People can only see the faces of so-called relatives and friends when they are in the trough!

In this real society dominated by money and reputation, even relatives and friends will take your shortcomings as jokes.

When your development is smooth and your fortune is good, your relatives and friends around you must be full of enthusiasm. They go around you every day, compliment you and please you.

However, when you are unlucky, fail to start a business, or encounter any natural or man-made disasters, most relatives and friends will alienate or abandon you.

As the saying goes, "the rich are distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are not in the downtown area." That's probably what it means.

No matter who you are, you are born with vanity, comparison and greed.

Everyone wants to have a few rich and powerful people around him, maybe they can get some light and make a small windfall, or they can help in case they are down and out. At worst, they also have the capital to show off when chatting.

However, if you don't have what they think you can dig, you will be considered useless, unprofitable, left out in the cold, and even ridiculed and looked down upon by all kinds of people.

There are countless such examples in life, and most of them have no good results.

Don't complain about human feelings and the cruelty of society. It is human instinct to drive away blessings and avoid disasters.

So, when you are at the bottom of your life, don't try to rely on anyone to help you. Even those who promise to help you will provide very limited strength, far below your expectations, which will make people feel disappointed and even destroy their original feelings.

Don't ask for help unless you have to, because human nature can't stand the test and temptation. There are two things in the world that you shouldn't look directly at, one is the sun and the other is the human heart. The former hurts the eyes, the latter is sad.

At any time, those relatives and friends who usually seem to have a good relationship are unreliable. Only believe in yourself, you are the most reliable, and the life you strive for is the most practical, stable and farthest.