Those warm-hearted dialogues in film and television dramas

The dialogue between Zhang Jiayi and his daughter about the college entrance examination in "School of Youth" is super positive and particularly warm. It can be kept in the mobile phone all the time, especially suitable for candidates and parents facing the college entrance examination.

There are still four months before the college entrance examination. Lin fell in love with webcasting and decided to give up the college entrance examination. Her parents don't agree. Let's look at the dialogue between father and daughter:

Daughter: Dad, what can I do with the rest of my time?

Father:

It doesn't matter what you do, what matters is your efforts and timeliness. Your efforts may fail, but they will never be in vain. If you go all out in the remaining four months, you will definitely remember this passage for the rest of your life.

Daughter: I don't think I can go to college.

Father: If you don't pass the exam, you won't pass it.

Daughter: Do I have to repeat it?

Father:

Read, how can you repeat? Even if you read it a hundred times, it's new, new, new.

Dad watched all your live broadcasts. Do you want to hear my feedback? You are lively and lovely, thoughtful and creative, but meaningless.

Most people are gravel in this universe, but some people can make a hole in this universe, at least on this earth, such as Confucius, Socrates, Einstein and Elon Musk.

Daughter: Compared with these people, I may never be meaningful.

Father:

Girls of age 18, don't say forever. (Comment: It really makes sense)

If you spend time on these ancient sages, it will be different even if you don't take the college entrance examination and do live webcasting.

Now there are some specious opinions on the internet, which makes people enjoy it. Read it this month, read it next month, and don't want to look back. If you read a book, you have a determination, and then you pursue your dream. If you have your own opinions, you won't follow suit. Those languages that are popular on the Internet now are rich and willful. Do you know what the ancients said long ago?

Daughter: Did they say that?

Father: Of course, I have a thousand dollars at home, depending on my mind.

Daughter: I really knelt down.

Father: Knee forward and grab the ground with your head.

Daughter: I don't read much. Don't lie to me.

Father: Don't bully me for being illiterate. This may happen in the world.

Daughter: Really? You surprise me.

Father: the child is shocked when he cries. You can teach the elderly.

Daughter: Oh, interesting, Lao Lin, that's very kind of you. I'm going to start giving you powder.

Father:

You are not a fan. You are a self-satisfied person with a pink belly and poetic spirit. So can you. At the age of eighteen, you can barbecue with a coke bottle and fry small balls. You are lively and resourceful. If you don't stop reading, when you reach your father's age, you will be full of wisdom and fragrance. Read, son.

Miaomiao: Will it be too late from now on?

Father:

It's never too late, "if a person can do it, he will do it;" People can do it in ten ways and thousands of ways. Can do this, stupid is wise, soft is strong. "

He knows how to respect his daughter's choice, and his relationship with her is more like a bosom friend. What would you be like if you had such parents!

John gotman, a professor of psychology, said, "Being a parent means helping your child when he needs you most and in the way he needs you most." .

People who want to be children can cherish their youth and understand the meaning of growth; I hope parents can really understand how children should grow up and let their youth bloom with love!

There is a conversation between a mother and Shen Guangyao (Wang Leehom) in Nothing in the West, which explains how their children should spend their lives in the eyes of their parents.

Shen Guangyao decided to serve his country and join the army, but his mother thought he was going after fame and fortune. She knew the cruelty of war. She was against it in her heart and went all the way to school to dissuade her. But as a well-educated mother, she neither forced nor growled. She listened to what she said:

Your father and I didn't object when you came to this place to study thousands of miles away from home, because we wanted you to enjoy life, such as studying in thousands of books, going to Wan Li Road, marrying a girl you like and having children.

Note that it's not that we have more children, but that you can enjoy being a parent. There is nothing in your life that your ancestors did not experience, but those are just illusions of life.

I'm afraid that if you haven't figured out how to live your life, your life will be gone!

How many parents will kill these words today? She didn't kidnap him in the name of filial piety, let alone control him. She just reminded him to cherish his life and express his concern as a mother. This is the correct way to communicate with children.

In addition, let children cultivate their own life fun while studying. This kind of fun actually brings children a sense of accomplishment and is another way to achieve life.

