Is it hard for a child to have no mother?

A child without a mother will be very bitter, very bitter, and this kind of suffering may affect the child for life. Tell me a true experience of my classmate.

My classmate is a man, and he has a sister. When he was young, his father would beat his mother every time he was drunk. When he was in the third grade of primary school, his mother committed suicide by drinking pesticides after his father was drunk and beat her up. Since then, my classmate has become a child without a mother. He said that his pillow was wet every night after his mother died until the third grade of junior high school. Living in junior high school, I often cover my head with a quilt at night and secretly cry under the covers.

since his mother died, his father has given up drinking. When he was in junior high school, his father found a stepmother for them. This stepmother took a child and was also a boy. At first, his classmates and his sister rejected the boy, and they didn't talk to him or play with him. After being lectured by their father several times, they slowly talked to the boy. The boy is older than him. He calls him brother. Stepmothers in fairy tales are all very bad. Unfortunately, the stepmothers of classmates are not very good to him and his sister.

Stepmother often buys clothes and shoes for her own son, but never for her classmates and his sister. He never wore a new dress or a new pair of shoes in junior high school and senior high school. They were all worn by his uncle's brother, and they were worn out or worn out before giving them to him. Sometimes the stepmother's own son will give him clothes he doesn't wear, but he takes them to school and throws them directly into the trash can.

In high school, there was a girl in his class who was very kind to him, knew his family situation, took care of him at ordinary times and often comforted him. When he was in high school, he lived on campus, and his living expenses were only 15 yuan a month, which was not half as much as that of other students. He is not willing to eat or drink, and he is thin and small. Female students are day students and often bring him some meals and fruits from home. He was very grateful to the female classmate, and slowly they talked about love.

He didn't do very well in the college entrance examination, but his female classmates did fairly well. They chose the same city when they filled in their volunteers. At that time, that female classmate was all his spiritual support, the best person to him except his mother and sister. He loved her very much and was willing to give everything for her. He vowed that after graduating from college, he would work hard, marry his female classmates and let them live a good life. But just after she was a sophomore, her female classmate broke up with him. The lesbian said that she met a man she loved very much. This incident dealt a great blow to his classmates. He suddenly lost his direction in life, muddled through to graduate from college, and finally couldn't even find a decent job. But he has to support himself. In the end, he has no choice but to send people soy milk, and he can barely make ends meet every month.

His own sister was married at this time, but she had been married for several years and had no children. Her mother-in-law urged her husband to divorce her because she could not have children. But she found herself pregnant within a month of divorce, and her husband still had feelings for her. After hearing that she was pregnant, she quickly remarried her. However, not long after remarriage, my classmate's sister miscarried and was diagnosed with a very serious disease. Her husband then divorced her. The classmate's stepmother and parents ignored his sister, and finally the classmate chose to go back to his hometown to take care of his sister personally.

His sister died in less than two years. When she died, her classmates cried bitterly, and the only person who loved him left him. The classmate knelt on the ground and cried. Many people couldn't pull him up. His hair turned white overnight. I used to watch a lot of people on TV dramas with sad white hair all night, but I still don't believe that although my classmates didn't have all white hair, they really had a lot of white hair all night.

after my classmate's sister died, my classmate opened a restaurant in a small alley in the city with a loan. He liked cooking and watching others eat his cooking, and the business of the restaurant was booming. An old man who often goes to his shop for dinner introduced him to a girl. Although her family is not very good, she is very capable and kind. At that time, they had no house and no bride price, but the girl was still willing to marry him. Together, they managed the restaurant better and better. Soon after, the girl gave birth to a son for him. Their life is getting better and better, and they also plan to buy a house with a down payment in the city, but unfortunately it has come again.

The classmate's restaurant has two floors. The first floor is used for cooking and eating. They usually live on the second floor. Students get up at four or five o'clock every day to buy food. As usual, he gets up at four o'clock that day and goes to the wholesale market. It is still dark at four o'clock in the morning in winter. It was not six o'clock when he came back, and it was just a little dawn. Far away, he saw that the restaurant was bright and smoky. It turned out that the restaurant caught fire somehow, and the fire was very strong. It took firefighters a long time to put out the fire, and the classmates' wives and children were burned to death. It was quite a sensation on our side at that time. I never thought it would happen to someone I knew well.

