Now boys say that buying a house for girls is drawing cakes. What about before?

Now boys say that buying a house for girls is drawing cakes. What about before? Before drawing a pie for a girl, the boy planned their future and made some invisible promises. The most common thing is to buy you a big house when I have money. When I get married, I will take care of the housework, and I will definitely let the girl draw a beautiful day. Many girls just think that this boy loves me so much, and then they are full of infinite trust in him. People and feelings are his.