Relatives introduce work jokes

When we have dinner with friends, we usually choose when we are free. After all, everyone is busy in the working environment. When we both have time, we will want to get in touch and choose a place for everyone to get together, talk about each other's lives and get to know the recent living conditions. To do this, one is to relax yourself, and the other is to enhance the feelings with friends. Don't break contact just because you don't see each other often.

When we attend friends' parties, we will talk about many things, including recent interesting things in life, some troubles or happy things at work. If you haven't seen or contacted your friends for a long time, you may be unfamiliar with some things. If you want to know your current situation, you will naturally ask some questions.

Today, let's talk about it. At dinner, a friend asked, "How is your job?" How to answer this question? See what people with high emotional intelligence say.

1, first know whether friends are well-intentioned or wait and see.

When a friend asks you this kind of question, you should first know whether this friend came to ask you out of kindness or to watch the fun. This is the same as when you are at the home of relatives and friends, and they ask you how much your salary is. Sometimes even if I don't want to talk about it, I have to respond because of my relatives and friends.

However, before that, we can at least know whether he is out of kindness or watching the fun. This can still be seen in your previous communication. If he was concerned about your life before and gave you some substantive suggestions, then he should ask such questions in good faith. But if he always gloats at other people's situations and talks with people around him, he will turn this topic to you just to watch the fun.

Don't say it directly, be flexible.

Of course, if a friend asks you questions about your work, you can't just say so. After all, there were other friends at the scene besides those who asked you questions. Then, when you answer, you still need to worry about other people's feelings.

In other words, when you answer, don't tell them your work place and salary directly. If you work in some big cities and live in a good environment, others may think you are showing off. If you think your job is not good, don't admit it directly. To put it mildly, some people really like to talk about other people's lives and then compare them with themselves, resulting in a psychological balance.

3, don't use "ok" and "general" to perfunctory.

Also, when answering, try not to use "not bad" or "average" to perfunctory, which will make others feel that you are unwilling to disclose your work, because you don't trust them or look down on them, so use these two sentences to answer.

You can substitute your work environment and friends with empathy, so that others don't think you are showing off, or throw this topic to that friend in the form of rhetorical questions and ask him how his work is going recently. In this way, you can make others pay attention to that friend.