Has the child's sense of humor been cultivated?

Russian writer Chekhov said: People who don't know how to joke are hopeless. Many parents always pay attention to whether their children are obedient and clever, and their academic performance is good. Therefore, the way to educate children may be too harsh, so that children live in a depressed environment. This will ignore the cultivation of children's sense of humor, and even inhibit children's sense of humor. The role of sense of humor

A sense of humor can make children more confident.

Let him laugh at others;

Humor can dilute people's negative emotions,

Eliminate depression and pain;

Humor can relieve tension,

Can bring joy and hope to yourself and others;

Humor can also help children face it positively.

Setbacks and difficulties encountered in life;

Almost everyone likes people with a sense of humor.

Having a sense of humor can make children popular.

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Similarly, a sense of humor can also tactfully help children cope with possible contradictions and criticisms in their later lives:

One night, American President Washington sat by the fireplace and chatted with some guests. Because the fireplace behind him was burning too brightly, Washington felt too hot, so he turned around and sat down facing the fireplace. A guest here joked, "My general, you should boycott the war. How can you be afraid of war? "

Washington smiled and replied, "You are wrong. As a general, I should face the war and accept the challenge. If I use my back to face the war, wouldn't it be that the defeated soldiers fled when they got cold feet? "

If Washington doesn't argue with the guest in this humorous way, he will get off the bus instead. Through this humorous way, we avoided embarrassment and refuted each other well. So it can be seen that a sense of humor is really a very practical and useful quality.

One of the qualities of "surpassing oneself"-sense of humor

Many parents think that a sense of humor is innate.

Actually, it is not.

A sense of humor can be cultivated.

In positive psychology, a sense of humor is one of the qualities of "surpassing oneself". Because humor is a kind of life attitude and wisdom. Want to have a good sense of humor, but also a display of personal comprehensive ability.

In positive psychology, sense of humor is one of the five qualities of "surpassing oneself", which can strengthen the connection between people and the world and make life more meaningful.

So, how to cultivate children's sense of humor?

Cultivation of children's sense of humor

Sense of humor =

Parents' smiles and physical behaviors

In the infancy of children, they will pay attention to their parents' expressions and observe their parents' reactions to events. If parents often smile, the baby will slowly show the smile he learned from his parents to face things. This is the origin of children's sense of humor.

Suggestion:

During this period, parents can do more unexpected behaviors for their children and bring joy to them. Such as: scratching the child's stomach, playing with the child, laughing together, etc.

Sense of humor =

Combine pictures and sounds and say rhythmic words.

In children's language sensitive period, they will like to say something rhythmic. During this period, if parents criticize or laugh at their children's behavior that makes them laugh, it will undoubtedly stifle the development of children's sense of humor.

And as children grow up and have their own friends, they will amuse each other by imitating some funny animated characters or interesting storylines.

Suggestion:

During this period, parents may wish to accompany their children to read children's songs or read interesting and simple picture books, so that children can listen to some funny stories and let their sense of humor grow slowly.

At the same time, parents can laugh with their children when they tell or perform characters and plots that they find interesting.

Cultivate children's sense of humor.

Sense of humor =

Development of expressive ability

After children's language development ability is becoming more and more perfect, they are particularly interested in the use of homophones, puns and riddles in the language.

He will like to tell others jokes he has heard and play interesting word games.

Suggestion:

This stage is a very rapid development stage of children's language expression and vocabulary reserve. At this stage, parents should pay more attention to the cultivation of children's reading ability. This will enable children to accumulate more knowledge, and also need to train their language expression skills, so that children can tell more interesting stories they read.

Reminder:

No matter what stage the child is in, parents should be careful not to let the child go astray in the development of sense of humor. Teasing and mocking are both bad uses, which may not only bring joy, but also annoy others.

Accompanied at four o'clock,

Keep a sense of humor around children.

In the process of parents accompanying their children, we should keep in mind four points to better cultivate their sense of humor in life.

Point 1: Parents become humorous people.

A sense of humor is innate, but it is more important to cultivate it. Children are the continuation of parents' lives and the truest mirror of parents. In a subtle way, many characteristics of parents will reappear in children.

Therefore, to cultivate children's sense of humor, parents should first examine whether they also need to cultivate a sense of humor. At least, you should be able to appreciate humor.

The second point: let children learn to be optimistic and tolerant.

Optimism and tolerance are the core of humor. Be lenient with others and don't haggle with others, and your natural state of mind will be broadened.

At the same time, we should also pay attention to cultivating children's optimistic attitude. If parents can learn to give their children positive encouragement and support and give them strength when they encounter difficulties, then children can deal with problems with correct attitudes and measures, remain optimistic and will not be hit by setbacks.

Point 3: Love and realize life.

Life is full of humor, but it lacks the eyes to find humor. Guiding children to observe and feel life attentively, cultivating insight into things and seeing the world from their own perspective are important aspects to improve humor.

The fourth point: let the children tell interesting things themselves and read humorous and relaxed stories.

Humorous and interesting stories can not only make children like reading in a relaxed and happy atmosphere, but also cultivate their sense of humor. At the same time, the protagonists in many stories are very positive. They have overcome numerous difficulties and obstacles and always treat life optimistically. If children can read more such stories, it will be very helpful to cultivate their optimism.

When children and parents tell interesting stories they have seen or interesting things happening around them, what parents should do is to listen carefully and laugh with their children. If children have enough sense of humor, adults can also guide them to make up humorous stories, adapt them and even add an interesting ending to textbooks, movies or TV plays.