Have you ever cried for your incompetence?

Wang Xiaobo said that all human sufferings are essentially anger at their incompetence.

-I like this utilitarian world written by Mi Meng.

Yes, that's right.

No one will like listening to your complaints. Find a way to solve the problem when you encounter it.

You are the leader of your life.

When you gradually put

Become:

Many things naturally go from no solution to a solution.

This is a wonderful process.

Life will be suddenly enlightened, with less difficulties and less anxiety.

When you encounter a problem, try to solve it.

Crying is the most useless.

Complaining, too.

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This idea is actually very similar to a popular sentence on Twitter. Its exact words are as follows:

Recently, I gradually put "why am I like this?" What do you want to teach me by replacing ideas with this thing? Then I found that everything around me had changed.

Many times, the direction of some things has nothing to do with whether a person works hard or not, but with a person's thinking mode.

Some people will complain when they encounter something, while others just want to solve the problem.

So, some people succeed and some people fail.

That's understandable.

Another dimension wrote "dream practice every day" and said:

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"Whoever wants to shock the world will be deeply silent for a long time; Whoever lights lightning will wander like a cloud for a long time. " -Nietzsche

WeChat official account of Lu Shiyi is also expressing this view:

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After so much experience, I understand a truth more.

Only making money can end the real pain.

And men and love are just accessories of your life.

They won't let you eat and wear warm clothes, and they won't make your life better.

On the contrary, sometimes they will destroy your mind, waste your time and empty your heart.

Therefore, it is time for women who are trapped in men, children and housework after marriage to wake up.

Mi Meng said,

Many times, money is freedom.

Many times, money is dignity.

So after I am single again, I am more willing to spend time making money, managing myself and improving myself than men and love.

Why are more and more women unwilling to get married now?

Actually, it's easy to figure out.

If you don't live the life you like after marriage.

One day, I have to soak in daily necessities, a pile of housework that can't be cleaned up, dirty clothes that can't be washed, messy toy garbage, children's crying, the game sound of men who will never grow up, and criticism.

Why are you getting married?

Why do you have to make yourself a fat mother?

I have no time to dress myself up, socialize, sleep, read and write, make money, travel, make friends or even have a little space of my own.

What is the picture?

Chicken feather life, wrinkled face?

Probably, this is also the most real reason why most women choose not to get married.

So love is love.

No cohabitation, no marriage.

Like lovers and friends.

It's not bad to live your own life.

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That's a little far. Now let's talk about writing.

Writer Borges said, "I write to make me feel at ease with the passage of time."

Zhou also said something similar, "Writing has never been to influence the world, but only to settle down."

I think so.

Writing, in addition to the manuscript fee, will also make you gain more.

And I write, not only to make my pocket swell and realize wealth and freedom, but also to dream and put my heart where I don't belong.

The 10,000-hour genius theory expresses a core point: to become an expert in a certain field, you need to work at least 10,000 hours. If you work 8 hours a day and 5 days a week, you need at least 5 years of professional precipitation.

So, work hard day and night!

Nothing makes me happier than code words!

Everyone's time and experience are limited. Do what you think is right and don't let others influence you easily.

When you care too much about what others think, your steps will also stagnate.

In fact, this sentence is the topic of a video speech.

You can have a look at Baidu if you have time, which may help you solve some life puzzles.

I won't elaborate on this video here.

I once said that my dream when I grow up is to be a writer. Obviously, not only my classmates, but also my respected teachers and relatives laughed at me.

In fact, many times the so-called adults are not as glamorous as we think or their views are necessarily correct.

They are just worn out by life, and some things even dare not think about it, but only laugh at others with a proud face.

There is no shame in talking about dreams.

Seriously, no kidding.

Mi Meng also mentioned in the book I like this utilitarian world:

Only those who dare not talk about their dreams have time to laugh at others.

And truly brave people are busy on the road and become better themselves!

Although I am still a little far from the title of "writer", I have only passed a draft, which is not enough for100000 words, and I have never published a book.

But when I set foot on this road, I knew that it was only a matter of time except hard work and persistence.

Everyone must have cried for their incompetence.

And temporary incompetence is not terrible.

You know you are incompetent, not only do you not want to make progress.

Nothing has changed.

Gradually become a slave to laziness and fear.

Let them dominate your life.

This is the most terrible!