I went to my boyfriend's house to go to the bathroom, and he laughed at my boyfriend for not having a bathroom.

Never tried to help others. Or indifference, or fear of suffering, so that many people dare not be kind people. In fact, kind people seldom regret it. They live in peace and peace of mind, which is a good reward for kindness. To help those who need you, the feeling of "being needed" is much better than "taking".

Trust yourself too much. We all have moments when we are so arrogant and even conceited that we think we don't regret anything we have done. Although it looks positive, it looks blind. There are always some things that others are more considerate than you think. Listening and thinking for a second can save you many detours.

Did not properly arrange the property. Now there are more and more family disputes caused by property. In fact, as an old man, we must take the disposal of property as an important thing and make a good plan when we are alive. If there are many children, the distribution must be fair, and don't hurt the feelings between children because of money and things.

I haven't figured out what's next. This is very similar to property disposal. When people are alive, they will leave many marks. People and things around you will change because of your departure. Planning well in advance can not only make you more calm about illness and death, but also remind yourself to enjoy life. Don't wait until you can't walk and don't understand, only to find that there are still many things to do.

Didn't go back to my hometown. Everyone has a place buried in the deepest part of his heart, but he will never forget it-this is his hometown. Many people will say, when I retire, I will go back to my hometown. Often wait and go, and finally go home with the urn. As long as you live, try to go home every year, listen to the local accent and eat something delicious. This place that you can't give up geographically is also the residence of your soul.

Never enjoy food. Do you leave all the delicious food to your children, because you are busy with work and have a casual meal, or do you just eat so-called "nutritious" food every day for health? Eating is not only for satiety, but also to meet many of our psychological needs. Tasting delicious food is also a good psychotherapy. Also, don't give up any chance to have dinner with your family. One day, the people at this table will gradually disappear.