, Yu Dafu calmed down and still missed her. There are poems as evidence: the levee Liu Yang remembers Yiyi, which will be rare to leave here; Maoling people stay alone in the autumn rain, and Qi Fei pheasants are wild. There are seven sons who are indifferent to the society and have a three-year love; Listen, when will my mother really come back? Yu Dafu hopes to impress Wang Yingxia with the affection of mother and child, and hopes that she will repent and turn over a new leaf and return to his arms. It's wishful thinking. It's naive. Later, Yu Dafu lived with Li Xiaoying, who worked in Singapore Radio. Li Xiaoying, a native of Fuzhou, grew up in Shanghai and graduated from Jinan University with a liberal arts degree. Both Chinese and English have excellent attainments, and both have extraordinary language talents. Their silvery voices are fascinating. At that time, Li Xiaoying was a dissatisfied housewife among widows, and Yu Dafu was a divorced widower. They are in the same boat and are not afraid. Later, Japan launched the Pacific War, and the war approached Singapore. Yu Dafu fled to Indonesia and married overseas Chinese. 1after Japan announced its unconditional surrender on August 5, 945, Yu Dafu was lured out and killed for no reason. Fifty years old, no imitators. Later, rumors resurfaced, and Yu Dafu was accused of being a traitor who translated for the Japanese gendarmerie. Up to now, the cause of Yu Dafu's death remains a mystery. Businessmen speculated that Dai Li's military government took advantage of troubled times. When Wang Yingxia returned to Chongqing, she didn't remember her old mother in western Zhejiang. She lives by the Baisha River in rural Chongqing. Three months later, Dai Li was introduced to the Ministry of Foreign Affairs as a clerk in the clerical department. Supposedly, she is a 34-year-old woman, an embarrassing age of "rotten scum". But she refused to grow old. On the first day of work, I deliberately dressed up, P

When she tiptoed into the office, the fashionable people who spoke foreign languages in and out suddenly brightened up. Wang Yingxia clearly knows that beauty tends to get old, and she is no longer young. She must effectively grasp the little beauty left and try to get rid of the shadow of "Yu Dafu abandoned his wife". So I tried to rebuild the image of a lady. Apart from makeup and clothes, we used to be old friends in Chongqing, so we seldom communicated. Be careful. Soon, after careful response, he appeared in public again. Wang, president of the Chamber of Commerce, became her platinum. With her family background, knowledge, beauty, wit, temper of years, twists and turns of love, and worldly wisdom, Wang Yingxia is already a worldly person, and some people are afraid of Dai Li's support. It really goes both ways. On April 4th, 1942, He Zhong held a grand wedding in Chongqing Bailing Hotel. What cloud? Even Shi Zhecun flatters her. Write a poem for her: her lips are haggard and jade is glorious, and she will be a tear all her life; I have been a son-in-law since I was a child, and today I am a crazy husband in Fang Shuo. If you want to slander a book, it is difficult to marry a girl. The song "Yugou" is absolutely rejected, not to say that picking radishes in the mountains. 1946, Dai Li was killed in an air crash. Wang Yingxia quit her clerical job in the Ministry of Foreign Affairs and returned to live a simple housewife life. After her husband arrived in Wuhu, she gave birth to a son and a daughter. Decades later, people still talk about the relationship between Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia. Yu Dafu once called Wang Yingxia an adulterer to his face. Until the age of eighty, Wang Yingxia still called Yu Dafu a "madman". In order to keep his face, he never repented. Ma Hanmao, a famous German sinologist, published a book about the marriage between Yu Dafu and Wang Yingxia. Published a letter from Wang Yingxia to his lover, forcing Wang Yingxia to write a long article "Yu Dafu and My Marriage", which was published in Hong Kong's Wide Angle Mirror. This is just a cover for him. He never admitted his scandal. Anyway, Yu Dafu has been dead for many years, so he can only let Wang Yingxia justify himself.