The distress of the daughter-in-law in the city: the mother-in-law with her eldest grandson is unwilling to go back to her hometown.

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A couple in Wuhan, Hubei Province encountered such an embarrassing situation that "it is easier to pray for God than to send it to God"-the mother-in-law from Ningxiang County, Hunan Province, committed suicide by drinking pesticides because she could not stand the psychological gap of "beautiful scenery entering the city and returning home bleak" and tortured her heartless son and daughter-in-law with her life. ......

Rural mother-in-law goes to town

Nurse's daughter-in-law is crazy

Cheng, 29, is from Yichang, Hubei. In 2005, after graduating from a health school affiliated to a university in Wuhan, the provincial capital, she was employed as a nurse in a hospital in Hongshan District, Wuhan. The next year, she was introduced to Liu Yuehai by her colleagues. Liu Yuehai was born in Liushahe Town, Ningxiang County, Hunan Province. He is a reporter of a newspaper in Wuhan. Because of his father's early death, his mother Zhang raised him alone, and his feelings with her were particularly deep. Although his family was poor, Liu Yuehai lived up to expectations. After graduating from college, he successfully took root in Wuhan and provided a set of 84 square meters of two rooms and two halls. In Cheng's view, Liu Yuehai is a typical "Phoenix Man". She was moved by his fighting spirit, and they soon fell in love.

In July 2007, Cheng and Liu Yuehai entered the marriage hall. Before the wedding, Cheng met Liu Yuehai's mother Zhang for the first time. Perhaps because of the hardships of life, Zhang, who is black and thin, looks much older than his biological mother of the same age. When I first met her, Cheng was afraid of her mother-in-law-she heard Liu Yuehai say that Zhang was a strong person. Liu Yuehai 10 was once beaten by a village bully. Zhang stood in front of the village bully's house with a kitchen knife for more than half an hour, and finally forced the other party to apologize and compensate for medical expenses.

In this regard, Liu Yuehai explained: "It was not easy for my mother to bring me up alone." We are orphans and widows. How can she protect me if she is not cruel? Although the words are reasonable, Cheng is still worried: Can such a "fierce" mother-in-law get along with her?

After the wedding, Zhang lived in her son's house. To Cheng's surprise, in their family, her mother-in-law is not fierce at all, but very modest: when eating, she rarely takes the initiative to pick up vegetables, and Liu Yuehai must put them in her bowl before eating; When the family watches TV, she never masters the remote control and always follows the programs that the young couple like; When she talks to people, she is always careful and flattering ... Cheng knows that her mother-in-law from the countryside lives in the city, which makes her feel inferior and uncomfortable. She couldn't bear to be kind, so she decided to be nice to her mother-in-law.

Therefore, every time she buys fruit to go home, she takes the initiative to greet her mother-in-law to eat together, and also tries to chat with her mother-in-law to enhance her feelings. Zhang was flattered and responded positively to his daughter-in-law's closeness. However, although both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law work hard, unpleasant things still happen from time to time. Once, Cheng found many scratches on the marble countertop of the bedroom bay window. Only when I asked my mother-in-law did I know that marble was a little dirty and could not be wiped clean with a rag, so I scrubbed it with a steel wire cleaning ball for a long time. Cheng a listen to nasty, "steel ball is used to wash the bottom of the pot, how can it be used to wipe marble? And this countertop is not dirty at all, it's marbled! Look, this is a row! "

Cheng complained a few words. When her mother-in-law bowed her head and said nothing, she couldn't bear to say more. Afterwards, Cheng found that her mother-in-law was particularly depressed and talked less in those two days. She stopped watching TV with them at night and went to bed after dinner. Liu Yuehai complained that Cheng spoke too hard and hurt her mother. When Cheng saw this scene, he also blamed himself, so he talked to his mother-in-law and bought her mother-in-law's favorite sesame candy to honor her. Slowly, the smile returned to the old man's face.

