My husband is 13 years older than me. Can we live well?

I was born in 1995 and my husband was born in 1983. My husband is 13 years older than me. We have been together for four years and he is usually very good to me, but I feel that it is just the good thing about living together, not because of love. That's good, so do I. I feel like I don't love him, and he doesn't love me either. We seem to be just living together, with no passion at all. We can be together every day, not once a month, or even It only happens once every two months, but we still live our lives without quarrels. There are never any surprises, no romance, no passion. We just live life dryly. Sometimes I really lament that my own choice has ruined my youth like this. I sold it and bought it for nothing, but what I got in exchange for this kind of life is nothing. To be honest, I feel very sad, but there is no way. I am in my second marriage. If I get divorced again, others will laugh at me. Sometimes I really want to let go. Everything is gone, but I can’t worry too much, it’s too difficult, life,