When would a man say "I love you" as a joke?

In fact, it is not suitable to say the truth in joking words. If the tone is joking, the truth may become more like a joke. In TV movies, we see some similar scenes, because you can look at the whole story from a macro perspective, so you know that the joke is true. For example, sometimes a person casually says, I love you. Come on. If you have seen the previous plot, you know that he really loves this girl secretly, but when he jokes about loving her, they don't take it seriously. Even when it is a joke, we know that he is just telling the truth. But in life, no one can grasp your plot in advance. They don’t know how much you love yourself privately, so when you jokingly say that you love her, she will really think that you are joking, or it is better to think that you are joking. You are just testing. In this case, if you pursue someone else's girl, you will lose more than you gain. It's easy to miss the opportunity to pursue someone because they can't see through it. So I feel that if there is a true truth that needs to be said jokingly, it would be like I hate you, because the person you love knows that you really hate yourself. My friend used to be such a person. His husband would record videos with him and play short videos, like "How long has it been since you said you love me?" My husband said don't say such hurtful things. Do you think it's a joke? But I really mean it. Bar. Really! When an old couple says this, it really hurts their feelings. They have been together for many years, and they have to talk about their love. I think it is really unnecessary. It is the behavior of childish people. If people don't love you, they have already ignored you, and they have already lived with you. If you still want others to say they love you, what else is that? I used to have a friend who was like this, and it made her husband very annoyed. Her husband worked in the company, and she required that any phone calls must be answered immediately. However, when she called during a meeting, her husband picked up the phone and whispered to her that there would be another meeting and call again later. When she knew about it, she unconsciously asked her husband to do it again and then hang up. Her husband was petrified at the time and didn't know what to do. But she didn't react and asked on the phone why she didn't do it. Would you like to have another meeting? In one case, the colleagues next to her looked away, and her husband was embarrassed and hung up. As a result, he kept beating her and kept beating her, which made her quite unhappy. I think young people nowadays really need to grasp the scale when it comes to romance. Sometimes it's good for your husband to flirt with you on the phone. It has to be like a TV show. Your husband can only do this if he is a company boss. If he is a wage earner, Or if you are a middle-level cadre, doing this in a meeting will make others very disgusted and even become a joke. Why bother doing this?