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How many women are experiencing the life of widowed marriage and widowed parenting?

There is a joke.

The man proudly said that his wife was good at making money, taking care of the family, and could do anything.

A man next to me said: People like your wife are called widows in our place.

Widowhood marriage refers to the absence of the husband’s role in family life.

Widowed parenting refers to the absence of the father’s role in the parenting process.

Chinese women are the hardest working women in the world, bar none.

In the workplace, you have to compete with men and take care of your family and children.

After get off work, men go away in groups, or hold mobile phones and computers, leaving children and housework to women.

1. Widowhood marriage

Many couples do not chat for more than one hour a day. The specific manifestation is that before going to bed, the two of them must "check" their phones, Weibo, WeChat, etc., and fall asleep when they are tired of watching each other. This situation turns the couple into "the most familiar strangers." The lack of communication makes the two people feel farther and farther apart. Many women ask: Why didn’t the man marry the game in the first place?

Men believe that it is natural for women to do housework. Since ancient times, it has been "men take charge of the outside world and women take charge of the housework." The husband does not take the initiative to help with housework when he returns home. He thinks that small tasks such as housework can be left to women.

Women think that I also earn money to support the family, and I have to do all the housework when I get home. Housework is tedious and time-consuming. Why can women do it, and why can't men do it?

Second, widowed parenting

When many Chinese men become fathers, they provide a sperm and dump the child to their wife or mother.

They do not actively participate in the upbringing and education of their children. They believe that raising children is a woman’s business, and they are happy to be the boss.

They also do not actively learn parenting knowledge. Over time, mothers do not feel comfortable leaving their children to fathers.

"It is said that a father's love is like a mountain. He is really like a mountain, standing there motionless."

In fact, this has great disadvantages.

Some people say that with father’s involvement, boys can become better men and girls can become better women.

This world is always a little cruel to women. , while requiring them to become economically independent women of the new era, at the same time hoping that they can make enough sacrifices and concessions for their families. Today's society requires women to bear much more responsibilities in the family than men, and this is not the most chilling thing.

The most chilling thing is that everyone takes it for granted.

So, star He Jie chose to divorce. Rather than living a widowed marriage and raising a widowed child, it is better to get divorced and avoid having to take care of a "giant baby".

This issue is also worthy of our reflection.

First, men should be more considerate of their wives, take the initiative to take on housework, and take care of the children.

Second, women should let men take part in family childcare.

Only by understanding and trusting each other can we live a prosperous life.