When Shen Guangyao finally decided to become a wartime pilot, Shen's mother still respected his choice with worry and grief.

We sometimes treat children as private things and control them in the name of love, hoping that they will realize their unfulfilled regrets, study abroad and have a successful career.

When can we really respect children's right to choose freely, as Shen Mu did in the play?

In the TV series Divorce Lawyer from 2065438 to 2004, female lawyer Chen Yao had a classic line, which many film critics said was a model of women's three views.

But what I want to say is: this is not only a woman's attitude towards life, but also a man's attitude towards life; It is not only the meaning of women's hard work, but also the meaning of men's hard work!

I work hard, so that one day, I will stand by and watch the person I love, whether he has money or no money or nothing;

I can open my hand and hug him calmly. I don't have to think that I am climbing high when he is rich, and we will not be down and out when he is poor. This is the meaning of women's efforts.

A life without a princess requires a queen's heart and an imperfect life with a positive attitude.

Edward, the hero of the fantasy love novel Edward Scissorhands, is a robot. His style and clothes are a bit eccentric and exaggerated, but what he says always touches the hearts of the audience and people's tears. In Edward, we see the purity of love and the true meaning of love:

I love you not only because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you.

Love has many forms, sometimes like warm sunshine, sometimes like cloudy sky, sometimes like warm spring breeze, sometimes like a storm; Sometimes it is a trickle; Sometimes the flood rolls; Some began to be vigorous and ended quietly; Some started with a bang and ended with a bang.

However, no matter what love looks like, what matters is what you look like in front of love!

As Roy clift said:

I love you,

Not only because of your appearance,

But also because,

When I'm with you,

My appearance.

My boy and I watched the cartoon Dream Journey three times. Every time I see Hector singing "Please Remember Me" to his daughter Coco, I am particularly moved by that scene, and that kind of emotion can't be suppressed from my heart. The plot and soundtrack of this film are excellent, especially some sentences about family, dreams and even life in the film, which impressed me the most:

Family is more important than dreams.

Never forget how much your family loves you.

I always thought that the antonym of love was not love, until now I realized that the antonym of love was forgetting. I won't forget you, because I have always loved you.

I'm tired of asking permission. I don't want to follow the rules I want to follow my heart.

Success does not depend on the charity of others. I must pursue my dream through my own efforts and try to realize it.

If there is no dream, what is the difference between being a man and a salted fish? If you have a dream, you must work hard. But we are often on the way to pursue our dreams. We either stay away from home or alienate our relatives, just for our stubborn hearts.

All parents want is companionship, but we always want to prove ourselves, succeed and return to our hometown. In the end, we were beaten black and blue by reality, and in the end, we lived a disgusting life, but only our family members have been silently supporting and warming you.

Please remember to look back at your family when you are chasing your dreams! Please always remember how much your family loves you! We should never forget how much we love our family!

Today, let's talk about a sitcom "Legend of Wulin" in 2006, which was popular all over the country at that time and was a classic of that era.

Many characters in it speak plastic Mandarin and dialects. The language is simple and not gorgeous. At first, they didn't care so much. They just laughed it off and enjoyed themselves. After reading it several times, they realized the profound meaning. It is true that three views are more correct than five views, and it is still out of date now.

For example, the shopkeeper in the film is full of Shaanxi accent. Don't look at her nagging all day. In fact, she is very wise at heart, and every word she says is a feeling of life. Let's take a look at her conversation with Xiao Guo. She is a shop assistant who dreams of becoming a woman but can't do anything well:

You can learn everything you can't do, no one laughs at you, and do things with your hands instead of your mouth;

As the saying goes, if you just talk and don't practice fake tricks, you can't do anything once you talk.

Who will trust you after a long time? Promote you?

Who will give you a chance to prove yourself?

Is it very grounded, but it is true, for example:

Not just martial arts, anything,

If you don't work hard, how can you succeed?

You've only been practicing for a few days and you want to be invincible?

Where can I find such a good thing

Let's look at Laobai, Bai Zhantang. Not only is his martial arts high, but his speech is also very ugly;

There are too many firsts in a person's life.

If you always indulge in this, you will never look forward and never remember the past.

I think the first time is precious,

But the most precious thing for you is the time and energy wasted the first time.

