I feel like my life is ruined.

In fact, everyone's greatest enemy is other people's eyes and gossip. If you have the right attitude, defeating the enemy is naturally not a problem. If you care too much about other people's comments, a large part of you will become what they see.

Nine times out of ten, life is not satisfactory. Everyone is not as glamorous as you see. They are also under the pressure of others, but they are still struggling to move forward. Do you believe what others say?

So we should establish a correct attitude, and don't care that others look up to you and look down on you. Just do your own thing, that's good. After all, you are only the object of ridicule in their lives, and they don't care whether you are there or not, but your life is all about you, so you should also correct your attitude and be yourself in your own life. No matter what others say, it is someone else's business.

So, what kind of life you want is entirely up to you. Let other people's comments go