After this incident, Cheng learned his lesson and never dared to "teach" his mother-in-law face to face again. However, the contradiction has not disappeared. Cheng was born in a city family, and he is a nurse by profession. It is inevitable that he is a little neat. However, Zhang Yisheng lives in the countryside and it is difficult to meet her health requirements. Every time my mother-in-law goes to the toilet, there will always be yellow "unknown liquid" on the tiles outside the urinal, and there are often unwashed stains in the urinal. Cheng didn't dare to confess to her mother-in-law, so he asked her husband this question several times, hoping that he would remind the elderly. Liu Yuehai found it difficult to talk about it, and in turn advised his wife: "It's all trivial things. Just wash it for you. Why bother everyone? "

Cheng had to hold back his dissatisfaction and do the "aftermath" work for her mother-in-law again and again. But as the weather became hotter and hotter, the smell in the bathroom became worse and worse, and she finally couldn't help it. One night in early August, she asked her husband to persuade her mother-in-law again and was rejected. She was angry and posted a note on the bathroom door: Please flush the urinal after defecation!

Who knows, the next morning, Liu Yuehai flew into a rage after seeing the note. He tore off the note and asked his wife loudly, "What do you mean? Give it to my mother? " Cheng is a little guilty and whispered, "I let you talk to mom, but you always take it seriously ..." Liu Yuehai interrupted her angrily. "You have gone too far! I forbid you to insult my mother! " Cheng was angry when he saw that he was unreasonable. "I wash the toilet seven or eight times a day, and I have never served my mother like this. What are you dissatisfied with? "

The husband and wife quarreled for half an hour. Cheng was so tired that he slammed the door angrily. Liu Yuehai found that her mother was no longer at home. He thought she had gone shopping, so he locked the door and went to work. However, no one expected that Zhang and his wife still didn't come back after coming home from work that night. Cheng went to her mother-in-law's bedroom and found that all her clothes were gone. They realized that the old man was angry and went back to their hometown.

Liu Yuehai and his wife had a cold war for half a month. Cheng gradually realized that she had gone too far, so she crustily skin of head called her mother-in-law and apologized to her, but Zhang said, "It's none of your business. I want to go home myself-if I don't come back, the land will be deserted and my chickens and dogs will starve to death. "

The mother-in-law said this, which made Cheng feel guilty and moved. After more than a year, the couple's life is very calm. During this period, Liu Yuehai called several times to invite her mother to Wuhan, but Zhang refused every time. "I'm still at home, playing mahjong and raising chickens. When you have children in the future, I will send you earth eggs! "

From June 5438 to June 2008 10, Cheng was pregnant. Liu Yuehai was ecstatic. He immediately took out all his savings and bought a "Ford Carnival" by stages, which saved his pregnant wife from the pain of crowding the bus. Cheng is full of joy. After work, she bought a lot of parenting books and studied hard. On the eve of the Spring Festival in 2009, Liu Yuehai proposed to drive back to his hometown and take his mother to Wuhan to welcome the birth of the child together. "My mother this lifetime is not easy, to the old, no one around. Let her take care of the children for us! "

Although she is still worried about the last unpleasant experience, Cheng can't object to her husband's proposal, because her mother has serious lumbar spondylosis and can't take care of herself. After work, the father has to take care of his mother's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and is unable to help bring up his eldest grandson. Both husband and wife are very busy at work. Cheng often works at night, while Liu Yuehai works overtime and travels regularly. The task of taking care of children is bound to fall on her mother-in-law.

The birth of a son

My mother-in-law was once again "honored" to be invited to the town.

In the Spring Festival of 2009, Liu Yue and his wife drove back to their hometown in Hunan. My son bought a new car and my daughter-in-law was pregnant again. Zhang smiled from ear to ear. On New Year's Day, Liu Yue Khumbu took his wife to visit his uncle in the same village. After some greetings, my uncle said with emotion, "There are fewer and fewer people in this village. Young people go out to work, and when they succeed, they take their parents to the city ... "He glanced at Liu Yuehai and said meaningfully," Your mother has been widowed for you for more than 20 years. It is not easy! Your mother was so happy when you got married! Everyone in the village knows that she will have a good time with her son. When I left, I also said that I would rent out the rent and give away all my chickens and dogs, saying that there were not many opportunities to come back in the future. As a result, she came back after living in Wuhan for more than half a month. " You don't know. Everyone in the village is saying that you married a daughter-in-law and didn't want your mother! "

Cheng was so embarrassed that Liu Yuehai blushed and said, "That's not true! My mother was not used to living in the city before ... this time she will definitely live in Wuhan for a long time-she will help us with our children! " Uncle nodded and said, "That's good."

