How do couples address each other?

There is a saying: a day's husband and wife are grateful for a hundred days, which means that the feelings of husband and wife are extraordinary feelings. Even if we have lived together for a short time and only been married for one night, I can seal them in each other's memories. So, today's topic is: husband and wife, what is the name between husband and wife? It seems that this little detail in life is not taken seriously, but sometimes, the proportion between husband and wife can also reflect the inheritance of a country, a region or even a national cultural tradition. ...

So, what is the best and most suitable relationship between husband and wife? I have done a little collection in this field recently. At present, the appellation between husband and wife in China is "various" and "various". For example, I call my wife, Kuai, wife, wife, daughter-in-law, lover, and some people call my wife "garbage virtuous" and so on. I think (only on behalf of my personal opinion), in these titles, "wife" generally refers to those elderly couples who have experienced ups and downs together; People who are called "Kuai" are generally humorous, cheerful and usually love to talk and laugh; My wife reminds me of a line in the movie: "She is my servant", which sounds like "inequality". People named after "wives" are very popular and common. Just like an ordinary "river" flowing out of life, it is very ordinary. Some people call their women "wives of dross", which means wives in trouble. Such a man will get extra points because of his appearance, which can make people feel that husband and wife share joys and sorrows, and the feelings of joys and sorrows are the same.

In fact, there are still some differences between husband and wife address at home and abroad. In foreign countries, such names as "dear" and "baby" are very common, just like China men generally call her "my wife" and "my wife". If you ask China men to address their wives as "dear" or "my baby" with foreign addresses, they may not be used to it or find it difficult to speak. Therefore, some things are different from country to country. China has a vast territory, rich resources and many ethnic groups, and the ratio between husband and wife is naturally different, which is also a reflection of the diversity of ethnic traditions.

Of course, it doesn't matter what the address between husband and wife is. Some appellations have inherited national traditions. But I think that in a civilized country and society, the address between husband and wife should pay attention to the beauty of harmony and pursue high taste. So among the many names of China, I think the name "lover" is a good choice.

Because "love" can best reflect the feelings of a couple or the solid foundation of a family. Husband and wife are "lovers", which not only reflects their personal qualities to a certain extent, but also reflects their marriage feelings of mutual respect, love and sympathy in their long-term life. There is only one wife. Different from "concubine", giving a good and accurate address to the women around you can also reflect the modesty, harmony, friendship and equality between husband and wife …

So I think the name "lover" is one of the best choices. After so many years of marriage, I have always called it "my love". Today, before we go out, we still smile and kiss each other goodbye. Last words: The initial intention of this article is not to let anyone change who, but my humble opinion.

In short, no matter what you call it, one thing is worth insisting on, that is, the relationship between husband and wife can only be enhanced, not alienated. Since we are husband and wife, we should respect and love each other. Love leads to family, and love leads to lasting marriage, stable family and harmonious society. ...

Tell a joke. True story!

When I was young, I attended a local meeting. The level of comrades received is quite high. After all, people in large ministries and commissions attach great importance to local enterprises and institutions.

I was "on my head" then. It is the secretary of the leader. The person who docked with me also has a level requirement, and it has to be a division level, and the age is not small. Once in Inner Mongolia. An elder sister received me and accompanied me to dinner and chat.

The elder sister asked with concern, "How are you old people?" She saw my wedding ring.

I replied, "I have passed away."

I'm sorry! Suddenly turned into a fossil. A table was silent. After a while, my sister said, "What a pity! How did you accept it! You are still young ... "I was fascinated when I heard it, and said excitedly," Yes, I just went to college that year! "

Elder sister one leng! "When you were in college, you said they were married?"

"No.Who will get married when they go to college?"

"Ah! I'm talking about your partner, your lover. "

I am unhappy. "My lover is still young, not an old man!"

"In our country, husbands are called old men no matter how old they are."

"That my lover is alive and well. Thanks to you! "

I later went back and forth to Beijing and told this story as a joke.

A gay man listened and said, "What is this? I met a leader in Hubei or Sichuan that year, and I forgot. He asked me: Where is your cousin from? I thought he knew I rented out the hotel. That's scary! To tell the truth, my cousin is from Shandong. I don't have many guests, just three, and I have a temporary residence permit in Beijing. I know this is against policy. My mother took the initiative to find it. I don't know. I was just about to get rid of them all ... "

What I hear most is that Beijing women call their husbands "lovers". Husbands also call their wives that way. Old Beijingers do not use the word "husband". Because, I used to call eunuchs husbands.

