What is the definition of happiness? Does having money mean you can be happy?

The definition of happiness is different in everyone’s heart. However, no matter how everyone defines happiness in their hearts, happiness cannot be achieved only by having money!

The ancient Chinese defined happiness as "blessing", and "blessing" is divided into five blessings: the first blessing is longevity, the second blessing is wealth, the third blessing is health, the fourth blessing is good virtue, and the fifth blessing is a good death.

It can be seen that the happiness in the hearts of the ancients is to have any one of the five blessings, which can be called "happiness". It does not mean that you can get happiness just by having money. Of course, it would be even better if you can get "five blessings"!

Nowadays, we are busy working every day, and the purpose of work is to live a happier life, but why do many people still not feel happy?

When I was in school, I thought it was really hard to be in school. When can I graduate and go to work and get paid like an adult without having to do homework? It seems that going to work is happiness!

After going to work, I saw many people working easily and making a lot of money, as if making money easily is happiness!

When I was not married, when I saw other people in pairs, it seemed that being able to find your beloved partner was happiness!

When there are problems with your health, you have difficulty moving, and you always need someone to take care of you. It seems that everything else is not as important as your health. As long as you are healthy, you will be happy!

It is not difficult to find that all unhappiness comes from dissatisfaction with one's own environment. People who only see what others have but not what they own will never be happy, even if they have a lot of money. Wan Guan!

Unhappiness is a feeling!

Happiness is also a feeling! On the contrary, when you can always see what you have and don't care about what others have, you can feel happy [Compare Heart]

When you are thirsty, just drink a glass of sweet water , is happiness! When you have no money, it is a kind of happiness to have someone around you who can help you through adversities and tide over them together! When you are alone, taking care of yourself and making yourself happy every day is a kind of happiness!

Healthy parents are a kind of happiness, children who are filial are a kind of happiness, and harmony between husband and wife is also a kind of happiness! The definition of happiness lies within the heart and has nothing to do with the outside world!

Of course having money can make life better. I also very much hope to make money every day, buy whatever I want, and do whatever I want! However, before we can make money day by day, we should also see everything we already have, and let us happily strive on the road of making money day by day [Come on][Come on][Come on] Happiness has no definition, happiness is individual Feelings are the joy after achieving a goal, and the emotional expression of a person after self-satisfaction.

There are individual differences in happiness. Smoking is happiness for you, but it is harm to others; drinking is happiness for those who can drink, and pain for those who cannot drink; pursuing love is happiness, and treating love as the only one is pain; self-satisfaction is happiness, and pursuing unattainable goals is Pain; some people count money at night and feel happy, and some people feel happy after thinking about doing good things for others at night. As the saying goes, every carrot and cabbage has its own love. The feeling of love is happiness, and this happiness cannot be measured by scale.

Happiness is determined by your outlook on life. Different outlooks on life have different understandings of "Who am I? Where do I come from? Where do I want to go?" No matter whether it is right or wrong, you must understand yourself, know yourself, and set goals. If you position yourself correctly, set goals reasonably, and constantly pursue the set goals, happiness will accompany you throughout your life. If you cannot position yourself correctly and set goals that are too high or too low, you will struggle to achieve the goals and suffer a lifetime; especially If you don't understand yourself, don't position yourself correctly, and have no direction to move forward, you will drift with the crowd, and there will be no happiness at all. Although these three outlooks on life cannot cover all outlooks on life, they are enough to understand why some people regard living and drinking as being unrestrained, while others regard living frugally and donating their savings to others as a different life of happiness.

It can be seen that it is not a universal rule that money can buy happiness, and the ways in which people obtain happiness in life are diverse.

Happiness is a persistent pursuit. Happiness cannot fall from the sky, he gets it from pursuing it. In the pursuit of the goal of happiness, not everything is happy, but more difficult and painful. Because the realization of every goal is always inseparable from factors such as interpersonal relationships, the right time, the right place, the right people, and so on. I remember Deng Jiaxian, the father of two bombs, said before his death, "I have only done one thing in my life, and I have no regrets." For decades, Deng Jiaxian rarely reunited with his beloved wife. He lived on the edge of the desert and slept in style. When he reunited with his relatives, he was already terminally ill. He had no complaints. He was happy for completing the mission of "two bombs and one satellite"; During the epidemic, heroes and groups with advanced deeds emerged, all of whom sacrificed their own lives for everyone and rushed to the front line regardless of personal safety. They all feel happy that the goal of controlling the spread of the epidemic as soon as possible has been achieved. Therefore, different outlooks on life and values ??have different understandings of what happiness is. Everyone longs for happiness, but obtaining happiness is full of hardship and sweat. Only those who understand happiness know the taste of happiness. It is difficult for money to buy happiness.

1: Happiness is the feeling of peace that fills every cell of the body and mind, and is long-lasting. It is different from the feeling of joy, joy, and joy.

When you hear a joke, when you play with children, when you sing karaoke with your friends, it is a feeling of joy, joy, and joy.

The feeling when you are charitable, the feeling when your family is harmonious, the feeling when you cooperate with others through thick and thin, and finally share a piece of cake, that feeling expressed from the bottom of your heart is happiness. Feeling, that feeling is peaceful and tranquil, making people not anxious or anxious, and the body and mind are full of healthy sunshine. This is the feeling of happiness.

2: Happiness is different from joy, the feeling of joy. When you have a meal with your friends, or when you sing karaoke with your friends, the feeling is just temporary happiness. This feeling of joy is sensory and short-lived, while the happiness is long-lasting and full of body and mind.

3: An elderly sanitation worker was helped by his partner during work. The two of them swept a section of the road together, bought groceries together, and then went home to cook together happily. This How much money is needed?

On a stormy night, a young couple sets up a night stall together, puts on each other’s raincoats, and works hand in hand. How much does it cost?

4: It is undeniable that money and material things can indeed bring a lot of convenience to life and can also make people have more happiness. However, if you blindly pursue the amount of money, you will get lost in the whirlpool of money and material desires. In life, you will be happy when you earn it, and sad when you lose it, and you can't extricate yourself. Therefore, the amount of money has nothing to do with the level of happiness index. This is the true meaning of life, but many people are confused about it.

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