On the fifth day of the Lunar New Year, the couple will return to Wuhan. At Liu Yuehai's strong request, Zhang finally agreed to go with them. When I set out, my relatives and neighbors came to see me off. My uncle repeatedly urged Liu Yuehai to be kind to his mother and said to Zhang, "I am looking after the fields, so don't hurry back this time!" Zhang Qinhui said excitedly: "I'm going to have grandchildren, and I won't come back this time!"

Zhang seems to be in a much better mood when he comes to Wuhan this time. Watching my daughter-in-law's belly grow bigger every day, her face has a strange luster, and she cooks something delicious for her daughter-in-law every day.

At the end of June 2009, Cheng gave birth to a boy named Doudou. Zhang likes Doudou very much, and holds him all day, saying that he is afraid of falling out of bed. As a result, Doudou was used to being hugged by grandma and didn't want to sleep in bed. But Zhang is not bored at all. Doudou sleeps for 15 or 16 hours every day, and she should hold him 10 hours at least. She was too tired to complain about her back pain. Every time Cheng wants to take Doudou to rest her mother-in-law, she always refuses to let go. Cheng knew that her mother-in-law was distressed by her grandson and had to let her go.

However, Zhang's love for his grandson seems to be more and more "excessive". When Cheng breast-feeds, she always stands by. As soon as Doudou finished drinking milk, she immediately hugged her. Cheng wants to hug for a while, and Zhang always says, "Have a good rest in the moon, and leave the peas to me!" "

After giving birth to a child, Zhang still "monopolizes" Doudou, and at the same time Doudou is increasingly dependent on her grandmother, crying and crying, and only her grandmother can coax her. Once, when a neighbor visited, Doudou, who was sleeping in bed, suddenly woke up and burst into tears. Cheng hurried over, but Zhang, who was busy in the kitchen, quickly rushed to the bedroom and grabbed Doudou in front of her. Cheng couldn't help but say, "mom, you go to busy. I'll take it. " Zhang Qin Hui said: "Doudou likes me to hug him!" She proudly said to her neighbor, "This child has been attached to me since childhood, just like his father was a child. When he began to cry, his mother couldn't coax him. I have to come! "

The neighbor smiled and said, "That's because you spoil your daughter-in-law. I'm afraid she is tired! " Zhang said unconvinced, "If you don't believe me, let her show it to you!" Doudou said to Cheng. Doug, who just stopped crying, burst into tears as soon as he threw himself into his mother's arms. Cheng is anxious and embarrassed. The mother-in-law quickly held Doug in her arms and patted him. Doudou soon calmed down, but Cheng was so sad that he almost shed tears. ......

Cheng found that her mother-in-law had changed-she was no longer the cautious old man when she first came to Wuhan, but became somewhat "overbearing". That night, she discussed with her husband and wanted Doudou to sleep with them. Liu Yuehai said inexplicably: "Why? My mother can't live without peas for a moment! Moreover, I have to get up early for work every day, and taking care of my children will affect the quality of sleep. " Cheng said worriedly, "I'm afraid my son won't kiss me." Liu Yuehai smiled and said, "You are jealous of your mother-in-law! You don't take her son, afraid she will take your son? "

Cheng couldn't laugh at all. She vaguely felt that her husband's joke just hit her mother-in-law's psychology. She realized the seriousness of the problem. But at this time, maternity leave is coming to an end, and she can't think of any way to change it. June 5438+October 2009 10, she returned to work in the hospital, thinking that her mother-in-law could build a "two-person world" with Doudou and exclude herself, which made her very sad.

