The name is the same as the previous generation.

The name is the same as the previous generation.

The name is the same as the previous generation. We all know that China is a big country with a very large population, which leads to the phenomenon of overlapping names. Therefore, naming a name requires some skill and attention, and it can't be casual. The following share names are the same as the previous generation.

The name is the same as the previous generation. 1 (1) Modern names are particular, and the younger generation cannot be the same as the elders.

Recently, I saw a man on the Internet asking a question:

A relative of the younger generation gave birth to a child whose name collided with mine. Anyway, I just won't change it. What should I do?

A seemingly simple question has aroused the discussion of many netizens!

In response to this problem, netizens launched a heated discussion. Some people think this is irrelevant! Nowadays, people don't care so much about names, as long as they have a name that sounds good to them. The name is just a code name, but there is no need to be so particular!

Some people think that you must avoid having the same name as your elders when naming a name, which will not only make a lot of jokes, but also be really embarrassing sometimes!

For example, if you give your child the same name as your parents or grandparents, do you think your parents or grandparents will kill you? Or just give the child the same name as you?

(2) the embarrassment caused by the conflict between the younger generation and the elders!

A netizen said that my neighbor's child was named Yu Ting, but as a result, Yu Ting's grandmother (that is, the grandmother of this child's parents) was named Mei Ting. I didn't know how I ended up like my grandmother. Therefore, they get together for dinner every New Year's Eve. Parents often call her children "Tingting, Tingting", and sometimes they always feel that they are calling her grandma!

Now everyone's cultural level is constantly improving, and it is difficult to think of a name. They are also very particular about names, and they can't have the same words as their elders, so some people say: names are really difficult to remember!

Even some people take out their genealogy after giving birth to their children, for fear that words will collide with their elders. Some people even plan names for their future babies years before they get married or even date. How important is a good name now? Today's name is by no means comparable to that of two dog and Sanyan. If you want to name a child, you have to read all kinds of historical records, or you have to pay someone to name it. It seems that you are embarrassed to give your child a domineering name!

It used to be a "rule" to choose names according to seniority in rural areas, but now it has been "abandoned" Nowadays, most rural areas are no longer named by generations, as long as they can have a nice name!

If it is easier to name according to the previous generation, one word has been decided, and another word will do. However, now there are not only three words behind foreigners, but even four or five words!

(3) The scientific truth that the names of the younger generation and the older generation cannot overlap.

1, which will cause embarrassment and ambiguity of duplicate names;

Since ancient times, what we Chinese people pay most attention to is the difference between the old and the young. If the names of elders and juniors overlap, it is easy to have ambiguity.

If in the same scene, the elder and the younger generation have the same name, it will be embarrassing for the younger generation to be called, and it will also make people feel that they have lost respect between the elder and the younger generation. So the names cannot overlap.

2, will cause confusion of elders and younger generations:

There are still many places where the concept of ancestral hall exists, that is to say, the appellation of elders and juniors will be determined according to their seniority. If the names of elders and juniors overlap, wouldn't it be a generational confusion? In other words, isn't that commensurate with elders, sisters and brothers? Social order and emphasis on moral virtues will not appear.

3, will cause gossip:

At present, most families still can't accept the same name for the younger generation and the older generation. Once an open family doesn't pay attention to these things, it will cause gossip from people around it and do great harm to children, so it's better to minimize duplicate names.

(4) What should I pay attention to when naming my child?

1, pay attention to uncommon words:

In order to reflect the uniqueness and high cultural level of children, many parents will use uncommon words to name their children, which is difficult for most people to recognize, and it is easy to cause unnecessary trouble to their future interpersonal communication.

2, dissonance:

Due to the development of the Internet, many new words appear, which will produce some embarrassing homophonic words. Sometimes parents want to give their children a poetic name out of kindness, but they don't take this into account, so that children will easily be laughed at by their peers and hate their names in the future.

3. Don't casually:

Some parents think that the name is not important, just a symbol. Pick a word and choose a name. It's easy to have the same name as other children. Such a name is neither pleasant to hear nor meaningful, and it is easier for children to feel extremely embarrassed because of the same name, so parents and friends must pay attention!

