Dink joke

1999, Xie Lan was invited to participate in the TV series Yellow Land, Blue Land.

When she first arrived at the cast, she made a joke.

At that time, Xie Lan didn't know who was the first hero, so he asked the director.

The director casually said, "Shi Xiaohong".

Hearing these three words, Xie Lan frowned and subconsciously asked, "Isn't this a woman?"

As soon as the voice fell, a tall, dark and burly man came in from the outside.

As soon as the director saw it, he immediately stood up and introduced it. The strong man in front of him is Shi Xiaohong, the first hero of the play.

At that moment, Xie Lan was stunned.

From then on, she and Shi Xiaohong's fate were completely linked.

Shi Xiaohong likes Xie Lan very much. After learning that there are two deaf parents in her family, she takes care of her in every way, but Xie Lan always refuses his kindness.

Later, they finally fell in love, got married and decided to be a DINK family together.

At that time, no one expected that when they were 12 years old, Xie Lan got pregnant unexpectedly and gave birth to a son at the age of 39.

Now 10 years have passed. What about Xie Lan who got an unexpected child many years later?

Xie Lan, male, 1973, from Zhenjiang, Jiangsu.

She has had a hard time since she was a child. Because her parents are deaf, she is often laughed at by her classmates.

At the age of eight, Xie Lan practiced gymnastics in the training room of a sports school. Suddenly, several girls broke into the room and pushed her to the ground: "We are using this training room. Go away."

A group of little girls were written with a domineering face. At that time, Xie Lan didn't know why he was bullied like this.

It was not until later that she overheard the little girls talking about their parents.

At that moment, Xie Lan only felt that his self-esteem had been severely hit.

She ran home like crazy. It was just a cry.

The parents saw it and wanted to come forward to comfort, but the daughter simply ignored it. Later, the old couple went to school to investigate and found that it was their daughter who was bullied.

From then on, whenever Xie Jia's parents picked up Xie Lan, they always stood in the distance. They never go near the school or enter the campus. They don't want to give their daughter any trouble.

Xie Lan can feel the subtle changes of her parents. She was also very sad since she was a child, but now she can only become stronger.

She feels that as long as she becomes strong, she will not be bullied and can protect her parents.

So Xie Lan studied hard and practiced gymnastics.

However, just when Xie Lan worked hard and made the greatest progress, fate struck her a fatal blow.

1 1 years old, Xie Lan accidentally fell off the balance beam while practicing gymnastics, resulting in a broken arm.

It immediately ruined her gymnastics career.

During that time, Xie Lan was very sad and helpless. She looked at her parents' hard and tired eyes and decided to help her family share the pain.

So when Xie Lan recovered from her injury, she dragged her luggage out to work.

Xie Jia's parents don't want their daughter to follow in their footsteps. They wanted her to continue studying and enter the university, so they tried to dissuade her.

But at that time, Xie Lan was still young, stubborn as an ox and bent on working.

In desperation, Xie Jia's parents knelt down and cried and begged Xie Lan not to leave.

Looking at his parents' tears, Xie Lan finally gave in.

How can she make her parents sad?

Xie Lan finally understood her parents' thoughts, so she put down her luggage, went back to her room, picked up a book and began to concentrate on her studies.

She secretly vowed that she must let her parents live a good life.

1992, Xie Lan successfully passed the written test and interview of Beijing Film Academy and entered this school with excellent results.

Later, she started the mode of work-study program. She studies hard when she has classes, and goes out to work when she has no classes.

In this way, the burden on parents can finally be reduced.

Later, she was lucky enough to be seen by the director of Brothers and Sisters in the Far Mountains, and she starred in this play, and her acting skills improved a lot.

Then, in her sophomore year, she collaborated with the famous movie star Leslie Cheung in Singing at Midnight, in which she played the heroine Juliet.

At that time, Xie Lan seemed to be shrouded in the light of luck. Not only is the film contract endless, but his income is also increasing.

She was glad that she had listened to her parents and continued studying, otherwise her life would never be as smooth as it is now.

Time flies, and before you know it, Xie Lan is 26 years old.

At that time, girls generally reached this age, and their parents would frantically rush to find a partner.

Xie Lan is no exception.

Every time she goes home, her parents drag her to do all kinds of "investigations" to see if she has anyone.

But every time his parents ask, Xie Lan always shakes his head.

At that time, she was not going to get married. She just wants to stay with her parents all her life and take good care of them.

It was not until she met the actor Shi Xiaohong in the cast of Yellow Land, Blue Land.

At that time, Shi Xiaohong felt that Xie Lan was different from other girls at first sight.

During the break, all the other actresses were chatting, only she sat quietly reading the script and doing her own work.

At that moment, Shi Xiaohong felt that she was "the woman I need".

So from then on, I started the pursuit mode, sending her snacks and fruits. It's like this every day, and it's basically down.

Later, while filming, Xie Lan caught a cold.

When Shi Xiaohong learned this, he rushed to the drugstore and bought a bunch of cold medicine, thinking of sending it to Xie Lan.

