What should children do if they feel inferior and introverted?

The reason why children feel inferior and introverted usually lies in their lack of self-confidence. They always think that their abilities are inferior to others. They think other children are super powerful. They are like an ugly duckling, always making mistakes. They are scolded by their parents every day. In fact, the child is super sensitive inside. Mom and dad are the people they trust the most, but they often hurt them the most. Mom and dad always compare the shortcomings of their children with the advantages of their neighbor's little brother.

Once a child's awareness of himself is not high, he is likely to feel that he can't do anything well and will become less and less confident. Children without self-confidence will have less courage to break through themselves when encountering setbacks and difficulties.

So what should parents do to restore their children's self-confidence and prevent inferiority from knocking them down?

1, starting with the child's appearance. Change clothes, clothes should be generous and neat, sit upright, and walk with your head held high. It's time to cultivate children's idol baggage and not to be a dirty child. Encourage children to speak loudly and clearly. Dressing children as confident as possible is a shortcut to change their mentality and overcome their inferiority complex.

2. Don't ask children from the perspective of parents. More is empathy, giving them more free space. Know more about your child's ability and ask for it from his existing ability, instead of setting requirements for your child yourself. You can appropriately lower your child's requirements and ensure that your requirements are in line with your child's actual ability.

3. Actively hint and tell your child that "you can do it". Encourage children more, such as "you have completed the small task of eating independently." Dad believes that you can finish the small reading task before going to bed. Come on! " Such a positive self-suggestion method can make children continue to feel good when doing something, accumulate positive signals, and make children gradually become confident and capable, and can accomplish other things and drive away their inferiority.

Once children experience the happiness of success, they will be more willing to express themselves, be more open, believe that they can do better and be willing to help others. In this way, opening up your children can drive away the anxiety of failure, ignore other people's comments, and be more confident and outgoing.

5. Encourage children to treat criticism correctly. Although our parents will encourage and praise their children well at home, children will still face other people's comments when they go out. Not all the reviews are good. What should I do if my child is judged badly or even laughed at by others? Will it aggravate the child's sense of inferiority?

To know that a child can't always rely on other people's evaluation, he needs to face it bravely. So at this time, our parents may wish to point out the correctness of their children and then remind them not to care too much about other people's comments. Since others have pointed out their own shortcomings, admit their negligence, accept their unfriendly suggestions, and remember to solve the same situation next time.

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