4, combined with numerology

Nowadays, with the improvement of education level, many parents have realized the importance of Yijing culture and Yin-Yang numerology, so many friends will read the Yijing and the numerology when naming their children, and it is of course good to combine them to give their children the best name and accompany them all their lives. This is because traditional culture can be revived.

Which elders have the same names as their predecessors?

The ancients paid special attention to taboo, especially when naming names. The appellation of Jun, Zun and Chang should be avoided. Since ancient times, there are many similar legends and examples. For example, Guanyin is called Guanyin to avoid Li Shimin's taboo. The famous Li Shiji (Xu Maogong) was also renamed Li Ji.

There is also the Historical Records written by Sima Qian, with more than 520,000 words, but I can't find a word "Tan". Sima Qian did not write the word "Tan" in Historical Records because his father's name was Sima Tan, and Sima Qian avoided his father's name, so when writing Historical Records, he would use other words instead.

In The Journey to the West, the moon goddess molested by Pig Bajie was called Chang 'e, and later she was called Chang 'e to avoid the taboo of China Emperor Liu Huan.

Therefore, it is taboo to name the elders here, that is to say, it is the same as or homophonic with the names of the elders, especially the names of the Han nationality. The name of the younger generation must not be the same as the name of the older generation, or have homophones or homophones. Otherwise, thinking that you don't respect your elders is an act of "deceiving your superiors and deceiving your subordinates". There are two main reasons for naming elders.

One is that the Han people traditionally talk about seniority. When the younger generation addresses their elders, they usually address them by seniority rather than by name, such as grandpa, grandma, grandma, grandpa, dad, mom and so on. This kind of address can express intergenerational relations and also contains the meaning of respect.

This is true not only between elders in the family, but also between elders and apprentices. If you take the names of your elders and ancestors as your own names, it will not only disturb the generations, but also be considered as disrespect for your elders and ancestors.

Second, due to the particularity of Han people's names. China people inherit their stepfather's surname first, and then give individuals a name, while some ethnic minorities or foreigners have their own names, father's names or mother's and father's names. For example, the French name is usually three paragraphs, namely, the real name, the mother's surname and the father's surname.

If China people's names inherit their fathers' surnames and add the names of their ancestors, there is no difference between them. If Li Si's grandfather is also called Li Si, there is no way to distinguish the two names, which is also a disrespect for the elders.

Under the traditional feudal system, people should not only respect their ancestors, but also be regarded as supreme, that is, respect the monarch. Even calling the monarch by his first name is a big violation. During the reign of Yongzheng and Qianlong in the Qing Dynasty, people could be sentenced to death for this alone, and nine families were affected. So this taboo is called "national taboo".

But as far as modern people are concerned, only the names are concerned, and generally the names of great men and celebrities are not used. However, because some people revere great men or celebrities, they deliberately take his name. For example, Li Dalin and Zhang Dayi were named after Li Dazhao and Stalin. Of course, people surnamed Zhao and Guan should not be named as "Zilong" or "Yunchang", otherwise they will be indistinguishable from today.

It's not good for anyone to have a homonym name with their elders.

I am cautious about naming my children. Names are written symbols representing individuals, and some families have formal genealogy and generations, which has formed a very formal tradition. It is taboo for China people to have the same name as their elders, which will ruin the life of the younger generation.

There is also a saying that if the children at home are the same as their elders, the family will be unlucky, even unlucky. In fact, this has evolved into a custom of seeking good fortune and avoiding evil.

The name is the same as the previous generation. The first taboo of three people's names is to use gender regardless of words.

The so-called gender neutrality means that girls' names are masculine, while boys' names are feminine, which is often confusing from the perspective of names. Obviously, for boys' names, it is necessary to highlight the characteristics of strong personality and rough temperament, while for girls' names, it is necessary to highlight the characteristics of gentleness, liveliness and loveliness, but this does not mean that girls can't be strong, or boys can't be gentle, just for the common aesthetics of the people.