/kloc-at the end of 0/0, Cheng bought a set of food shredders and taught her mother-in-law to make complementary food for her children. A few days later, she left work early. As soon as I opened the door, I saw my mother-in-law feeding complementary food to peas. Instead of using a grinder, she chewed up carrots and spit them out and fed them to peas. Cheng looked ill and couldn't help crying: "Mom, how could you! Didn't I teach you how to use a grinder? " Zhang obviously didn't expect her daughter-in-law to go home early, so she stood up and explained, "That thing is too troublesome, and it may take a long time ... Yue Hai ate like this when she was a child. What's the problem! " Cheng was angry and said, "you have bronchitis, and you haven't had a comprehensive physical examination." What if something infects peas? "

This hurt Zhang's self-esteem, and she sobbed with Doudou. Cheng was so angry that he snatched the child from her mother-in-law's arms, picked up the carrots and threw them into the trash can. Doudou was frightened and burst into tears. When Zhang saw this scene, she couldn't help reaching out to hold the baby. Cheng Xiaoya turned away and said angrily, "Doudou is my son, but you always tell me to stay away from him." I've always wanted to ask you why! " Zhang suddenly blushed and could not speak for a long time. ......

That night, Cheng told her husband all this in tears. "Your mother is still using the old rural routines to bring up children. How can this work! Besides, my son born in October doesn't want me, so I might as well hire a nanny ... "

After listening to his wife's crying, Liu Yuehai was very unhappy. He knows that at this time, the grandson is the mother's only spiritual sustenance, and she put her love for her son on the grandson! But he also understands his wife's grievances. The difference between urban and rural areas is reflected in the way of parenting, which is indeed a problem. Liu Yuehai was in a dilemma and finally had to persuade his wife to put up with it. "Now we must provide houses and cars. Buying milk powder, clothes and diapers for children is also a big expense. How can I have extra money to hire a nanny? It's very hard for mom to help us with our children. Please be considerate and I'll find an opportunity to persuade her! "

In the middle of the night, when Cheng went to the bathroom, she passed her mother-in-law's bedroom. In the moonlight, she saw a shadow sitting motionless by the bed-that was her mother-in-law! Her back trembled slightly, as if she were crying in depression. At that moment, Cheng also felt very sad. ......

The next morning, I got up as usual to make breakfast for Zhang. Cheng secretly looked at her and found that her eyes were red and swollen, but she tried to pretend to be all right. Cheng sighed in his mind. She knew that her mother-in-law had already returned to her hometown-such a stubborn old man would not want to look at her daughter-in-law's face all day. But now that she has grandchildren, she can't leave without cutting! Thought of here, cheng's heart softened. She went to the kitchen to help her mother-in-law clean up the dishes and chopsticks, and casually asked, "Did Doudou sleep well last night? I didn't disturb your rest, did I? " Zhang Qin Hui quickly said, "Doudou is very good." She hesitated, and then said, "When will you rest? Take me to the physical examination!" "

Seeing that her mother-in-law took the initiative to make this request, Cheng was quite sorry and quickly said, "There is no hurry." He added, "You should pay more attention to rest and take care of yourself." Zhang was flattered and promised again and again.

Since then, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have become "honored guests." Zhang is careful in everything, and Cheng dare not play tricks on her mother-in-law. She just tries to find time to play with her children. In this way, the family lived a quiet life.

Tragedy!

My mother-in-law who didn't want to go back to her hometown committed suicide.

Time flies. In a blink of an eye, in the summer of 20 1 1, Doudou was two years old. Cheng and her husband discussed and wanted to send Doudou to the private kindergarten next to the community to attend classes. She said worriedly, "Doudou learned a mouthful of Hunan dialect from grandma, and others couldn't understand it." Can't go on like this! "

Liu Yuehai felt the same way, so she went to kindergarten and signed up Doudou. But when Zhang learned that, he whispered discontentedly to his son: "Doudou is only two years old, you are too cruel!" " There are so many children in kindergarten, where can the teacher take care of them? What if Doudou is not full? What if I pee my pants? "Liu Yuehai repeatedly explained that children can learn collective life and knowledge when they go to kindergarten, but the old lady still doesn't want to." You didn't go to kindergarten when you were a child. What is worse than others now? "Liu Yuehai cried with a smile," mom, times are different now. How can children in the city not go to kindergarten? "

No matter how his son explained it, Zhang couldn't figure it out. But it's no use her objecting. On September 1 day, kindergarten started, and Liu Yuehai and his wife insisted on sending their children. It was the activity time in the morning, and everything was fresh. Doudou was very excited and had a good time driving a toy car on the playground. Soon, however, he found that his parents had gone to work and began to cry. Seeing his grandson crying on the playground, Zhang couldn't help crying. The two grandparents looked at each other through the railing and cried their eyes out. The teacher couldn't bear to see it, so he took Doudou into the classroom and then came out to persuade Zhang to go home. "If you stand here and cry, it will affect your child's mood."

