Reverse parenting standard speech, reading this article is enough.

After reading a lot of "reverse parenting" introductions, it's still awkward. That's because you missed a core skill.

Most "reverse parenting" takes advantage of the child's rebellious psychology, saying that you don't want him to do what you want him to do. The logic is definitely right, but for a two-year-old child, you say the opposite, he may have been confused at that time, didn't understand your intention, couldn't get hooked, and caused the action to fail. At this time, you need a god to assist you.

Scene 1: Take Fried Fried (my son) downstairs to play, and he is too lazy to move.

Grandma: Fried, let's get dressed and go downstairs to play.

Fried: Go or not, play at home.

I: Great, son, don't go downstairs, just stay at home with your mother.

Often at this time, the child doesn't go into the reverse. We need God's help to come out.

Grandma: That's no good. We have to play with children when we fry. Tell your mother quickly that we still have to exercise.

Fried: I still have to exercise.

Grandma: I have to exercise to grow up.

Fried: I have to grow up.

At this time, let grandma guide the children to say "reverse" conversations.

Me: No, please, don't get dressed. Stay at home and play with your mother.

Grandma: We'll just wear it and go out.

I'll wear it and go out.

A few more words of strengthening guidance will basically succeed.

Grandma's guidance at the beginning is very important, so we must let the children speak out with it, which is driven by the emotional atmosphere.

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