"My First Half of Life": Are housewives the source of all evil?

When a woman reaches her thirties, life suddenly becomes very difficult, as if the whole world is waiting to see her joke.

If she is a hard-working and thrifty housewife, others will say that she has no independent ability, dislike her for being slovenly, trivial, and out of touch with society, and call her a yellow-faced woman; if she is fashionable and bright, and spends a lot of energy on maintaining her appearance. Skin, maintain taste, others will say she is naive and vain, while they envy her good life and despise her as just a canary and a parasite.

If she fights desperately in the workplace and competes with men for positions, others will say she is strong, laugh at her for being unfeminine, accuse her of neglecting her family and children, and call her a man-woman; As a small employee, her colleagues and superiors accused her of focusing too much on her family. She faced many obstacles to promotion and salary increase. When she returned home, she had to be busy with housework, taking care of her children, getting along with her mother-in-law, and faced the guilt of not being able to spend time with her children. Others will also give her a name, Paid Nanny.

It is said in "The Besieged City": Marriage is like a besieged city. People who are surrounded by the city want to escape, and people outside the city want to rush in. How can two people live together as an art? It is simply like building the Great Wall, an arduous project. If you work on this project alone, you may be too exhausted to repair it for a full day.

I want to say that housewives are not the source of all evil. Housewives, you are not wrong! The child is two or three years old and needs someone to hold him every day; the elderly are hospitalized for physical examinations and need to be with them in bed all the time; the husband has to prepare delicious food for every meal when he comes home from work.

What a housewife has to do is not only to take care of the men and children, wash and cook, but more importantly, to maintain the harmony of the family and to maintain the normal and healthy psychology of the men. She is the woman behind the great man and the glue that holds the family together.

But independence is the most basic thing for a woman to survive well in this society, because independence, whether for herself, her friends or her lover, will not cause trouble to others. , and will only give yourself extra points.

What do you think of housewives? Welcome to interact.