Why do some women tolerate domestic violence?

There are six main reasons:

First, calling the police is ineffective and is often regarded as a family matter and not filed. In fact, when most women face domestic violence, they often think of calling the police. However, when women call the police in the name of domestic violence, the police often use family matters as an excuse. Since ancient times, "an honest official cannot handle family matters" has become a It violates Chinese tradition, and it is indeed difficult for the police to deal with it, because China has not yet had an "Anti-Domestic Violence Law", and the police are indeed unable to prevent domestic violence in accordance with the law. Therefore, in the face of domestic violence, the only way to deal with it is by the Women's Federation. intervened, but the deterrence was not enough. It is precisely because of this that the perpetrators of domestic violence are allowed to be rampant. Domestic violence often only attracts the attention of all parties after serious injuries occur. However, it is too late at this time, because at this time, it is often either death or injury. From Shanghai Judging from this domestic violence case in which the husband cut off his wife's hand, this is exactly what is proved.

Second, the idea that men are superior to women still exists in many families. Don't say that now is an era of equality between men and women. In fact, in many places and in many families, the concept of men being superior to women still exists. Men are still the dominant ones in many places or families. Many women also think that it is normal for men to hit them. It is precisely because of the remnants of feudal ideology that it seems that men's violence against women has become a matter of course. As long as it is not injured, disabled or fatal, women will often choose to endure it.

The third is the fear of losing face. Many women are extremely vain and deliberately create the illusion of love between husband and wife. After suffering domestic violence from their husbands, they are afraid of being laughed at by others and the family scandal cannot be made public, so they deliberately cover it up. In particular, some women also take into account their husband's external reputation, including his career. future. It is precisely because some women have this mentality that leads to the continuation of domestic violence.

Fourth, rely entirely on your husband. Now, although both men and women have fair employment opportunities, in reality, there are still many women who do not have jobs, do not have their own careers, and rely entirely on men for their lives. Therefore, in the family, these women can only live their lives depending on the men's faces. , if you encounter a man who treats your wife as a scum and does not treat your wife as a human being, in such a family, a woman with no financial resources is very likely to be the target of domestic violence. Moreover, such women often dare not speak out for fear that men will divorce her and lose their source of income. Therefore, economic inequality is an important cause of domestic violence.

Fifth, they are intimidated by men and dare not speak out. Since the current law cannot control domestic violence, some women are often threatened by men after suffering domestic violence. If they speak out, they may face more severe domestic violence. Therefore, some women are afraid of being beaten and are afraid that men will Beat her to death. Therefore, in the face of threats, women who suffer domestic violence can only endure it without speaking out.

Sixth, some women have made mistakes that men think cannot be forgiven. Today's society is a sexually open society, and more and more women are prone to making mistakes in this regard. This is also the most unforgivable thing for men. Therefore, although many men can forgive themselves for cheating, once a man finds out that his wife has cheated, he will often beat his wife to teach her a lesson. Since I made the mistake first, I often have no choice but to tolerate my husband's domestic violence.

In fact, in my opinion, a man hitting his own woman is the most incompetent behavior