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Isn’t that what Guo Degang is like?

At an award ceremony, Guo Degang said to Sha Yi: "Why do I look at Anji like my and Hu Ke's child."

Sha Yi: "Teacher Guo, you can't do this. , they all say that my second son, Xiao Yuer, looks like Yue Yunpeng. If you say that the boss looks like you, I can’t live anymore.”

Guo Degang: “It’s okay, this shows that your family is hospitable. ." With that, Guo Degang, as the host, awarded the trophies to Ala Lei and An Ji.

He Jiong, who was co-hosting on the stage, reminded in a low voice: "Teacher Guo, Anji's award was awarded to him by Sha Yi."

Guo Degang pretended to be surprised and said while handing the trophy to Sha Yi. : "Ouch, I thought it was your father who gave the award to you."

Teacher He couldn't stand it anymore and emphasized to Anji: "Anji, your father gave the award to you!"

Guo Degang still refused to give in. He kept showing off his wits and pointed at Sha Yi and said to Anji: "This one is also called daddy."

Teacher He waved his hand and said: "What can you call daddy?" and quickly asked Sha Yi Anji won the award, how did he feel?

Sha Yi said: "Anji receiving this award is the same as me receiving this award, because Anji is mine, and this award is also mine."

Later, Teacher He asked Does Anji know about Deyun Club? Guo Degang didn't forget to add "This is dad's workplace".

Hu Ke said that Anji wanted to sing a song for Teacher Guo, and Guo Degang asked him: "Are you going to sing Where Are We Going, Dad?"

Afterwards, Guo Degang because of what he called a "joke" "I was pushed to the forefront and was chased and scolded for a long time. He responded that he was just joking and criticized the netizen back. He didn't think there was anything wrong with what he said. Yes, after all, he has verbally taken advantage of the actress more than once or twice.

Why does Guo Degang usually take advantage of others without getting scolded, but this time he aroused the anger of the entire network?

1. Jokes are made regardless of the occasion. This is not Deyun Club, but a star-studded award ceremony. With a large audience and high communication, the consequences of random remarks are disastrous.

2. Stop joking when it is not appropriate. I counted, and Guo Degang said "Dad" to Anji five times in one ***, emphasizing again and again, is this still a joke?

3. The target of the joke is children. Children are very innocent. They believe whatever adults say. Guo Degang making this kind of joke with children is just as outrageous as someone saying to a child, "Your parents don't want you anymore."

4. The joking content makes people extremely uncomfortable. Guo Degang said that Anji is his son, which is enough to make people uncomfortable. He also said that Hu Ke is "hospitable". Such words, which a discerning person will know what they mean when he hears them, are really extremely unqualified.

5. The person involved did not find it funny. Guo Degang repeatedly made such jokes. Sha Yi was obviously unhappy, but he still had to keep smiling and respond to him with the most polite words.

Anji, a sensitive child, also changed from jumping to silence on stage. The innocence that Hu Ke protected was suddenly destroyed by Guo Degang.

Some people will say, it’s just a joke. Children are still so young, how can they understand what adults say?

Alalei, who went on stage to receive the award with Anji, was only 3 years old and could not understand the pronunciation of Guo Degang's words, but she believed Guo Degang's so-called "joke" and thought Anji had two fathers.

In the later interview, the host asked Arale: "You have two dads, are you happy? After all, others only have one dad." The two dads refer to the fathers Dong Li and Dong Li in the show Real life dad.

Arale blurted out: "Anji also has two fathers."

At that time, if 3-year-old Arale could understand, 5-year-old Anji might not understand?

Although children are young, their ability to perceive emotions is not low. What some people call jokes actually bring real hurt to children.

If the person involved doesn’t find it funny, it can’t be called a joke. Don't say irresponsible and hurtful words under the guise of "joking", which will hurt people invisible.

Confucius said: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." It is recommended that before you joke with others, think about whether you can accept it when others make such jokes to you.

Don’t joke with children, they will take it seriously!