The baby stayed up late to do his homework, and the father tore it angrily. Netizen: I have the heart to tear my homework, but I don't have the courage to tear it.

In order to have a bright future for their children, parents are heartbroken about their children's education.

Most families are ordinary except those with good family conditions since childhood. In order to make children live a happy life, everyone has been cultivating them from all aspects since childhood.

Because they don't want their children to lose at the starting line, many parents began to enroll their children in various interest classes when they were very young. Parents seem to see a brighter future for their children from their busy study life.

As a result, the burden on children is getting heavier and heavier. Not only can they not finish their studies, but they also have to do a lot of homework.

In order to improve the enrollment rate, many schools have prepared various examination questions and papers for their children.

After returning home, the children not only had no time to play, but also shortened their rest time.

It is often seen that many children do their homework until one or two in the morning and get up to go to school the next day.

Mr. Zou's son is in the fifth grade of primary school, because he will be in the sixth grade of junior high school soon. In order to improve his children's academic performance quickly, the school has a lot of homework at home besides the homework done at school every day.

Mr. Zou thought that this might happen three or four days a week. I didn't expect to work overtime until the early hours of the morning for a while, and I saw my children still staying up late to do their homework.

Mr. Zou finally couldn't help it. He went over and asked the child, "Do you have much homework every day?" When did you start writing? Why did you finish it so late? "

After listening, the child turned over the exercise book and said to Teacher Zou, "Dad, look at my homework. It's too thick. It was written tonight. I have written more than a dozen pages, and I have to write another eight or nine pages to finish. "

Teacher Zou asked your classmates to write so much? The child told him in detail that anyone who failed in the class needed to do so.

Teacher Zou listened and looked at the exercise book carefully. It turns out that the child is copying the contents of the textbook repeatedly.

This made him very angry, grabbed it, tore up his homework and said, "Don't copy it. It's no use copying it. This kind of homework is meaningless. "

The child froze when he saw Mr. Zou's behavior, because he could not hand in his homework tomorrow and began to cry.

Teacher Zou looked at it and comforted the child, saying that he would explain it to the teacher tomorrow and the child would go to bed.

Not long after, Mr. and Mrs. Zou discussed with their children and decided to let them go to another school. Then why do children have so much homework? Is it inefficient or heavy workload?

Heavy workload. Parents may often see their children writing homework until the early hours of the morning, thinking that their children are lazy or playful, which leads to slow homework, but ignores the problem of school homework.

Teachers in many schools may not be close. When assigning homework after class, they only consider how long their homework will take to complete, but don't expect other teachers to assign a lot of homework.

This will lead children to do every subject, and the increase will take a long time.

Lack of concentration. When children study at school for a long time, they will have less time to rest at home, and they will enter the learning state again during entertainment time.

And a lot of homework makes children unable to concentrate continuously, because people's energy is limited.

If children are often in a state of high-intensity study, it will easily lead to mental fatigue, the efficiency will gradually become lower, and the time for doing homework will naturally be extended.

This is the same as adult work. I believe that my parents want to relax when they come home after a hard day's work.

If you still need to work at home, you can't relax physically and mentally, and your mental state will not be too good the next day.

Lack of energy. In order not to let their children lose at the starting line, parents let their children sign up for various interest classes, such as calligraphy classes, piano classes, dance classes and Olympic math classes.

Some children may have to enroll in five or six interest classes at a time. Every day after school, every weekend, children should give up for a long time, devote themselves to interest classes, and do homework assigned by the school when they get home.

After a period of time, although children may have many specialties, their energy will drop a lot.

This also directly leads to children's inability to continue their studies because of lack of energy, because after the brain continues to operate, it needs a certain rest time.

Then the child will have a rest between homework, or because the brain can't get a rest, it can't make the mind active.

Knowledge points are not well understood. Some children may not understand the teacher's explanation in class and are embarrassed to ask after class.

So when I go home to do my homework, I still can't understand similar topics and contents, and I can't make a correct answer.

Because you don't understand the knowledge points, the speed of doing the questions will be much slower, and you can't make full use of the time for doing the questions.

Avoid distractions

Children's concentration time is usually very short, and teachers always teach new knowledge for 45 minutes in each class, which also makes it impossible for distracted children to understand the knowledge points in time.

When the later content becomes more and more difficult, the natural efficiency decreases because the foundation in the early stage is not well laid.

Parents can focus on improving their children's attention and let them learn to focus on one thing. Slowly, children can take the initiative to concentrate.

Reduce children's extracurricular arrangements

Many parents have arranged many extracurricular activities for their children in order to enrich their lives, and there is a clear list almost every day, but in fact, too many extracurricular arrangements are not good for their children's growth.

Parents can ask their children to sign up for more interest classes when they are looking for interest for the first time.

After children find their real interests, they can let them choose one or two of them to stick to it.

This will not delay children's too much energy and time, but also allow children to have free time to complete the homework assigned by the school.

Make a good time plan.

Children may be anxious because they have not made good arrangements in their daily study and life. Parents can make a timetable with their children, put the necessary things first, then put the optional things behind, or cancel them directly.

However, the schedule of work and rest must be set by the children themselves, and parents should make suggestions and supervise the implementation.

If parents make plans for their children in advance, they will give them a feeling of being abandoned. Only when the executors are involved can the plan be carried out better.

Nowadays, the social competition is becoming more and more fierce, and the pressure on children is also increasing. Parents are constantly anxious about their children's bright future, but they can't "fuel the fire" on their children's pressure. Otherwise, they may have physical and psychological problems because of some meaningless studies, and finally regret it.