My grandfather called me grandma, dear. They are classmates of the mission school. One of our neighbors nodded in agreement.

The old lady from the countryside said, "People in the city are really literate. Call your wife "da" Husband and wife are not just "big", with a pocket in front and a pocket in the back, shoulder to shoulder, regardless of size.

From then on, the old lady also called her old man "big".

Answer: People generally call husband and wife, which is common sense. Let's explain:

1. Husband: My dear husband is so kind. When there are contradictions in daily life, he can resolve many misunderstandings and contradictions. It can deepen the affection between husband and wife and win the family spirit.

Second, the wife: a dear wife, so warm and considerate, can represent a manifestation of her husband's deep love for his wife, and is a deep affection for her husband.

In our hometown, it is very interesting for couples to call each other.

In my hometown, my husband is relatively weak, which can be seen from his wife's address to her husband.

Women here generally call their husbands "husbands", which is a very formal and elegant address. But there are also some vulgar ones. Most women call their husbands that way, and that is "the old man". These men called "old people" are of all ages. Even if you are just married and only 20 or 34 years old, you will be called "old man" by your young wife. For example, "Ali's old man lost his job (my husband went to work)".

However, there are many vulgar things, and men may feel uncomfortable. Of course, if you regard it as a joke between husband and wife, that is another matter. Women here sometimes call their husbands "old thieves" and "old epidemic ghosts (pigs, cows and other old infected livestock)". For example, "Ali, the old thief has come back from the dead (why hasn't my husband come home yet)?" Ali, the old plague ghost played mahjong again (my husband went to play mahjong again).

The worst thing is that you can't stand it, because your woman simply calls you "idiot" and "old pig and old dog" Do you think it is insulting and irritating?

Therefore, you should know how powerful and domineering the women here are as soon as you listen.

Men in their hometown call their women gentler, more decent and warmer. They usually call their wives "Alicia (the woman of my family)", or "some mother (someone's mother)", or simply call them "wives", such as "Ali's wife is very bad (my wife is very bad)".

You see, our husband and wife call each other here, isn't it a bit female superior to male subordinate?

My wife and I often call each other by their first names. When talking with a third party, we call each other "husband Ali (my husband)" and "wife Ali (my wife)". There has never been any other indecent name.

Modern people generally call their names better. What "dear", "husband", "wife" and "baby" all seem hard to say.

I have seen a couple before. The wife calls her husband "the father of the child" and her husband calls her "the mother of the child". At first, the neighbors felt very affectionate, and then they fought. Neighbors also think they are hypocritical and often laugh at their father for hitting their mother. The mother scolded the child's father, and then they scolded each other.

Actually, it doesn't matter what you call husband and wife. It is important to understand and tolerate each other. Noisy is nothing. After quarreling, it is important to get into each other quickly, don't put problems and contradictions in your heart, think in one place and work hard in one place. Two people are one heart.

Interesting topic

If husband and wife call each other? It should be said that different regions, different ages, different units, urban and rural areas have different names.

When I was working on a project at the junction of Fujian and Jiangxi, the residents of the mountain village there used "Hello!" At home. Call each other. Such as: "Hello! Bring the bowl. " To outsiders, young people call each other "that person", middle-aged people call them "husbands" and "wives", and old people call them "old guys".

The young workers in our engineering team are more open-minded, some are called "dear" and "baby", some are called "Lao Zhang" and "Lao Li" after middle age, and many of them are called by their first names.

It is not the same to call the north and the south, so there is no need to pursue it. One thing can be seen from the feelings of both sides: the tone and expression of the address, but just listen to it.

Calling husband and wife is a bit of a cliche, and the name is a bit unfamiliar. The name between the stars is very interesting. You can learn from it:

1, Huang Lei called Sun Li "Miss Sun". After falling in love for more than 20 years, Huang Lei can still call Sun Li. Visible Sun Li is love at first sight in his heart. In A Life of Desire, Huang Lei is called Sun Li "Sister Li", Huang Lei is Sun Li's senior, which is totally a kind of respect, and Sun Li is called Huang Lei "Dad". It was love at first sight.

