Don’t be angry when facing people with low cognition

We often see that children in kindergarten always like to ask adults some very childish questions, such as: Why do puppies have hair on their bodies? Why is the giraffe's neck so long? Why not sit in the elevator?

Most people will answer children's questions patiently, at least not getting angry because the children's questions are childish.

Why?

Because everyone knows that children have relatively low cognition because of their young age, little experience, and narrow knowledge.

However, everyone is accustomed to believe that as age increases, life experience will increase and cognition will also improve.

Well, when an adult does something cognitively low, we get angry.

I once saw a joke.

A asked B: "Do you have "A Brief History of Time"?"

B replied: "Crazy, I do." You don’t have time to pick up shit, do you?”

Of course this is just a joke.

When A asked B, A never thought that B would answer: Go pick up shit?

What does this mean?

It shows that the two people are not in the same cognitive channel at all.

There is an ancient saying:

Don’t talk to the frog at the bottom of the well about the sea, because its cognition is only as big as the bottom of the well, and the sea is a cognitive blind spot for it.

Don’t talk about ice and snow with Xia Chong, because Xia Chong has never experienced ice and snow, and ice and snow are cognitive blind spots for it.

People with low cognition have more cognitive blind spots and the easier it is to stick to their inherent cognition.

It is difficult for two people with different cognitive levels to communicate.

However, even if many people understand this truth and know that the other person is at a different level from themselves, they still can't help but get angry.

What can we do?

I once saw this passage:

In the same way, if you are angry with a person who has low cognition, does it prove that your cognition is not very good either? How about high?

After all, if you are angry, it will destroy your mood, affect your emotions, and even bring you bad things according to the vibration of the same frequency.

Do you think it’s worth it?

Some people say that this is poisonous chicken soup. Why can't I be angry? Why should I be patient?

You must know that trying to reason with people who are not on the same wavelength is tantamount to playing the piano to an ox, which will only make you even more crazy in the end.

If you try to change a person and change a person's perception, you will only drive yourself crazy.

There is a good saying:

Furthermore, not caring about people with low cognition is a way to stop the harm to yourself, and I didn’t tell you to tolerate it. , didn’t say to hold your anger in your heart.

It allows you to improve your awareness, improve your structure, and don't take unnecessary people and things to heart. This is a relieved state of mind.

People’s cognition does not become higher as they age. Some people just live repetitively day after day, year after year. They just repeat the same day mechanically. Awareness has not improved.

Romain Rolland said: Some people die at the age of twenty, but they are not buried until they are eighty.

You must understand that cognition is regardless of age. When you have a disagreement with a person with low cognition, he is no different from a child in terms of cognition. You can think in your mind: How come you are such an adult, and your cognition is like that of a child? It’s so pitiful.

So, you can completely ignore it. If you feel that you are angry, it means that you have to improve yourself.