But how does Zhang Can Qin Hui get home safely? She stood at the gate of the kindergarten, waiting and waiting in tears. Two hours later, the children came out to do recess exercises. Doudou stopped crying at first, but when she saw grandma crying, she burst into tears again. Zhang was so distressed that he called the teacher and begged, "My grandson has been crying. Please let me take him home!" Embarrassed, the teacher said, "The child is fine in the classroom. If you take him back now, he won't come tomorrow. " But Zhang insisted again and again that the teacher had to send the child out.

In the afternoon, the kindergarten teacher called and told Cheng about the situation. Cheng is very angry. When she got home, she said to Doudou, "Did you play truant today? If you don't go to kindergarten tomorrow, your father will hit you! " Doug immediately burst into tears, "I'm not going to kindergarten! Grandma said, I will never go to kindergarten again! "

Cheng couldn't resist attacking her mother-in-law any longer. "Mom, are you deliberately against me?" The child doesn't go to kindergarten, so you let him go to the countryside to raise pigs and herd sheep? "Zhang said timidly," I think this child is crying pitifully ... "Cheng interrupted her," Every child will not adapt when he first enters kindergarten. If you pick him up as soon as he cries, he will never get used to it! " Zhang said, "Doudou doesn't like going to kindergarten, so don't go to kindergarten!" "Yuehai didn't go to kindergarten ..." Cheng was so angry that he left a sentence "I can't tell you clearly" and went into the bedroom, slamming the door.

When Liu Yuehai came back from work, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were still in the cold war. After learning what happened, he also felt that his mother had done something wrong, but no matter how he persuaded him, Zhang just couldn't figure it out. He said helplessly: "Mom, don't worry about peas going to kindergarten in the future." The teacher will be very good to Doudou, don't worry! "

When his son made the final decision, Zhang had nothing to say. In this way, Doudou was sent to kindergarten every day at the insistence of his parents. After more than ten days, he gradually adapted to the life in kindergarten. However, without his grandson's company, Zhang felt empty, sitting in his room all day in a daze, or standing outside the kindergarten at a distance, secretly watching his grandson cry. ......

Perhaps to make up for the loss in his heart, Zhang dotes on his grandson more. No matter what Doudou wants, she agrees at the first time. In order to make her grandson happy, she buys him snacks every day. Even if Doudou wanted to eat a lollipop before going to bed, she rushed to pass it. Cheng made several suggestions to her, but Zhang still went her own way. It didn't take long for peas to have cavities. Cheng lost his temper and forbade his son to eat candy again, but Zhang secretly bought it for him. ......

What worries Cheng even more is that under grandma's doting, Doudou's character is becoming more and more arrogant. Once, she and her husband took Doudou to the supermarket. Doudou wanted to buy a packet of fudge, but she refused. Doudou was lying on the ground, punching and kicking her and Liu Yuehai. Finally, she grabbed a packet of soft candy and rushed out of the supermarket without waiting for her parents to pay ... After returning home, Doudou complained to her grandmother that Cheng was a bad mother and only her grandmother was a good mother. ......

Similar things happened again and again, and finally Liu Yuehai was alert. He advised his mother not to indulge Doudou's bad habits. Zhang disagreed and said, "Doudou is still young, but it will be fine when he grows up." Liu Yuehai is very helpless.

Once, Cheng couldn't help but say to her husband, "Doudou has already gone to kindergarten, otherwise, let her mother go back and forget it." Otherwise, when will Doudou get rid of bad habits? " Liu Yuehai also felt that it was not the way to go on like this, but he hesitated at the thought of his uncle's suggestion. "Others said at the meeting that we would go back after using mom. I can't afford this crime." The couple discussed it and had no idea.