Students seldom speak since then. The last time I went to see him, he reopened a restaurant and worked hard at cooking and cooking. When several of us were having dinner together, he just drank and didn't talk much. It made us feel bad to see him like this, but we didn't know what to say to comfort him. In the end, he said it himself, maybe he committed too many sins in his last life, and he came to the world to be punished in this life.

My classmate is really nice, always kind, but I just don't understand why I have experienced so many misfortunes. Someone asked the classmate's father? My classmate's father has been living with his classmate's stepmother in his hometown. He has been indifferent to his classmates for so many years and has never given any help financially. His classmate has long been chilled by his father, and he has a stepmother and a stepmother. This is true.

My classmate really lives too hard. I hope his future life will be safe and smooth.

yes, it's bitter, and it will change a person's fate.

primary school deskmate, male. I remember it was a day in the third grade. Someone came to the classroom to find a deskmate and said that something had happened to his mother. Naive, he didn't expect what would happen, so he wrote a leave note to the teacher before leaving. Later, our class teacher told us with red eyes that my deskmate's mother committed suicide by drinking pesticides. Later, I heard from villagers that it was because of the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

From then on, my deskmate became a child without a mother. His mother was married far away, so my grandmother's family couldn't take care of him. After a long time, I lost contact. My deskmate's father keeps bees and has a good family. We always thought that he was really raised in a honey pot because he often drinks all kinds of honey. But because of this business, his father is often away from home, so since his mother died, he and his younger brother have to live with his grandparents. He reluctantly moved out of his beautiful new house. Maybe he didn't expect it himself, and he could never live in it again.

At that time, after all, his grandmother was young and took good care of his life, so he still wore clean clothes every day. He just watched his studies slide, and the class teacher was anxious and distressed. Various ways to help him were not satisfactory.

One day in the fifth grade, he asked some of our close friends to stay after school and said they had something to tell us. Until today, more than 2 years later, I still remember his lonely face, saying that his father would marry him a stepmother.

The stepmother quickly entered the door, and she was not alone. She had a son and a daughter. They lived in his old home, and the children brought by his stepmother lived in his and his brother's room. Since then, there has been no room for the two brothers in that home. Unsurprisingly, the stepmother didn't treat them well. I don't know what his father thought, so she left her two sons alone to raise other people's two children.

Maybe he didn't realize the seriousness of the problem until then and began to study hard. Fortunately, he was gifted and intelligent, and he was admitted to our county key middle school in the second year, and his grades were free of tuition. I don't know if he could go to school if he paid the tuition. We were not in the same class in junior high school, and we didn't have much contact. I only know that he didn't go to school after three years.

Later, I went on to go to high school, go to college, work, get married and have children. I didn't go back to my hometown many times, but I heard from him intermittently. If there is a stepmother, there is a stepmother. His stepmother won't let the two brothers into their previous home, and sometimes even drive them out. The grandparents at the same table are getting old and looking for his stepmother's theory, and the stepmother actually started. The two brothers in adolescence were fed up, and together they beat up their stepmother. From then on, although the stepmother was shocked, her face was completely torn. The deskmate's father is often away from home, and everything at home is naturally run by the stepmother. After grandparents died one after another, the two brothers were left unattended.

Later, I heard that he became an older young man, had no formal job, and his family property was in the hands of his stepmother, making it difficult to get married. I finally married a woman in my village, but I had enough fun outside and found an honest man to marry. I was infertile and divorced. < P > I met him only once in the village for so many years, and the smile on my face can still remind people of that teenager, but it's a pity that I was lonely in my smile. I remember that at the beginning, he always had endless story meetings, comic books and magazines, and how much these extra-curricular books his mother bought for him made us envy. Presumably, his mother should also be a person who pays attention to education. If his mother were still here, his life would definitely not be like this ...

I am a mother. When I gave birth to my second child, I put my daughter at her grandmother's house for a few days. In October, it suddenly became cold. My classmate brought my daughter a sweater, but her grandmother didn't let me wear it. There was a light snow on the day I was discharged from the hospital, and my daughter hugged me and said, Mom, I am cold. I feel bad about me. I secretly swear that as long as I am alive, I won't leave my child. Later, her father cheated on me to find a mistress and didn't go home. When I got divorced, many people advised me to give him the child. I said forget it. If I have a stepmother, I will have a stepfather. I can grieve myself, but I can't grieve my child any more. If the child leaves his mother, who will feel bad about it?

It's worse for a child without a mother than in Huang Lian.

My aunt left early, leaving a 4-year-old son and a 3-year-old daughter. My uncle found another one a year later.