Put the gun down. Only after the first time, will there be a second time, a third time, a hundredth time, a thousandth time, and a hundredth time!

For example, Bai Zhantang advised the shopkeeper:

Bai: You think life is hard now, don't you?

Tong: It's not bitter, it's joy, how tired it is!

Bai: I'm tired. Go home and be your big lady.

Tong: How bitter it is. There is no freedom at all.

Bai: That's all right, Xiang Yu. Life is like this. You have to choose the same thing, bitter and tired. What's the good news, let you Tong Xiangyu take it all? !

Tong: Why not be bitter and tired?

Bai: You may not know the sufferings of others!

In fact, each of us has our own happiness and happiness, as well as our own bitterness and tiredness. The so-called self-knowledge of changes in temperature means this. When you see others happy, of course, you can't know what is going on behind them.

Lev tolstoy said, "If you are not me, how can you know the road I have traveled and the bitterness and joy in my heart?" In the corner you can't see, there are many things you don't know.

Life is bitter, please don't forget to add some sweetness to it.

"Listen" is a realistic youth love story in Miyazaki Hayao's animation, and the lines in it are particularly pure and inspirational:

A Wen: I'd better come down.

Shengsi: It has nothing to do with me. I've decided to drive you over the mountains like this.

Arvin: I don't want to be a burden to you. I have made up my mind to support you behind my back.

……

Because of you, I want to be a better person and don't want to be a burden to you, so I only try to prove that I deserve you.

Love should be mutual support to achieve their goals, not illusory ideas, superficial materials, and a life of drunkenness.

As long as you are here, I will work hard. I am very happy. I try to know myself better than before.

Love is a matter for both sides. It's not that one person has taken ninety-nine steps, but the other party is hesitant to take the first step.

This is the youthful love in the student days, and it is also the truest love. Sweet first love is a poem that will never be forgotten.

Some netizens commented:

The most touching line in the movie is: "As long as you are here, I will work hard." This is the love I have been longing for. Maybe we are all ordinary people, but together, we become the best people.

Yes, maybe we have all expected or are experiencing such love. In our youth, we met that excellent ta. In order to catch up with him, hold his hand, and be worthy of ta, we should work hard silently, support him behind his back, and love him hand in hand until we are old.

For this beauty, in order to make this beauty come true, please work hard with your ta to become a better self!

When you are confused, lonely and can't find your way, please turn out Spring in Cowboy Class. Do you remember those flying paper planes and children's songs? Do you remember Mr. Matthew's touching words?

Never say forever, anything is possible.

Every heart needs love, tenderness, tolerance and understanding.

Things can't be said to be dead. Some things are always worth trying. Never give up easily, there is always hope waiting ahead.

The school in the film adopted many problem of juvenile, some of whom were orphans in the war, or indulged in rebellion because of their parents' neglect of discipline, or were sent in because of family difficulties, just like a group of people who were forgotten by society and doomed to ruin their lives, but this is their fate, and they have no choice.

The school's discipline of these problem students is very simple and rude, and the principal's principle is to fight violence with violence: corporal punishment. The teachers at school never thought about why these children became like this, but rudely applied the rules of adults to these children.

Fortunately, this group of children met their music teacher Matthew, and Matthew's arrival gradually changed this situation completely. Teacher Matthew changed the world and future of this group of problem of juvenile with his warm love and music.

I don't know how many people were cured by this movie, but I know that I was really cured by him, because I used to be a problem of juvenile! So I will turn it out to watch this movie every time it is low tide, and I am particularly moved every time I finish watching it!

As netizens commented:

"Spring in Cowboy Class" gives people the feeling of intoxication, the clear eyes of children, the sweet and clear children's chorus, and the childlike innocence, dreams, gratitude and nostalgia released in melodious songs ... all of these are beautiful and moving.

I hope we can meet a mentor like Matthew in our life journey! ! !

So much for today, and then we will continue to share with you. Let's end with a sentence from Mo Wen West East:

May you remember your own preciousness and resist malice when you are hit; I hope that when you are confused, you firmly believe in your own preciousness, love what you love, do what you should do, listen to your heart, and ask for nothing more.

Above, for you and for me!