My boyfriend's financial strength is not as good as mine. Should I dislike him?

Do you mind your boyfriend being poor?

The best answer I have ever heard is: I never mind that the boy I like is poor, but I am afraid that he is poor for granted, that he will choose me because of poverty, and that one day he will choose to abandon me.

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Those men who always say that girls leave you because you are poor, please ask yourself, when she chooses to be with you, are you rich?

I have a good friend who was scolded by many people for breaking up with her ex-boyfriend. Encouraged by her ex-boyfriend, they called her a gold digger, cool and thin.

Because after breaking up with her predecessor, she lost her job and couldn't even pay the rent. Not long after breaking up, she met a boy with good conditions in all aspects.

Friends didn't take her seriously at first, because most of them called her a friend of her ex-boyfriend, and everyone who knew her believed that she was not such a person. She still held the idea of self-purification and watched them perform coldly.

Until someone told a friend that her ex-boyfriend dumped their story on Zhihu and turned himself into a victim. This friend is love rat. When she saw that her boyfriend was poor and useless, she turned to Gao Fushuai.

My friend couldn't stand it anymore, so he immediately tore it up with him online. When I met him, my ex-boyfriend had a job, but it was more than 4,000 yuan a month, and he went home to supplement his family with 2,000 yuan a month. The rent 1000, and the rest 1000 is barely enough for my own use.

His friends treated him badly. On a date for dinner, either choose snacks like Shaxian or find an excuse to invite him to dinner. She bought tickets and popcorn set meal in advance when she was watching the movie. Even if you're in a drip-hopper car, your friends are scrambling for a taxi.

On my friend's birthday, my ex-boyfriend asked her what gift she wanted. She couldn't bear to ask him to spend more money, so she said she liked the stars all over the sky. But on his birthday, he returned empty-handed and naturally said, "It's just a handful of broken grass, but it's worth more than 100 yuan. It's not that you don't know I'm poor, you're wasting my money! "

Later, my friend was promoted to do some sideline work, and his monthly income reached five figures. At this time, my ex-boyfriend lost his job and was very depressed. Friends comfort him, don't worry, work slowly, and joke seriously. She can support him.

Perhaps because of this sentence, the former boys were unemployed for half a year and slept in rental houses all day. When he was hungry, he asked his friends to give him some takeout. When he had to pay the rent, he asked his friends for money, even though his parents asked him for money.

A friend was a little evasive and said strangely, "Do you think I spent your money? Me neither. Who makes me poor and my family is poorer? "

His friend gently advised him to look for a job, but he said confidently, "Didn't you say you raised me and let me look for it slowly?" I'll look for it slowly now. Are you gossiping here? "

My friend was reluctant to break up with him and shamelessly asked for a breakup fee.

Some people regard poverty as their weakness and try their best to improve it, while others take poverty as an excuse and take it for granted.

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People who are poor to the bone cannot support wealth. A little money will make him feel good. He won't know the way home. You who accompanied him through hard times will be forgotten by him.

Xiao Ran in the TV series "Ten Years of Love" is the kind of poor man. He is ambitious, smart and not afraid of hardship. He succeeded because he was desperate to make money.

But this kind of person can't hold wealth in his bones. Once he has money, he spends all day in romantic places, snubbing Han Ling who suffers with him every night.

Han Ling has lived with him for so many years, and even suffered because she can't afford to raise children. But after he got the money, he cheated on me and let another woman have a baby.

At this point, hanling finally lost hope and chose a divorce. Ten years in love is always a joke.

In fact, most girls are really not afraid of men being poor, but even more afraid of suffering. They are afraid that they will end up paying the price for lost time like hanling.

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People often say "fear of poverty". However, poverty is really not terrible. As long as you are willing to work hard, as long as you are not afraid of suffering, life will eventually become better.

But I'm afraid you are really "poor". In the face of poverty, doing nothing or doing extreme things is really terrible.

Poverty is just the present state. If you are lucky enough to meet a girl who really treats you, all you have to do is give her all your love within your ability. All you have to do is fight for her for your future.

Never, don't take the old road that men become bad when they have money!