A letter to an ex-boyfriend.

I have a lot to say to my ex-boyfriend, so I might as well write a letter to express it completely and give it to him. Below I have compiled a letter to my ex-boyfriend. Welcome to read it.

a letter to my ex-boyfriend

XXX:

I feel like I have a lot to say to you, and I wish you were drunk now. Although I don't want you to hurt yourself by drinking. . .

Many, many years ago, everything was calm, and high school students were afraid to let themselves have the slightest distractions when facing the turning point of life. After the college entrance examination, I began to send you emails and text messages, enjoying the joy and little ambiguity brought by the ringtones and words of text messages.

Later, everyone began to be busy with their new lives, contact with new environments, make new friends, and try the craziness and recklessness that they had never dared to try. We all have our own new circle of friends, without any overlapping social circles.

then, I don't know why we suddenly got in touch again, and I don't know why our relationship suddenly changed. It was January 1, 28. It was a good day. The sudden change caught me off guard, and I couldn't even change my role. I still remember it was very funny at that time. My roommate came back and said in surprise: Why did I go back for a New Year's Day? You all had a big situation! ! ? I also clearly remember that you learn a foreign language every day? I love you? Tell it to me. I still remember that when we met for the first time, we all brought books, and the self-study in the library became the content of the first date. Hehe, the two idiots went together. Are they worried about the exam or to cover up their inner panic?

on the night of the holiday, I stayed in Fang's dormitory and told our story to my old friend. She thought we were too close? A long stream of water? Like a calm. Her roommate interjected:? Gradually warming up, you can slowly enjoy your love. ? She was speechless and said:? You two have the same language, you two talk! ? Then he said:? But the temperature should not be too low, or a gust of wind will blow it out. ? I didn't expect to confirm this sentence the next day. It seems that my temperature is really not well controlled.

our relationship is so fragile. Sometimes I will complain that you let go easily and doubt your feelings for me. But then I realized that there is no love and hate for no reason in the world. What am I worthy of your unswerving devotion?

once the sea was difficult for water. I reflect and blame myself over and over again. Mine tried to save it, but you seem to be afraid of my entanglement. Of course, in fact, I won't do this, because life has to pay for its own mistakes.

I will still pay attention to you and watch every update in your space. I will look at the happiness and excitement that you feel brought by a girl. I don't know what your life was like in the two or three years since we contacted each other. I can only perceive your existence in this way, and I will only watch it quietly without any interruption.

In the rush graduation season, we didn't have time to say goodbye. There is no transition between the end and the beginning, but a cross. No one will mention the trip to Phoenix that was erased by busyness.

the day when I returned to Wuhan on business was also the day when you left Wuhan for your future. I'll never keep up with your rhythm. I always feel that this city has given me too much happiness, pain, coincidence and quirks. However, in any case, I feel that Wuhan is a poison that I can't quit, and I can't help loving him even if I have more resentment. As you said, because of the precipitation of their best years.

The short 15 days we spent together controlled my thoughts for the next 1 days and nights.

　? Ten years later, we are friends, and we can still greet each other. It's just that kind of tenderness, and we can't find any reason to hug. ? I have heard Ten Years for countless times, thought of you singing Ten Years for countless times, and felt heartache for the lyrics for countless times. We have never enjoyed the tenderness and sweetness that lovers should have, leaving only the purest friendship. I don't know what I want more. All I know is that I never bet too much. Capital preservation is my bottom line. There are always so many choices and regrets in life. . .

you, journey to the south, and I won't wait for you in the same place. After graduation, career and family, the two most important things in a woman's life are in front of her. I don't have the capital to waste time, because I don't allow myself to make any mistakes.

maybe I will have a new boyfriend soon. I will manage my life seriously. And you will be sealed in an important position in my heart, and no one will open it except me. Let the past of youth sleep in memories. .

XXX

XXXX.X.X

A letter to my ex-boyfriend II

XXX:

I went back to the school graduation ceremony for the last time yesterday. After the graduation ceremony, I saw him and her now, and looked at their backs. Although I was a little sad, I didn't hate them. Then I looked at his back, and he lost weight.

However, I will never look for him again. Let's end this way, continue to be strangers like this, and have nothing to do with each other in our lives.

I will keep this memory in my heart and wish you all the best.

XXX

XXXX.X.X

A letter to an ex-boyfriend. 3

Xiaoyu:

At the moment, I am in a tangled mood. When I write this letter to you, I don't know if I have the courage to show it to you at last. What lingers in the earphone is the song Tick-Tick, which I always think belongs to us. If you are reading this letter, I hope you can also open this song to pay homage to our past.

for a while, we contacted each other every day, and you also told me your inner thoughts. At that time, you said? Why are you so miserable? , let me completely open my heart. This is one of the words you said to me that I will never forget, so I selfishly decided to share my hard work with you in half. But disembarking, I have worked harder than before, because at the moment, I am carrying the weight of two people. On that day, we went to Houhai together. It was really a happy night, because you said? There are two happy things in life, one is fishing by the river, and the other is being with me. ? At that moment, my heart was filled with a little thing called happiness. But unfortunately, the happiness I gave you is so short-lived. I think these two words will be buried in my heart forever and I don't want to forget them. But you will fade away in my memory until you disappear.

