Why do people only understand when they grow up that it is best not to cause trouble to others?

Because when we grow up, we understand that we are not the center of the world, and not everyone will revolve around us.

Everyone will grow up slowly over time, but you may only truly grow up when you realize the truth of trying not to cause trouble to others. It's just that this growth may be accompanied by a lot of bitterness, or it may be accompanied by a lot of disappointment. Everyone has imagined that he is the protagonist of life, but reality always slaps him in the face.

I grew up under the care of my parents. At that time, I would go to my parents for any problems at home, and I would go to my teachers for any problems at school. We are carefree and happy, because in our young minds, we are the protagonists of life, and there are people to help us solve all problems.

But when entering society, all this will be broken by reality. No one will help you clean up your mess at work, and no one will help you take care of things in life. You can only be responsible for everything you do, and when you are unable to take responsibility, you can only be eliminated from life.

When we encounter obstacles everywhere in life, we finally discover that we are just the protagonists in our own fantasies, and life never depends on our will. When we know that we are not the center of the world, we will understand the principle of trying not to cause trouble to others.

When I first entered the society, the campus mentality had not really changed. At that time, I always felt that asking classmates for help was a normal thing. When work is not going well, you go to your classmates to complain, when you have no money to eat, you go to friends for help, when you are broken up, you go to friends for comfort, when you have nothing to do, you go to friends to treat you to drinks.

But everyone is getting busier and busier at work, and life is getting more and more tiring. When I complained to my classmates again, he was no longer willing to listen to me; when I asked friends to have dinner with me, I was always shied away by various reasons; when I wanted to have a drink with friends, he always said that he had made arrangements. .

Every time you are rejected, it is actually a time of growth. It's just that this kind of growth is often accompanied by bitterness, and this bitterness can only be digested in the stomach.

Everyone actually understands the principle of not causing trouble to others only after being rejected. When we understand this truth, we will put more thought into our lives.

Everyone is the protagonist of their own life, but don’t use your protagonist thinking to interfere in other people’s lives.