2. In The Romantic Travel of Wife, Du Jiang wrote a letter to Huo Siyan. At the beginning of the first sentence, Huo Siyan called "Minnie" and signed it "Mickey". The old couple compared their love to Disney, how sweet it was.

In My Young Couple, Li Chengxuan and Stephy call each other "baby". On their birthday, Brother Qi sent a blessing directly at 0: 00: "Happy birthday, husband and baby." Brother Xuan's happiness can only be understood by Brother Qi.

4. Jimmy Lin said in the program "Mother-in-law and Mother" that although they called each other by name in the program, they were intimate in private and would call each other "Baby", and Chen Ruoyi would call him "Dad". Life is sweet, a family of five is really enviable.

Deng Chao called Sun Li "Shantou" and "Teacher Sun", and Sun Li called Deng Chao "Chao Ge". Every time in front of the camera, they mention each other with a smile and appreciation, which is worthy of being a model couple in the entertainment circle.

6. In The Wife's Romantic Journey, she is called "Sister Cai" and seems to be a happy woman with a strict wife. Cherrie Ying once wrote that Jordan chan was a "piggy", and they were 16 years apart, but still as sweet as ever.

7. In The Wife's Romantic Travel, Max Zhang called Ada Choi "dear" and Ada Choi called Max Zhang "fish fish". How much love do they need to make Ada Choi fight for his third child at the age of 46?

Anita Yuen called Qilan "Mr. Zhang" and "Brother", while Qilan, like others, called Anita Yuen "Jingjing". Their performances in the program are full of fireworks, so maybe ordinary feelings can last forever.

Nicky Wu is only two years younger than Liu Shishi's mother. Liu Shishi is called "Uncle Wu" in Nicky Wu, while Nicky Wu is called "Madam" in Liu Shishi. Every time two people take pictures, they either hold hands or whisper intimately, which profoundly explains that in the emotional world, age is not distance.

10. In the program, Andy called Eva Huang "Lao Huang" and Eva Huang called Andy "Lao Yang". This is an old couple with good feelings. Eva Huang knows how to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. She also relies heavily on Andy and has always loved to tell the judge about it.

1 1, My Little Couple, Jacky called Bea Hayden a "lazy pig", so he went to Bea Hayden's hot search and called Jacky "left". You can see the sweetness of the newlyweds from the address.

12, Justin called Zhang Xinyi "Niu" and Zhang Xinyi called Justin "Dad". After having children, many couples will call them "dad", "mom", "dad" and "mom", which is really grounded. Who says divorced people can't have love anymore? Zhang Xinyi is the best example.

A good life partner is also a teacher and friend. How sweet it is to start from such a small matter. Marriage is not only the continuation of love, but also the perfection of each other's souls.

The appellation between husband and wife is an expression of emotion and a barometer of the relationship between husband and wife. In addition to traditional folk customs, there is also the name of family personality, which varies from time to time, from people to times and from region to region.

As an old lady of our generation who came from the Cultural Revolution after 5O and 6O, her name is more formal. When I first got married, my eyes generally represented my name, which meant I was shy and a little reserved.

Since then, the official address between husband and wife is to address the last two words by surname:,,, Rong, Kouzi. My wife; I have the final say; There is both respect and emotion in the speech.

With children, besides calling them by their first names and adding "An", there are also "my baby mother", "baby mother", "baby father" and "baby father".

After the age of 450, in addition to "An", there are many casual surnames: "My stubborn cow", "pig woman", "old woman" and "stupid woman" ... very uncivilized and funny!

Feelings are not harmonious, they can't live without each other, and they want to call each other something, so they stare and drum their eyes to add spells and strange things in front.

The new era is different, and the address between husband and wife has frankly changed. My son has gone out with his fiancee. He reported to me that he called his fiancee "my dear girl" and "dear girl" called him "husband" on the phone. If we didn't know each other, I would be so jealous and happy!

For the video answer of "How to address husband and wife in a friendly way", the following answers are purely personal suggestions and are for reference only.

When they were young, they called each other by their first names. After middle age, that is, after 40 years old, children have grown up and feel that it is a bit inappropriate to call each other by their first names, so they later called each other by their surnames, only adding an old word in front!