Unexpectedly, when he stood at the door of the hotel room, he told Xie Lan that he had come to deliver medicine.

Xie Lan only said: "Thank you, just leave the pharmacy at the door."

A word is like a pot of cold water poured on Shi Xiaohong. He didn't expect to come all the way to deliver medicine. Xie Lan didn't even open the door.

This frustration made Shi Xiaohong feel very sad. He decided to give up pursuing Xie Lan and never stick to his cold ass again.

But fate is wonderful.

A year later, the two met again at the awards party of Yellow Land and Blue Land.

When they met again, they simply said hello, but I didn't expect that here, Shi Xiaohong accidentally learned about Xie Lan's bumpy life experience.

He didn't know that Xie Lan's parents were deaf and dumb, and he didn't know how difficult and sad Xie Lan was along the way.

He loves Xie Lan deeply and wants to take care of her, care for her and even give her a home.

So, Shi Xiaohong got up the courage, asked for Xie Lan's contact information, and told her heroically: "We used to work together, and we were friends. If you have any difficulties in the future, please call me. I am sure! "

Xie Lan nodded politely. She thinks Shi Xiaohong is just a simple greeting. I didn't expect him to do this.

Once Xie Lan wants to move, she is always used to saving money and doesn't want to ask someone from the moving company for help.

But few of her friends are free, so I have to call Shi Xiaohong and ask him if he has time to help.

At that time, Shi Xiaohong only said four words, "I'll be right there."

It's too late to say now

Shortly after the phone hung up, Shi Xiaohong appeared in front of Xie Lan.

On that day, Shi Xiaohong helped Xie Lan, and Xie Lan invited him to eat a meal, and their feelings rose a big step.

With this experience, Shi Xiaohong will never forget Xie Lan.

No matter what he is doing, his first thought is Xie Lan.

He sends messages to Xie Lan every day, but Xie Lan only replies occasionally and is not enthusiastic.

Because at that time, Xie Lan didn't have much affection for Shi Xiaohong, just regarded him as a friend.

Later, one night in 2000, Shi Xiaohong and his friends had an accident on their way to dinner.

Although it's no big deal, but the thrilling scene, let Shi Xiaohong dying in my heart.

So he immediately picked up the phone and called Xie Lan. He sincerely told Xie Lan:

"Just had an accident, suddenly feel that people's life is really short. I want to tell you my heart, and I don't want to leave regrets. You are the girl I have always liked. I want to be with you and marry you. Will you? "

Shi Xiaohong proposed as soon as he came up, which surprised Xie Lan. After all, they hadn't started dating at that time, just friends.

However, Shi Xiaohong's words really touched her, and her heart was pounding.

During this time, Shi Xiaohong was very kind to her, and Xie Lan didn't feel anything, but when she thought of her parents, a word suddenly came to her mind: "Will he mind my family?"

This sentence made Xie Lan feel a little inferior, so she refused Shi Xiaohong.

However, Xiaohong is not a person who will give up when he encounters setbacks. He just doesn't want to let go of the person he likes easily.

So when he heard that Xie Lan was going to film in Jiangxi, he specially invited the director of the play out, saying that he didn't want a pay, and he didn't care about the number of plays. He just wanted a role.

He just wants to continue to approach Xie Lan and prove that he is sincere with his actions.

In this way, Shi Xiaohong successfully squeezed into the crew and became colleagues with Xie Lan again.

Knowing that Xie Lan likes noodles, he took the initiative to be a chef of the crew, making noodles, minced meat noodles, mixed noodles and so on in various ways.

During that time, Xie Lan gained a few pounds because of overeating.

Perhaps it was because Shi Xiaohong was so cute that when he confessed again, Xie Lan agreed.

Just before agreeing to him, Xie Lan asked Shi Xiaohong a question: "Do you mind knowing my family situation?"

Hearing this, Shi Xiaohong was a little unhappy: "You don't believe that I will be good to you and your family?"

Shi Xiaohong eyes firm, let Xie Lan once again affirmed his heart, she believed him.

Originally, I thought that after the couple got together, the relationship between them would change from strong to dull.

Surprisingly, Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong didn't.

After being together, Shi Xiaohong's love for Xie Lan can be said to be invisible to all.

On one occasion, Shi Xiaohong's friend Liu Jiaoxin went to discuss the script with him, but he was scared as soon as he entered the room.

The whole wall and door are covered with photos of Xie Lan.

At that time, Liu Jiaoxin was still very strange. Who is this girl?

Hearing this question, Shi Xiaohong immediately stood up and replied proudly: "This is my girlfriend Xie Lan!"

At that time, none of them knew. The brief communication between Shi Xiaohong and Liu Juexin made Liu Juexin a noble in Xie Lan.

After that day, a director named Wang Wei found Liu Jiaoxin and asked him to help find a heroine in a new play.

Hearing this, Liu Jiaoxin immediately thought of Xie Lan. She is beautiful and can act, so he introduced her to Wang Wei.

Later, Xie Lan successfully appeared in the drama "Winter", and later she won the "China Film Observation Award for Outstanding Actress" for this work.

Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong had always had a good relationship during their love, but seeing that Shi Xiaohong was getting old, he suddenly proposed to Xie Lan again.

At first, Xie Lan hesitated. After all, she never wanted to get married.

Later, I learned that Shi Xiaohong made that promise: "I will be good to you and be good to you all my life."

This sentence is like a warm lamp, Xie Lan's heart suddenly lit up.

In 2000, 27-year-old Xie Lan took 1 1 year-old Shi Xiaohong into the marriage hall.

After marriage, they are like two children who don't grow up, and they often joke together.

Once, when Xie Lan came home, Shi Xiaohong heard his wife's footsteps outside the door, so he hid in the cupboard and played hide-and-seek with her to scare her.

At that time, Xie Lan knew nothing about it. When he got home, he sent a message to Shi Xiaohong, but no one answered the phone. He is very worried.

Just when she was worried and scared, Shi Xiaohong suddenly jumped out of the cupboard and said helplessly, "You can suppress me. I've been hiding for a long time and you haven't found me. "

Moreover, as long as Xie Lan is still filming after marriage, Shi Xiaohong will always accompany her.

On Valentine's Day, Xie Lan happened to be filming in the country, and there were no restaurants and flower shops around.

Originally, Xie Lan would miss this Valentine's Day, but Shi Xiaohong insisted on giving her a sense of ceremony.

So he ran all over the countryside and finally ran to a vegetable market.

Seeing that there were cucumber flowers on the cucumbers sold in the vegetable market, he bought a bucket for Xie Lan.

When he saw the cucumber flowers, Xie Lan was really in distress situation.

Although the cucumber flower looks a little sad, she likes it very much. She likes Shi Xiaohong's sense of ceremony and Shi Xiaohong's concern for her.

Shi Xiaohong's mother was puzzled to see her husband and wife so close.

She took her son aside and asked sadly, "You have been married for so long and have such a good relationship. Why not have a baby? "

In fact, both married people made it clear that they didn't want children very much. Because of the relationship between the career and the elderly at home, I was afraid that they would be too distracted to take care of the children, so I agreed to be a Dink family together.

But fate didn't give them this chance at all.

On 20 12, the couple who insisted on dink 12 ushered in a surprise.

Xie Lan got pregnant unexpectedly.

The sudden arrival of the child surprised both Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong.

Two people stared at each other, you looked at me, I looked at you, and finally asked in unison, "What should I do?"

Maybe it was a heart-to-heart, and then they unanimously decided to have the baby.

Xie Lan and Shi Xiaohong both think that this is a treasure given to them by God, so they should cherish it instead of throwing it away.

So 39-year-old Xie Lan gave birth to her child by caesarean section at the risk of an elderly woman.

The child is a boy, and his name is Bowles.

The little guy is cute and strong, and the most important thing is that he is bald like his father.

At that time, Xie Lan was on the show, and the host asked her if she didn't mind the hairstyles of her husband and son.

Xie Lan said, "I like their bald heads. They are very energetic. " .

Perhaps Xie Lan's words touched his heart. Since then, Shi Xiaohong has shaved off his hair, leaving only Xie Lan and his favorite side.

As the saying goes, love is contagious.

Their son saw Shi Xiaohong's love for Xie Lan.

So as long as the balls are ready to go out, they will always say to Xie Lan, "Mom, I love you more today than yesterday."

Every time I hear this sentence, Xie Lan's heart becomes a pool of water.

On the contrary, Danzi's attitude towards his father Shi Xiaohong is different.

As long as Shi Xiaohong goes out, Danzi will tell him, "Come back early from work, don't let mom worry."

Hearing these words, Shi Xiaohong was both happy and jealous.

Xie Lan is the baby of their family.

It seems that as long as she is here, there is happiness.

Later, with the growth of his son's age, Xie Lan reduced a lot of work and devoted himself to his children. Sometimes she takes her son to see his parents.

She taught her son sign language and told him to be polite. With a little accumulation, Xie Lan took care of his life with relish.

In order to take better care of his family, Shi Xiaohong also reduced his work and only accepted some positive and meaningful scripts.

Because he knew he wanted to make a good impression on his son.

By the end of 2022, Xie Lan will be 49 years old. Today, the relationship between her and Shi Xiaohong is still as good as when they were in love.

They often take their sons out for travel and holidays.

This is not to teach children how to enjoy life, but to teach them to broaden their horizons and see the outside world more.

Looking back on Xie Lan's experience, she is really a strong and difficult woman.

For deaf parents, she tries her best to help them share the pressure and study hard to repay their parents.

At that time, her heart was lonely. She never thought that she would get married and have children, or even have a happy family in the future.

Until Shi Xiaohong appeared.

Shi Xiaohong's persistence, warmth, care and love made Xie Lan feel warm from the heart.

So when two people are together, life is still very tasty.

Later, although they agreed to be a Dink family, they were not unhappy when their son appeared, but the whole family was very happy.

Times are changing. For many families, children are not the only way to create happiness, but the appearance of one child is enough to make the whole family complete.

The world is so big, it is not easy for people with children. Cherish the people in front of you and cherish the happy time now.