What should I do if everyone in the community scolds me for 19 years!

those people are all scolding you, fool! Those psychiatrists and people who comfort you are bullshit. Do you believe them or believe yourself? Don't you know what you have suffered? Do you believe these people and tolerate those bastards insulting you and trampling on your dignity at will? I want to say "Fuck them all!"

Those doctors are just jokes. They only think about how to make you continue to accept your present situation with peace of mind, and then they count the money and experience the sense of accomplishment of curing you. What kind of suffering and humiliation you suffer has nothing to do with them. This is society, and this is human nature. No one will care what happens to those who are hurt, and only more and more people will hurt you, because they are happy to see that they enjoy the pleasure of bullying in their hearts. These people often have no moral bottom line. If you are kind to these wicked people, you are ruining yourself. There is no lower limit of kindness, which is weakness!

in fact, you should learn to stop loss from the beginning. What is stop loss? When others slander you and bully you, you must learn to fight back immediately, otherwise the snowball will get bigger and bigger, and people will follow suit, and everyone will bully you in the end. Only when you fight back, others will not think you are easy to bully and will treat you as a person! You don't have to do anything illegal or criminal to fight back, but you must show your momentum. For example, if someone scolds you face to face, you can say "get out" loudly, and those little B-boys will dare to scold you next time. If he scolds you, you can scold him, and show your momentum to see who has scolded you. It's really impossible to fight. Men really can't be too weak, especially in some aspects, they should have their own bottom line.

People must go through some hardships in their lives, but you should also grow up after experiencing hardships. Try to be brave once, release yourself, burn yourself, and make your weak inner enthusiasm stronger once.