I don't know how bitter it is. I only know that my cousin is more sensible than her other cousins since childhood. When others are playing, only they always help grandma to do everything she can. Her grandmother loves them dearly and secretly puts lard into their bowls.

Grandparents help laborers earn money to support them and send them to school. Since childhood, they didn't spend his father a dime. Before, her father's brothers worked in Beijing, and my cousin and her cousin went to Beijing to find their fathers. After getting off the bus, her uncles quickly picked up their children, only she was left unattended. Later, every child had some money in his hand, and her father also gave her 1 yuan. The next day, the stepmother.

When getting married, her stepmother was not allowed to take out a dime. After giving birth, she treated her. Her stepmother received 1, gifts, but she cried for her poverty and brought thousands back. My cousin graduated from a famous university and has a technical job. Now he earns about 4, yuan a year, but he has never been married. He is introverted and has no intention of finding a wife at all. He is afraid.

since I was a child, I know how to hide my edge and swallow my pride. Because I don't have parents to care for me, even onlookers find it difficult. You can imagine how bitter she is. I suggest that women should take care of themselves.

A child without a mother will be really bitter and pitiful!

My brother's daughter, when the child was six months old, my brother's wife left on the pretext of poor family conditions. At that time, my brother was devastated, ignored the child and worked outside by himself.

The poor child was eating milk powder, and my mother bought the very cheap one. It was pitiful to see the child. My niece is only three months older than my son. At that time, I was also taking care of the children. Without the help of my mother-in-law, I took my mother and my niece to my house to take care of each other. From then on, I was responsible for eating and drinking Lazar.

I treat my children equally. Before I was two years old, she always bullied my son. We were very glad that she would not be as pitiful as other children without mothers.

It gradually changed after I was two years old. My son called my mother, and she also called her mother. Then the two children would fight and both cried with their thighs. Every time she cried, my mother cried with her, which was particularly sad and pitiful. My mother told her to call her aunt, and she would cry even harder, so she had no choice but to call her.

After kindergarten, her father will pay tuition fees, but he still cares less, or he may know more when he is older. My mother also taught her to call her aunt, and her personality gradually changed, becoming particularly difficult to communicate, stingy and selfish. As long as she likes something, she must get it, or she will roll around on the ground. Everyone thinks that she is not as pitiful as her mother and rarely hits her, but she has developed her bad habits.

every time we don't listen, we tell him that we want our mother, and we lie to him that her mother is working outside to earn money and will buy you new clothes for the New Year.

If you are older, you may really miss your mother, and always ask us, "Where is my mother? Will you please call her home?" My mother will cry as long as she says she wants her mother, and the old and the young will cry together, and her heart is like a needle.

I wonder why there is such a cruel woman in this world. The child she conceived in October said that she could abandon it. When she saw that lovely face, she really couldn't bear to hurt her. She always hoped to have a happy childhood like her peers.

I went to primary school last year, and I am more sensible. My mother also told her that my mother will not come back. She no longer said that she wanted her mother to go home, and my brother was out of the shadow of that year. Every week, I will send a video home to greet her. Every time I send a video, she will say to her father, "Dad, will you give me another mother?" We are all speechless.

Actually, my brother's family condition is not too bad, but he lives in the mountains, and it takes more than two hours by car from the city. The house is a two-story brick house. In recent years, my brother has also been sensible and pragmatic. He has set up a house not far from me in the city. It's not that he didn't look for it. The key point is that when others heard that there was a child, they didn't want to. The child's wish is simple: to have a mother, but it has never been realized.

Maybe it's the habit of living with me for so many years. Although she no longer calls me mom, she likes to stick to me just like my son. As long as she follows me everywhere at home, she doesn't even return when her father picks her up for the New Year. My mother and my brother have both gone home, and she stayed at my house for the New Year alone. She said that she likes living in my house and is very sensible in front of me. She may be afraid that I will dislike her, and she sleeps, washes her face, brushes her teeth and washes her feet, except for her personality.

Sometimes I feel particularly sad when I see her trying to be sensible. She is trying to please others when she can snuggle up in her parents' arms like others.

I grew up without love myself, and I can understand how pitiful children are without love. No matter how good others are to her, they can't replace maternal love! Children without mothers lack maternal love since childhood, but also face the coldness of others. How can they not suffer?

Fortunately, she has been living with me, including my husband who is very kind to her, and she is one more than others.