Love advice for all girls

(Elva Hsiao's open love book)

Before falling in love:

1, don't be too arrogant, know and verify each other's background, and don't rush to confirm the relationship without substantial contribution.

2. Establish rules: the circle of friends is open, report when busy, keep a distance from the opposite sex, and have a sense of holiday ceremony.

Don't believe the hypothetical zero-cost words such as "We will be together forever and how to get married in the future". This is just what he said to get you further. Don't be moved by cheap behaviors such as "ordering takeout". Being nice to you is the most basic requirement, not a plus item.

4. When you get along, the other person does something that makes you feel uncomfortable, such as outrageous behavior, or you feel something is wrong. Don't make excuses for each other, trust your feelings and come out quickly!

5, irritability, borrowing money, crying poor, disrespecting people, all bye!

6, don't be a virgin, sympathy will make you unhappy.

7, sweet mouth and hard mouth: language can be active, behavior can be passive and conservative.

8. Keep the mystery: Don't tell the whole story, gradually show your advantages and create surprises.

9. Create a sense of contrast: show a contrast that does not match your appearance, or the other person's lack of personality to make up for the vacancy of the other person.

When in love:

1, remain independent after confirming the relationship, do what you should do, don't lose yourself and your social circle because of each other, and don't stick together every day!

2, don't always think about whether you can get married in the future, and don't ask the other person hypothetical questions in the future to make the other person feel that you have taken care of you.

3, don't be afraid, no one can love others 100%, don't get angry because of small things.

4, don't nag, don't take yourself as a nanny, take care of three meals, don't do what you think is good for him.

5. Don't ask everything to the end and ignore the bottom line.