What dirty thoughts are hidden by people who easily promise to stay together forever?

This question is too extreme.

There are several types of people who easily promise to stay together.

The first one is a compliment to love. When the relationship between two people reaches a certain level, their biggest wish is to stay together forever. It's the same for both men and women. If there is no such feeling, it is definitely not love. And it is very normal for each other to vow to be together when the love is strong.

The second is the commitment to love. In fact, many lovers' vows to each other are true, at least when they say it, they are absolutely sincere. But the promise of love is easier said than done. Because there is a commitment to emotion, and there is a commitment to reality.

The third is a commitment to reality. Staying together for a long time is not only emotional, but also practical. This is why lover and wife are two completely different concepts in reality. A wife must be protected in reality. And besides the promise of love, what else can a lover have?

We cannot say that people who promise to stay together conceal their dirty thoughts. To be honest, as long as it is a person with true feelings, the vows made by each other are enough to impress himself or the other party at the moment. But premature promises often backfire.

In China, realistic commitments are more important. The so-called gentleman's words are hard to catch up with. So the relationship between men and women should be treated in this way.

For men, easily promising to stay together forever, although it is an expression of emotion, often becomes a reason and excuse for temporary pleasure. When the relationship gradually fades, those oaths of friendship also disappear.

So we often educate girls not to look at what this man promised to you, but to look at what he did for this promise later.

A man's failure to keep his promises is often a major moral flaw in his life. Of course, if he doesn't care, it will be difficult for us to restrain him in reality. But we have to believe that a person who does not keep his promises means that he may not do well on a social level. A person who is not bright enough, at least his life is definitely not bright and happy enough.

We allow boys to grow, but we will not allow the hypocrisy of an adult man. We allow a person to be riddled with holes in love, but we will not appreciate those irresponsible playboys.

Promises and oaths, no matter where human beings develop, are spiritual and psychological constraints. It is a kind of moral perfection. Don't make promises easily, but you must work hard to fulfill your promises or oaths. There is only one life, and everyone forges its own weight and quality!