Can the happiness after marriage be supported by temporary affection?

In the vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet the right person, especially to be nice to you all the time. Many women are blind in front of love. A moment of goodwill is enough for them to pay everything, regardless of gains and losses. Only in the end did they realize that what they really cared about was inhuman, and all their efforts were a joke.

Lulu and Pan Wei fall in love freely. They met at a party. At that time, Pan Wei took the initiative to strike up a conversation with Lulu, and both of them felt a brief encounter. Pan Wei, in particular, has a glib tongue and often makes Lulu laugh. After the party, the two left contact information with each other.

Since then, Pan Wei has been caring and attentive to Lulu every day. Lulu is in trouble, and he will actively help. When he is in a bad mood, he will take the initiative to comfort him. Companionship may be the longest confession. Over time, Lulu has become accustomed to life in Pan Wei. On the day of 520, Pan Wei prepared roses and presents to express her love to Lulu, and they came together smoothly.

After contact, Lulu also enjoyed the sweetness of love, and the two rarely quarreled. With the stability of their work and the urging of their families, Lulu and Pan Wei naturally entered the marriage hall, but the good times didn't last long, and the married life didn't seem as good as expected.

Love is sweet, but marriage is daily necessities, and the feelings return to dullness, so the contradiction between the two people begins to appear. Pan Wei, in particular, is not as enthusiastic after marriage as when she was in love, and there is always a trace of male chauvinism in her bones. For example, when he comes home, he won't take the initiative to help. Lulu asked him to clean the house several times, but Pan Wei either pretended not to hear or made a mess.

So the feelings of the two people began to have a gap. Lulu has to go to work during the day, and she has to clean up after she gets home. On the other hand, my husband came home, leaned back on the sofa like an uncle, and then just wanted to play with his mobile phone. What chilled Lulu most was that he met his neighbor when he was eating out.

That day was 520. To commemorate the success of the confession, the two decided to go out for a big meal. At first, the atmosphere was harmonious. After dinner, they also watched a movie and went shopping. Lulu hasn't lived like this for a long time, and seems to be in love again, but on the way home that night, they met their neighbors.

At that time, the neighbor asked: What year is your anniversary today?

Pan Wei said without hesitation: This year is the fifth year.

LULU corrected with a smile: It's better to be the fourth.

But after returning home, Pan Wei never spoke again, and his face was ugly. Then he began to quarrel with all kinds of trivial things. Lulu couldn't understand why her husband suddenly changed. Until the end, Xu Cai learned from him the reason why he was angry, because he had just corrected his words outside, which made him feel that he had lost face and lost his temper with himself as soon as he got home.

Pan Wei and Lulu also had a cold war for several days. Coupled with his indifferent attitude and perfunctory tone, he always seems indifferent to this relationship, which makes Lulu lose confidence in this relationship. Husband's male chauvinism, good face and casual temper, blx, no matter which one, make Lulu feel helpless and wronged, and let her see her future marriage, which may be spent in various trivial quarrels.

Some people's love will deteriorate with time. Just because it's been a while doesn't mean it's going to be like this. Pan Wei's love is flawed. As long as it involves his own face, he can't treat Xu Lu wholeheartedly, which leads to his marriage life stumbling.

True and beautiful love is that two people can understand and tolerate each other, find a balance point in contradictions, change themselves, and compromise for the sake of their lover, rather than fighting for victory or defeat. There is no right or wrong feeling, and if a man is too stubborn, he will lose it when he makes a woman shed tears of injustice.