Don't underestimate others, don't overestimate yourself, don't be crazy, don't live a lifetime.

All sentient beings, this world, no one should underestimate others and overestimate themselves. The others are not so unimportant, nor so important.

As Yin Xueyun said in "The Ballad of Vegetable Roots": "Ordinary people's lives don't have too many colors, but if you look carefully, none of them are simple. Don't underestimate anyone. "

Yes, sometimes we can't even see through ourselves, let alone see others.

Colleagues are very timid when they have a second child, because the first child is a son. If they have a second child, from the traditional point of view, it will definitely increase the burden on the family.

As a result, a son was born, and many people advised them to give the child away so as not to be unable to support it in the future.

But they don't want to send it. During that time, many people gossiped that they were overreaching.

Now five years have passed, and my colleagues and family members are very happy. My parents-in-law are taking two children and the young couple are working to earn money. Those gossipers also changed the wind direction and promoted the fact that colleagues left two boys at home as a positive thing.

Everything in life is not only positive and negative, just like "happiness lies in misfortune, and misfortune depends on happiness", and there is no absolute difference between good and bad.

Sometimes, what I see is crisis, not resistance, but others regard it as opportunity and motivation.

Different mentality can completely change the color of life. Therefore, if you stay out of other people's lives, don't point out other people's lives at will.

Your finger pointing is only based on your own cognitive range, and your self-righteousness may become a joke.

Degang Guo once said, "If you don't know anything, you must be generous. You should stay away from him. Because when lightning strikes him, it will get you into trouble. "

Many people regard this sentence as a joke and pass it on from mouth to mouth. It expresses the most real life in the most humorous language.

You are you, I am me, never met, irrelevant, meet by chance, nodding acquaintance. Why do you disturb my life?

Always look down on others, in fact, is the inner inferiority at work. Delusion paralyzes one's narrow soul by belittling others, raising one's deformed self-confidence.

I saw someone say: the old neighbor who lived for 9 years moved away, and the new family moved in, only to find that the old neighbor's family had trained a champion son.

Nine years of close neighbor relationship, if neighbors don't deliberately show off and ask about themselves, who can guess from daily life that there are such high neighbors hidden around them?

What you see, what you think, are your own thoughts. You can never see the true heart of others, even those closest to you.

Therefore, don't underestimate anyone, don't jump to conclusions easily, and leave a way out for your life.

Employee of a company's middle-level complaint office: "I am a full-time cadre, and I am embarrassed to be a small employee."

Actually, it's nothing serious. He wants to inquire about the cooperation agreement between the company and a customer in recent years. According to the regulations, there must be a written notice from the competent leader. He didn't provide written notice, and the employee refused him.

"Open full-time cadres" and "small employees" have been the jokes of the company for a long time. A leader who takes himself too seriously not only challenges the rules, but also looks down on ordinary employees. His basic quality and working ability are deeply questioned by employees.

There is a saying: when people are angry, they always overestimate themselves and mistakenly think that they are particularly awesome.

There are days behind, there are people outside. Many people dig a hole in their lives because they overestimate themselves.

Once, actor Jiang was ridiculed by netizens. The reason is that there is news in Weibo that Jiang has won the American Master of Architecture Award. In the photo, she smiled and sparkled with the trophy.

This is good news, but the style of painting has suddenly changed, and nearly 20,000 messages are almost all questioning and swearing. In fact, this situation can be avoided by instinct, and all problems can be solved by keeping a low profile.

Jiang is an actor. Whether teaching, photographing or writing articles, he is giving extra points to his own people. However, when the highly professional architectural award was exposed, engineering male's "dissatisfaction" was instantly ignited.

Men go into the construction site to draw drawings, stay up late and go bald, and haven't seen professional awards yet. You are a beautiful actress, holding an award for fun and showing off.

Because of this incident, Jiang's criticism took a turning point. He typically dug a pit and buried himself.

"When the sky is crazy, there will be rain, and when people are crazy, there will be disaster." The traditional teaching of our ancestors is a true truth.

People are at the bottom, don't underestimate yourself; People are at their peak, so we should see ourselves clearly.

The saddest thing in life is not being defeated by others, but killing yourself.

I once heard a teacher tell such a story.

At the meeting of the local writers' association, there was a part to comment on the author's manuscript. In the past, some young authors wanted guidance from their predecessors, but this time there were unsigned manuscripts.

After everyone commented, when the host asked the author, a famous local old writer stood up with a smile. He said that he was afraid that everyone would be embarrassed to comment on his manuscript, so he used this method to get the most authentic evaluation.

Everyone lamented that this kind of behavior of an old writer is what a writer really should have.

Honor is just a thing of the past. If you lie on it and show off, you will be left far away by others sooner or later.

If you want to go further in the future, you have to put down your honor, forget the past and regard every departure as a new beginning.

In the movie Chasing Happyness, my father is on the verge of bankruptcy and my wife runs away from home. He and his son are homeless and face survival problems.

The father didn't give up, while protecting his son from harm, he looked for opportunities in misfortune. He bears hardships and stands hard work, bears the burden of humiliation and puts all his energy into that ordinary salesman position.

His purpose is to support himself and his son and give him a happy home. In the end, he succeeded in becoming a full member by his own efforts, and gradually grew from a stock trader to a well-known financial investor. He survived the disaster and gave his son a new life.

There is a saying: when life abandons you, you don't even say hello.

Yes, no one wants to be attacked by wind and waves, but this is the normal state of life. At this time, if you are not entangled in the body and mind by the temporary trough, you will stimulate the infinite potential hidden in your heart and support your life to rise from the trough.

Not crazy when you are high, not humble when you are low. When you can walk at a constant speed, you can meet the scenery along the way.

Some people have long understood this kind of life, while others have to practice it all their lives.

Everyone's personality and living environment are different, and the realm of being a man is naturally different. We have no way or right to ask others. The only thing we can manage is ourselves.

Remember to observe the world with your heart and think about life with your brain, instead of judging people with your eyes and your mouth.

May you remember:

Don't underestimate others and overestimate yourself; High places are not crazy, and low places are not humble.

Although it is easier said than done, I hope you will never give up working hard for such a life!

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