Xiao Yu, I don't know your past. I always feel that you have a story that you never told me, and there is also a door that has never been opened to me. Well, no matter how bad your memories are, I want to tell you that each of us is a passenger of life, and we are on our way while we are alive. I hope you can walk happily. Several times, you told me sadly that without a job, you have nothing; You can't buy a square meter house for a day's money. These words may be that the pressure makes you breathless and spit them out casually, but they make me full of love for you. I admit, in my heart, I look forward to a better life, my heart is high, my heart is wild, and I am vain. But many times, those expectations do not stem from vanity, but from an attitude towards life. So in the relationship between two people, money, it will never get the upper hand. You are really young. You are the youngest, but most mature and enterprising boy I have ever seen. This is also the reason why I once liked you. No matter what difficulties you encounter in life or at work at the moment, they are temporary, because you work hard and you are sincere, and you will be favored by fate.

I'm a really insecure person, and so are you, so no matter how close we are, the emptiness inside can't fill our loneliness. I am ambivalent. I regret my decision to associate with you at the beginning, because you don't want to be friends with me after we separated. I am also glad that during this time with you, those beautiful and unpleasant bits and pieces have merged into gorgeous notes and embellished me.

I know your inner fragility. Every time you mention your education, I don't know what to say, for fear that unintentional words will hurt your strong self-esteem, so I choose silence. But you know, there are too many people who have read the books of sages, but they don't understand. There are countless people with IQ and no EQ. Those people, in my opinion, are even more pathetic. In the days when I liked you, I didn't care about those accessories. What does a person's success have to do with years of schooling? Whether a person is happy or not has anything to do with what kind of university he has attended. These so-called relationships, you give yourself.

I have to admit that I didn't invest too much when I started dating you, but just like that time in Houhai when you asked me when I began to like you, my answer was more and more. Well, I don't know whether it is better to like it more and more, or to say that it is more appropriate to rely more and more. I'm really a girl with mountains to support and water to rely on, but at the same time I'm very independent. When I'm independent, I'm often independent in my heart. I don't want to trust anyone or rely on anyone, and everyone is just using each other. When I was really with you, I decided that you were my closest person, so I no longer wanted to be independent, I wanted to rely on you. But then you became more and more busy at work, and you were no longer willing to chat with me at ordinary times. Even if we chatted, our theme was your friends except your store. It seemed that we were two audiences watching other people's performances, but we didn't have each other and our lives. As a result, I became more and more uneasy, and my sense of insecurity became more and more intense, so you said that I had changed and demanded more and more. I quarrel with you, cheat with you, torture you, all for your attention. Maybe this is really not very clever, plus you are unhappy at work, and your heart is closed, and you are even more reluctant to say anything to me, so we have come to today.

Before, my friend and sister asked me why I chose to stay with you, and I firmly answered because you are good to me. But then they asked me again, and when I answered like that again, I became less confident. It's not that you treat me badly, but that the short message you gave me when you were busy in the past turned into my expectation; Your concern when you were sick in the past turned into a luxury. And that time we got lost in the subway for a joke. At that moment, I was really full of distrust for you. I don't know why, but I was really afraid that you would turn around and leave me alone. Unexpectedly, I called you crazy and you didn't answer the prank. At that time, I felt that we were finished. Later, you appeared at the elevator door, and you turned to leave. I still stopped you. I really didn't want to give up. I wanted to hold on, and I wanted to warm your heart again. So I began to ask my colleagues how to cook, because I thought we could always be together, cook for you, wash clothes and take care of you, so that your work would be less stressful. But some things, wishful thinking is useless. You also said that I was too proud. Yes, during my stay with you, I don't recognize myself. I feel that I have repeatedly made concessions and changed my proud attitude. Sometimes I even put down my dignity to coax you when you lose your temper, even though I often get in trouble with you first. So I was thinking, can I do this forever? The answer is no, I can make concessions once or twice occasionally, but I really can't make concessions for a lifetime. Then I'll feel wronged. I can love a man with my life, but I can't love with my dignity. I don't think any man will like a woman without self-confidence.

I think you must have loved me as your future wife, otherwise you wouldn't have shown me to your mother. But we finally came here and stopped. There are so many things I want to tell you. Actually, you know, after I became insecure about you, I felt that we would be separated sooner or later, so I would ask you to take me to many places to play. I want to follow you wherever you go and whatever you do, because I think we can still have memories after separation. Now, I'm afraid to recall. When I touch those memories, my mood will be very bad. What I can't give up may be those memories, which are no longer relevant to you. At that time, I always asked you jokingly, will you attend my wedding? In fact, I'm not kidding, because I know we won't get married.

well, stop talking, or you'll talk about me again? Talk about it? Yes. Although you have a strange temper, I have always believed that you are a good person. From the first time I saw you, I thought so and never changed.