How to treat those who say that they are not enterprising, but that they are overreaching?

You don't care what others think or live for others. Your own life, whether mediocre or enterprising, is your own. You just have to live happily and care about others.

I remember that when my mother likes to toss, she always likes to listen to lectures on selling insurance or selling. The people above especially like to belittle people and raise their own worth, as if ordinary people can't live. Only those who can promote sales can eventually become successful people. But I think they are also a joke. If they are so rich, why don't they give a speech and stay at home and count money every day?

I'm just expressing my opinion. I used to think that people must be enterprising, because after school or work, everyone instilled in me the idea that in modern society, people must be enterprising. But strangely, let's look at one of my brothers. He is really courageous. He works overtime every day, weekends and holidays, and even doesn't go home during the New Year. We won't say that he is overreaching, just think that he is.

So I asked my brother once, and he said he thought it was good for him to live like this, because he really loved his job. At that time, I felt that I was wrong, and later I didn't evaluate others' lives too much. I guess in my brother's view, my life is no different from eating and waiting to die. This is the difference between values and life. There is really no right or wrong.

So really don't care what others say about you. How do you think you want to live comfortably, happily and without regrets? Then live. This is your own life, of course, you have to make your own decisions.