There is a clear gap between "free-range" children and "captive" children in the future, and it is not too late to change.

Parents all know that it is good for their children to see the world more, but many parents still don't take action. There are many reasons, some say they are too busy to have time, others say they need to work harder because of insufficient material conditions. In this way, parents unconsciously put their children's development on hold, and the gap between children and their peers is widening, which in turn affects the formation of children's character.

Is it difficult for children to see the world more? In fact, it is not difficult at home. Parents can buy more books for their children, study with their children, and see the whole world without leaving home. Even if you don't have time, you can take your children around and go further if you have time.

Children live in a small circle. If parents don't take the initiative to create, then children will always be restricted by circles, and their horizons and patterns will be hindered. Therefore, in order for children to have a good future, parents need to do "stocking" instead of "raising".

A good environment is very important. The undergraduate rate of some key high schools is as high as 90%. People have laid a good foundation since childhood and have a strong learning atmosphere, which promotes the overall better development. Compared with those schools with average comprehensive level, the learning atmosphere and teachers are poor. Even if children want to study hard, they are still struggling to find the right methods and guidance.

Xiaoyu is a senior three this year. She grew up in a remote countryside, so she has been studying in the countryside. Xiaoyu's parents are both primary school graduates, and they are simple farmers who make a living by farming. Xiaoyu still has a younger brother at home, and life at home is hard, so Xiaoyu has been determined to study hard and change her life since she was a child.

Xiaoyu's academic performance is excellent, and she has always been one of the best in her class. She can always use other people's time to study and often stay up late in the dormitory with the lights on at night. However, after several mock exams, Xiaoyu's performance is still below the second line, and there are very few things that can be achieved in the whole school.

Children living in rural areas generally have a weak sense of learning, parents' awareness of supervision is not enough, and the overall learning atmosphere of the school is also very poor. In class, teachers can only try to take care of the overall level, and most of them repeat the basic knowledge. Because there are few students in class, it also directly affects the enthusiasm of teachers.

Although Xiaoyu worked hard, she didn't get into the ideal university in the end. Xiao Yu was envious when she heard that her children were sent to the city for training since childhood and achieved very good results in key high schools. At home, Xiaoyu covered her head with a quilt and cried in the room.

Xiaoyu knows that the family environment is not something she can change. The family can't provide her with better resources. She doesn't know the right way to succeed. After several years, she only knows how to study hard, but she is still far from her goal. Xiaoyu finally accepted the reality, but she made up her mind to create better conditions for her children in the future. Let children learn more, broaden their horizons and have the ability to develop in higher fields.

There is indeed a big gap between children who have seen the world often and children who have never seen the world. The real enrichment is actually to cultivate children's knowledge. A well-informed child has considerable advantages in knowledge and vision.

1, the horizon and pattern will be higher.

Children see a bigger world, so-called well-informed, they will have a broader vision, and their ideology will be more mature. For example, if children like animals, parents should read more books about animals to their children, take them to zoos all over the country to watch them, and actively expand their animal knowledge. Parents let their children know about animals in many ways. Children's understanding of animals is not limited to cats and dogs in front of them. As long as they mention animals, they will talk about them in Kan Kan like an encyclopedia.

2. Know more about your own needs.

Children who have seen the world usually have more experience, a clearer understanding of the world and a better understanding of their own hearts and needs. There are people outside, and there are mountains outside. They have all seen a better world, clearly know their development goals, can accurately recognize their own shortcomings, and are good at summing up experience, so as to better realize their life ideals.

3. Cherish a happy life

Children often mistakenly think that what others have is the best, and such children always ask for it endlessly. Seeing the world is not only a good state, but also a tempering of life. Children who have seen the world know that life is hard and hard-won happiness is simpler, and they know how to cherish and enjoy the happiness of the moment.

After realizing the importance of vision and pattern to children, many rural parents want to take their children to the city for training even if they work hard, and parents in the city will often travel around with their children.

Although these parents have different material levels, they all want to give their children more opportunities to see the world. Besides, there are many basic and simple ways for children to see the world.

1, guide children to read

There are many benefits of reading, so parents must cultivate their children's reading habits from an early age. Starting from picture books, parents can lead their children to read and listen to stories and understand the characters, background and significance in the stories. Gradually, children begin to read, and parents should also cultivate their children's habit of calming down and reading, and guide them to read more and increase their knowledge.

There are many unknown things in the book, and children can see the diversity of the world from the book. At the same time, there are many kinds of books, which can meet most of children's knowledge needs. So, even if you stay at home, you can still enjoy the world.

2. Take children to contact the world

In addition to reading more books, parents should also take their children to contact the world more. What you get on paper is so shallow that you never know what you have to do. For example, when children learn Li Bai's "To Wang Lun", parents can take their children to the Peach Blossom Pond in Xuancheng, Anhui Province, which is also the birthplace of rice paper, and they can also take their children to experience the charm of brush calligraphy.

3. Encourage children to communicate more.

In real life, most children from remote rural areas are afraid to communicate with children in the city, because children know that they have little knowledge and are worried that they will make jokes if they say something wrong. At this time, parents should encourage their children to communicate more and teach them to be polite and helpful. The most important thing in interpersonal relationship is spiritual communication. Therefore, it is also a very good way to encourage children to integrate into the group, communicate with others and share what they have seen and heard.

Even if children face people with different personalities, parents should set an example for their children in communication and communicate with others easily. Half of a child's personality comes from the influence of educators and half from the surrounding environment and many other influences. Parents are good at communication, and children can follow their parents and dare to talk to others, thus expanding their social circle.

How big the world parents show their children, how big their vision will be. Usually take your children out for a walk, get in touch with the outside world and see the world more. Don't always keep your children at home. In the long run, it will limit children's thinking and imagination, and the road to life will become narrower and narrower in the future.

The more children have seen the world, the richer their knowledge reserves, and the more they can determine what they want in their hearts, and they will continue to work hard and struggle towards this goal. What children need is "stocking", not "keeping". Only in this way can their future development benefit from it.