Three relationships: the relationship between man and himself, and the relationship between man and nature.

What a person comes into contact with in society is actually contained in these three relationships.

The reason why we should put the relationship between people and ourselves first is because our ancestors told us that no matter what we do, we must first be sincere and correct an attitude. If we don't have a correct attitude and want to be lazy, we can do nothing well.

Some people will say that laziness promoted the development of society, such as the industrial revolution and the discovery of the steam engine, because workers at that time wanted to be lazy.

People who have this idea can only say that they are too young and simple. Can the invention of the steam engine really explain that laziness can promote the development of productivity? That's not true. Before the invention of the steam engine, the worker had arranged many hours of work by hand, and finally found out that he had such skills. This is the relationship between people and things. After reaching a certain amount, it is qualitative change, which is what the ancients said: practice makes perfect.

Before this invention, how many people spent a lot of time and energy on this work, even the inventor himself spent a lot of time and energy on this matter, and finally found such a skill.

The reason why laziness promotes the development of productive forces is just a saying that a person is fishing, or a joke. If you take other people's jokes as true, you really don't know how many jokes you will make.

It's a joke, but it affects one's life development.

Because if we really think that laziness can succeed, we will always use this idea to guide our actions, and we will always be lazy. In the end, we will find that we were cheated by life, and finally we failed, which was a complete failure.

So we should correctly understand the relationship between man and nature.

If you want to promote a certain science or gain something in a certain field, you have to spend a lot of time and energy in these fields and conduct in-depth research, so as to gain something.

The relationship between man and himself is very important because there is really no obstacle to the leap of thought, and it is precisely because there is no obstacle that our thoughts often fly. If we are busy with work during the day, we may think less, but at night we lie quietly in bed. At this time, our thoughts are the most uncontrollable.

Free thoughts can make us feel free and anxious.

The relationship between man and himself is a very broad statement. If you want to be specific, it can be said to be sincere or a belief. Take actual nouns as an example, so it can be easier to understand.

The relationship between man and nature is a category. On a small scale, understanding can be said to be one's own work or one's own work. On a large scale, understanding is the relationship between the whole population and the whole nature.

For example, there were not so many people in our country in the past, but our material resources were not rich enough. Now we have more people than before, but everyone has more materials. It is not because there are more people that everyone has less material. This is because people get more things from the whole nature.

In the relationship between man and nature, because of the development of industry, we feel that nature is easier and win a great victory in the contest with nature, which shows that our material life has become very rich.

In the relationship between man and nature, people get more material, but at the expense of the environment.

In the process of transforming nature, we have won, but this victory is not absolute or comprehensive. We have only changed a part, but this part has increased relatively, but it has never been strong enough to change nature at will, because we know that nature can't stop us, such as hurricanes, earthquakes and bad changes in the environment.

In the face of such a huge natural disaster, people seem so small that people in disaster can only resign themselves to fate and have no ability to resist at all.

The relationship between people is actually very important, but we put it behind because the relationship between people and themselves is the most fundamental content, and the relationship between people and nature is an indispensable content, otherwise we will not even have enough to eat, and the relationship between people will have too much room for activities.

In the end, it's not unimportant. In fact, it's very important and should be treated with caution. If the relationship between people is not handled well, it will be difficult to get rich materials in the relationship between man and nature.

The difficulty in the relationship between people is that people are very spiritual animals, and the changes of ideas are jumping, often full of ideas, constantly changing, difficult to ponder and inconclusive. All thoughts are in one thought, because man himself is a synthesis of good and evil.

If the relationship between people is handled well, people will feel very harmonious, and they can get rich materials from this relationship, which can be seen from politics. If the relationship is not handled well, nothing will be achieved.

The relationship between people, people of the same class and people of different classes, is relatively complicated to deal with.

But many people prefer to deal with the relationship between people, because after dealing with the relationship between good people, they can get huge benefits without doing anything, but not all people, but many people, which is why many people want to join the civil service.

After being admitted to the civil service, you don't have to worry about doing too many things and doing too much manual work, not to mention being beaten by the wind and rain. You can sit in an office more often, with air conditioning in summer and heating in winter. Moreover, you have a stable job, are close to home, can take care of your family and have good welfare, so many people envy you.

These three relationships do not say that it is important or not, or which is more important. There is no such distinction, but the emphasis is different at different stages of life.

But many people don't understand this article, which leads to confusion when dealing with these relationships. Don't confuse yourself.

It is precisely because we preach too much about the relationship between people, such as how good civil servants are and how bad physical labor is, that people despise the relationship between man and nature. Many people don't want to do things and want to get more benefits, which leads to the idea of getting something for nothing.

This is the serious influence of distorted ideas on us.

The greatest influence of ideas on people is that when a person is young, it is more manifested in one's student days.

Because young people don't understand the whole society, more because they are at school. Relatively speaking, this is a pure land. They can study quietly in the ivory tower, but what they learn is the experience told by others. These experiences are gained through practice in the eyes of others, but they have no experience gained through practice.

In fact, from the individual's point of view, it is like stealing the fruits of others' labor, but from the perspective of the development of the whole mankind, it is beneficial to the whole group. You don't have to spend time and energy to gain these experiences. You can gain them by studying, which can further promote the development of science and technology and help the whole people survive better.

The reason why students can study quietly in the ivory tower without interference from others is that it is difficult for them to have such a good learning environment unless it is beneficial to all mankind.

Although learning is very heavy, if you can take part in some practice in your spare time, you can better understand what you have learned, otherwise, more often, you will form a sense of superiority in your heart.

These feelings of superiority are based on unrealistic fantasies.

Because there is no practice, no understanding of the whole social operation and no influence of ideas, you will think that what you have is what you deserve. Without social practice, you will not understand the importance of what you have learned, so there will be the educational chaos we are seeing now.

For example, reading is not serious. Under our current education system, before and in high school, we also know our intentions. After entering the university, most people relaxed. It has become normal for boys to play games and girls to brush TV dramas. What seems normal is actually a very abnormal phenomenon.

With the money given by my parents, I can easily sit in school and learn the experience gained by my predecessors through great labor. This student or this person didn't pay equal work during this period. Can he really feel at ease with what he has?

The reason why we talk more about students in interpersonal relationships is because we think it is very sad that many college students waste their time and energy in school.

Before graduating from college, a person can say that what he has is greater than what he has contributed. Before that, he got a lot of contributions from others almost for free. So after graduating from college, it is time for him to make contributions and pay his own labor. However, some people don't even have such an idea. There are even people at home who don't want to work, want to get something for nothing, and want to be opportunistic.

I don't know what you learned at school or what you think, but I know your behavior is very wrong.

People who muddle along in this state do not realize that they are a person, let alone an independent person, and have no consciousness of being a person.

Giant baby, on the one hand, because of fierce social competition, on the other hand, is not clear about these relationships.

I always thought what I had was what I deserved. It is the first time to be born as a human being, and there is no equal pay. What do you deserve?