The survival law of social animals

Sharing theme: (Uncle Mao's Life and Entrepreneurship Lesson 3)

Word count: 722 words

Article title: the survival law of social animals

Socialization has always been my weakness. Take the reading camp as an example. For a year, I rarely have a deep link with the old iron. I am a typical "nothing to do" person, I can't hook up, I just talk about things. Therefore, as the deputy head of the evaluation team, everyone's reaction is always weak when he releases the task, while Shu Da Laotie's reaction will be much stronger. I was curious about this gap, until one day I knew that Shu Da would chat with a dozen reviewers in private as delicately and thoughtfully as he did with me, and establish a profound revolutionary friendship, so I naturally became more familiar with it. Shu Da often tells me that you should be friendly to someone every day, which is one of the things you are learning.

For the social combination I shared with Uncle Cat yesterday, I think I should make the following exercise list for my social interaction:

1, direction: generally upward

Not many people know, but the quality.

The quality of the circle of friends needs to be improved, and various WeChat commercial advertisements occupy a certain position. To create a positive energy environment and learning atmosphere, I have improved a lot since I joined the reading camp. Next, you can't let others occupy your circle of friends because you are embarrassed. The general principle of blocking and deleting is to bring insight and energy to yourself.

2. Method: Be kind to at least one person every day.

I've been struggling with how to be nice to someone. In my concept, being nice to him means giving her gifts and taking her to eat delicious food. Actually, it's not limited to this. It is also good to share your own experience to broaden her horizons, tell a joke to make her happy, or share some articles that you think are meaningful to her.

Therefore, whether you are obsessed with form or not depends on your heart.

2 Strong perception of big surprises, bringing gifts when meeting;

I am doing these two things. Either I don't give them, or the gifts I give them are sincere and memorable. Generally, it can achieve the effect of touching others, but the frequency is not high. The next step is to increase the frequency and do more such things. Generally strangers bring gifts, acquaintances don't, and acquaintances need to bring more to increase their feelings.

② There is feedback after chatting.

Every time I get together with my friends, I will send them a message when I get home and ask them if they have arrived home. But there is almost no feedback in the chat, so we should sum up the content in the future and sincerely thank others for their knowledge, food and happiness.

People are gregarious animals, and establish their own favorite circles.