Secondly, the main purpose of names is to facilitate interpersonal communication, so some nondescript, male or female names often have a negative impact on interpersonal communication, which is very undesirable. Parents pursue individuality and uniqueness in naming, but this idea should be moderate, and gender differences should not be completely ignored, leading to the situation of "no men and no women", which is harmful and should be avoided.

The second taboo of personal names: use uncommon and complicated words.

In order to pursue the same name, many parents often choose some uncommon or complicated words, which are unique in the country. But like this, it is not only easy to be mispronounced and misspelled in the future, but also often bland, unhelpful and sometimes even distorted. Therefore, parents must avoid uncommon words and traditional Chinese characters when naming names, so as to avoid unnecessary troubles in daily life and some occasions, such as handling ID cards, passports, bank accounts, etc.

The third taboo of personal names: use polyphonic words.

First of all, if you use polyphonic words, it is difficult for strangers to pronounce the name correctly for the first time. Sometimes the names are even ambiguous, causing others to misinterpret them, such as "sissy" and "long line", which belong to polyphonic words. Different pronunciations have different meanings. Secondly, we also need to avoid using homophonic words when naming names. People are often sensitive and suspicious of these words, and that's how nicknames sometimes come about.

The fourth taboo of personal names: using vulgar and low-level words

Names are like a person's clothes, representing everyone's image, while vulgar, vulgar and ugly words, like a dirty dress, not only exert a subtle influence on themselves, but also show great disrespect to outsiders. On the contrary, if parents choose a good name with connotation and elegance, it will greatly increase the impression points in daily life, increase the goodwill of others, and subtly affect the taste, elegant temperament and pure heart of the whole person.

The fifth taboo of personal names: using simple negative words

If the meaning of a name is simple and lacks certain artistic conception and connotation, it often gives people a boring feeling and lacks aesthetic feeling. For example, Zhang San, Fu Gui, Wang Gang, Guo Dong, Li Jian and other names are all unrefined names. They are naturally like a cup of boiled water, simple, straightforward, tasteless, unable to attract the attention of others, and unable to gain people's favor.

It can be seen that parents should not be greedy for convenience when choosing a name, just take a simple name. Secondly, parents should also pay attention not to use some negative and listless words when choosing names, which will cause unexpected mental harm and corrosion to future life and bring all kinds of negative energy to people around them.

The sixth taboo of names: using outdated words.

It is a common mistake for parents to fall into convention when naming names, which is often reflected in backward consciousness and outdated concepts. When naming names, they often focus on Fushou Ankang, Yaozu Guangzong, Three Cardinals and Five Certificates, such as Wang Xian, Li Guodong, Zhang Laifu and Ji Jinbao.

The seventh taboo of names: using bad words to get unlucky.

Whether it is fierce, evil, robbery and other vicious words, or despicable, cold, abandoned and other evil words, names with these words are often unlucky, often lifeless, depressing, depressing, and will bring unnecessary mental stress and even lead to some unnecessary disasters.

The eighth taboo of names: using outrageous words.

The ancients said that there is a limit to everything, which explains that enough is enough, and the name should not be too outrageous. There is no doubt that parents have expectations for their children's names, but it is not appropriate to exaggerate the words such as expressing ambitions, wishes and personality. It's called "bragging". For example, Wang Lihu, Wu, He Neng, and other names. On the contrary, we should not be too "modest", such as Wang Zhuo, Zhang You and Jiao Yulu. This is meaningless and ridiculous.

The ninth taboo of names: use the words great man and saint.

It is advisable to skillfully use the names of great men or ancient sages, but it is not advisable to copy their names everywhere or directly. After all, there is no need to directly misappropriate them to admire them and learn from them. Everyone has his own personality, mechanical application and no creativity. In addition, "one mountain can't accommodate two tigers", great men and sages have their achievements and unique abilities, which will suppress children's future development.

The tenth taboo of names: use the same words as your parents.

When naming names, parents should set aside the names of all elders in the family, so that they can avoid them perfectly when they plan to use words, which is also a kind of respect for elders.