20 12 One day in early March, when Zhang picked up Doudou from school, he found a shallow scar on his cheek. She was so anxious that she kept asking, "What's the matter? Did you fight? " The teacher told her that when doing exercises, Doudou had a fight with a child named Hanhan and accidentally scratched his face. Zhang said lovingly, "Doug, tell me, who is Han Han?" Grandma came to teach him to stop hitting people! " The teacher quickly advised, "It is common for children to fight. Last time Doudou scratched a little girl's nose! If you overemphasize this matter, it will have a psychological shadow on the child! "

Hearing this, Zhang Yi suddenly got angry and said to the teacher, "What's your attitude? Our monthly salary is more than 1000. Are we sending our children to be beaten? Since you can't be responsible for the children, give us back the tuition and we will go home! " As she spoke, she clamored for the director to complain. Several teachers advised her not to do so.

Later, the teacher in charge of the class told Cheng about it and said sincerely, "Mom Doudou, please advise Grandma!" " Cheng didn't expect her mother-in-law to make a scene in kindergarten for such a trivial matter. She couldn't help being ashamed and angry. What annoys her even more is that from that day on, Doudou came back from school every day, and her mother-in-law carefully "questioned" her for a long time: "Did a child bully you today? Have you been beaten again? Is the teacher bad to you? Don't be afraid, Doudou. Grandma will help you! "

As a result, Doudou soon developed a new habit: the first thing after school every day is to complain to his grandmother: who knocked him down, who robbed his toy, which teacher criticized him and so on. Zhang heard that his grandson had been wronged and went to the teacher every three days to wrangle. He will change classes today and drop out of school tomorrow, which annoys the teacher to death. The teacher had no choice but to communicate with Cheng and said, "It's really no good. Let Doudou transfer to the garden. We really tried our best! "

Neither Cheng nor his wife agreed to move to the park. Liu Yuehai went home to persuade his mother. Unsurprisingly, his persuasion still had no effect. On the evening of April 20th, when Liu Yuehai witnessed his mother's "routine questioning" of Doudou again, he couldn't help it any longer. He struggled to squeeze out a sentence: "Mom, we have three days off on May Day. Let me take you home! "

Zhang suddenly froze. She quickly blushed, kissed Doudou in her arms, and then went into the bedroom. "I'll pack my clothes and leave tomorrow!" "

Zhang really broke her heart. She didn't even wait for her son to have a holiday, so she bought her own ticket and went back to her hometown. Although Liu Yuehai is reluctant, there is nothing he can do. On the third day after his mother came home, he received a phone call from his uncle and was scolded. My uncle told him that Zhang had been indoors since she came home, and she cried all day with a photo of her grandson. "Grandson is her life! She helped you raise your child, but you kicked her out. Do you still have a conscience? "

Liu Yuehai felt a sharp pain in his heart and said, "I will go back to see my mother in a few days after the holiday!" " Uncle said angrily, "If you have a conscience, take your mother back quickly!" "

Liu Yuehai was silent. It's not that he doesn't want to take his mother to the city. He can think of the complaints and grievances of Doudou and his wife, but he can't. In all kinds of entanglements, there came a bad news from his hometown that he regretted for life-on the evening of April 28, his mother committed suicide by drinking pesticides!

Liu Yue Haibo returned to his hometown with his wife and children overnight, but was reviled by the villagers. A neighbor pointed to him educating his young son: "This man married his daughter-in-law and didn't want his mother. You can't learn him when you grow up! " Uncle cried and scolded him: "Your mother was forced to death by you! As soon as she came back, everyone laughed at her, saying that she must have been rejected by her son and daughter-in-law and could not live in the city. She misses her grandson again, crying from morning till night ... "

This accusation is like a knife gouging out Liu Yuehai's heart. He knelt at his mother's grave and kept kowtowing, tears streaming down his face. Cheng never imagined that her mother-in-law had reached a dead end. In remorse, she cried with peas in her arms. ......

After handling the mother's affairs, on the way back to Wuhan, both husband and wife were silent in tears, while the unreasonable Doudou kept asking, "Where's grandma?" Why don't you come home with us? "Answer him, only parents bouts of depressed crying. ......

A few days ago, when the couple were interviewed, their mood was still very heavy. Liu Yuehai said with great regret: "If I had known that my mother was so sad, I wouldn't have let her go back to her hometown ... it's all because we are too selfish!" " Cheng cried and said, "My mother-in-law helped us raise our children. This is really hard work. I am very grateful to her old man. However, who can tell me how to balance the happiness of the elderly in their later years and the healthy growth of their children? "

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