I don't know how to communicate with my daily friends in the workplace. I am always honest, but I find others understand what I say frankly.

The ancients said "keep your mouth shut", that is to say, don't forget the past all at once. If your mouth is happy, it will be troublesome to get along with people at work, which will make you walk hard everywhere.

First, not everyone deserves your trust. You can be friends and get along honestly.

The so-called heart and lung is nothing more than exposing all the unpleasant thoughts in your heart, which naturally includes some condescending words to others. It's easy to associate with colleagues. You can scold others behind their backs, but don't you know you will scold me?

Since you like swearing behind your back so much, well, let others know your character. Then I turned around and ran like a big news report to tell the client what I got out of you. I also said that I would kindly remind them to be alert to you, not to be intimate, and to keep a distance from you.

As a result, before you know what's going on, you add an antithesis to yourself, which is the effect of telling others regardless of everything. This effect is really very flattering, because it will make your circle of friends smaller and smaller.

Second, according to your own observation, please ask a stable elder to help you avoid this situation.

When you get along with your colleagues, you don't have to blend in with everyone in your spare time and force yourself into other people's circles. As the saying goes, "Birds of a feather flock together." If you are not in the circle, if you can't provide the value that the other person needs, you will be hard to be trusted.

Don't think that you can gain others' trust by arranging others' mistakes behind their backs. All wet. No one wants to deal with a gossip. Because others can be arranged, it is easy to arrange it when others are present. It's best not to give you more opportunities to get to know them.

In order not to let yourself continue to be embarrassed, consider asking your predecessors. After all, everyone is together, at least the seniors know how to avoid embarrassment.

The seniors have been together for many years, knowing everyone's personality and temper, and knowing more about everyone's work strength. Asking for advice from your predecessors with an open mind can help you avoid improper practices in interpersonal communication to the greatest extent, especially when you will know how to talk to colleagues in the future.

Otherwise, if this is still the case at present, with a high probability, you still don't know what you should do in the end, so asking your predecessors for advice will make you suddenly enlightened and no longer entangled.

One more thing, friends should get along well. It is enough to have a bosom friend in life.